A year ago I was told I'm going blind (RP) and now I've lost my ambitions and motivations. Any help, suggestions, etc?(self.Blind)
submitted by remigusvarg
Would be greatly appreciated... Every time I think about the future and get my hopes up, the thought off me being blind always brings me down. Mainly since all of my qualifications, aspirations and hobbies are sight-related
mrg3rry5 points7y ago
When i was 21 I was told I WILL be blind before I turn 30, I am 41 and still have pretty good vision. I also have RP.
I do not see RP as a sentence of becoming blind as there is no cure as of yet, but I have adapted it to my life style and not adapting my life style to it...
RP is tough because not two people with RP will have the same ee sight...
You should see if there any goups in your area such as the Canadian Council of the Blind, unless you not in canada, being around others going throuth vision losss will hlp, you can learn from others and even teach others...
Vaelian3 points7y ago
At least you are lucky that a vector for a cure is already under $1.
randylove691 points7y ago
Wow, I didn't know about this, just made my day that there could be hope in the future. Cheers!
claudettemonet2 points7y ago
Hi. I was just diagnosed with RP. They won't tell me how much time I have. I am a painter. My medium is oil. I oscillate between feeling like I am running a race with time in which I furiously paint and hustle to find a new direction in life that will be able to support me, and feeling like I am deflating. All the air just escapes. I collapse in a sad heap on my couch and I do anything to not listen to the voices of doom in my head. I play video games, listen to hours upon hours of ASOIAF theories, and drink (or smoke). And when I can't drown out the doom, I cry and go to sleep.
Some days I wake up and I feel like I am unstoppable, like I am happening to RP. Cause if this is happening it is happening my way, I am going to be in charge, I am going to live my life on my terms. I happen to life! Life doesn't happen to me!
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But of course there are the other days.... I hate those days, and RP and the future and lost dreams and the fear. I hate it all.
I don't have a single shred of advice. I just want you to know I am there too... and a song recommendation for you, when you are feeling down: "The Heart of Life"
laconicflow2 points7y ago
You aren't the first to go blind, you won't be the last. At least you aren't in a wheelchair or mentally retarded or fully paralyzed. I know loads of blind music producers. I'm a blind rapper. Technology is your friend. I buy groceries online with peapod. I read the NewYork times every morning. Lately I've been on reddit. I have a guide dog. Make the adjustment, you'll be fine. Stiff upper lip.
Nighthawk3211 points7y ago
What are your hobbies that are sight related?
remigusvarg [OP]1 points7y ago
Graphic design and music production is my main source of income, both requiring computers, also photography, art, pretty meh
Nighthawk3211 points7y ago
While I do agree that most of those are fairly visual, music production is definitely not. Your reason is because of computers, but oddly enough, most blind people are better at computers than the average person. I have many blind friends who are amazing musicians and producers, from classical piano to dubstep.
SWaspMale1 points7y ago
I knew a guy in SC who had RP. He kept working, with aid of a CCTV-like gadget to enlarge things. I think he also kept his hobbies of woodworking and religion. IDK how he managed the commute.
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