> the blond community is especially cool.
There's a blond joke here, and I'm not going to make it. No need to thank me! :-)
> The only other community I know of like this is the deaf community and, at least in my area, it's very well advertised and pretty well integrated.
Well, I'm not sure that the two communities can be compared effectively. Deaf people have challenges communicating that blind people just don't experience. Sure, 80% of in-person communication is via body language. But never the less, blind people don't need an interpreter just to order fast food, for example. I don't know much about deaf people, admittedly. But I feel like the blind community exists, online at least, as a thing that blind people can choose to join or ignore. Whereas the deaf community is a thing that all deaf people are more or less forced into, just by the nature of the way they communicate. Braille is not a different language; it's just another way of representing the letters A through Z. But sign language is basically a community speaking another language, and thus it develops another culture. I don't think we really have a "blind culture" to that extent.
> I still find the death industry fascinating,
Yikes! Not me! If there are bodies, count me right out! I can't even deal with it when my cat brings me a dead mouse.
> going into the bathroom with a bunch of dudes
And I thought my 3 years in freelance web development and tech support were bad. Sure, I got called by angry people at midnight who yelled at me, but at least I never had to watch anyone pissing.
Seriously though, good luck with your career. I did the university thing, and it didn't help me at all. If it encourages you, I'm happily building a career in something that has nothing to do with what I went to uni for.
> The Terry Brooks books are awesome,
We're going to have to disagree there. Terry Brooks is one of those fantasy authors who writes the same book over and over and over again, just changes the names of things and sometimes the order of events. Nothing wrong with that, but it's definitely hack fantasy.
> I've only ever read intentionally shitty fanfic, so I'd be curious to see what you read.
Oh, I love shitty fanfic, too! My immortal can make me laugh to this day.
What are your primary fandoms? The thing about fanfic is a fanfic based on something you've never read/watched will usually make absolutely no sense. I'll recommend you some of the fics I liked best, but I have really strange taste. The bit in the sidebar that calls me a "fanfic fanatic" is telling the absolute truth! Odds are you won't enjoy any of these:
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$1: You need to be familiar with either Dan Vs. or My Little Pony: Friendship Is Magic to enjoy this. You also need enough time to read something that's almost a million words of thinly justified cartoonish violence. It manages to make me laugh out loud at least once per chapter though, so it's earned it's place on my list of most loved fics.
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$1: this was the fanfic that got me interested in Firefly. If you're familiar with Harry Potter, you might enjoy this; knowing things about Firefly isn't a requirement.
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$1: It's a Discworld and Johnny Maxwell trilogy crossover. If neither of those names mean anything to you, neither will this.
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$1: It's a Twilight fanfic. NO, COME BACK! It's also a good story. It's almost good enough that I can forgive the Twilight novels for existing. But...not quite. Even if you haven't read Twilight, you can still enjoy this.
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$1: A Dead Like Me and Buffy The Vampire Slayer crossover. You need to love Dead Like Me, Buffy is optional. It's also the best Dead Like Me fic ever written; it's the only one where I can hear the main characters voice in my head as I'm reading.
OK, that's probably enough to start. My entire list of favourite fics actually contains 79 stories. But the sample above represents every fandom I read.