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I have a crush on a sighted person (self.Blind)
submitted by Raf_AL
I've seen a few posts from people that can see perfectly, trying to get a blind persons attention. Now I'd like to flip the coin. How do I, as a visually impaired person, show that I like a girl, without being too obvious. I don't want to creep her out so touching is not an option :)
I have some vision in my eyes, so I've been able to tell her she's cute, after taking a look at her profile picture on social medias. She knows I'm visually impaired, so that won't be too hard to explain to her.
Everything you can help me with is much appreciated.
Thanks in advance.
I have some vision in my eyes, so I've been able to tell her she's cute, after taking a look at her profile picture on social medias. She knows I'm visually impaired, so that won't be too hard to explain to her.
Everything you can help me with is much appreciated.
Thanks in advance.
Nighthawk321 4 points 6y ago
Unfortunately, trying to get a girl's attention when you're blind is difficult. Depending how old you are and how old she is, she may only know you as the blind guy. Are you two friends yet? If not, I suppose just sell yourself to her. Indirectly let her know that you have many good qualities that aren't hindered by your blindness. Once you do that, there's nothing else you can do than to lay all your cards on the table, ask her on a date, and go from there.
Raf_AL [OP] 4 points 6y ago
I'm 24, she's 20. We haven't been close friends for a long time, but she knows who I am since I graduated a few years before her. At the time not that many blind people had graduated from that school. I was the 1st to do it :) I've shown her I'm a nice guy, when I was the only person, who asked If I owe her something, after she gave me and a few friends a Ride home from the bar. Let's just say I was the only one sober in that car, except for her of course.
Nighthawk321 2 points 6y ago
Oh that's cool. I just say go for it. If nothing else, she'll appreciate that you had the balls to do it.
R1ckx 1 points 6y ago
I really hope this works out for you! Best of luck
Raf_AL [OP] 5 points 6y ago
h8 to disapoint you but I just got rejected. we are still friends tho Thanks 4 the support
R1ckx 1 points 6y ago
Oh dude that sucks.. If you need some emotional support don't be afraid to pm me
cookiemanluvsu 3 points 6y ago
Just go for it dude. Whatever happens it will be a good learning experience. Don't live in the world of regret, go for it.
claudettemonet 2 points 6y ago
Just get comfortable with rejection. The worst thing a person can say is no! That is not that bad! So if you ask out 10 girls and only one says yes, who cares! You have a date! Woohoo!
The more you ask the better you will be at itasking, but also the more you ask the greater the chances of someone saying yes. Play the odds! As the Chinese say 加油!!! You can do it, persist!
The more you ask the better you will be at itasking, but also the more you ask the greater the chances of someone saying yes. Play the odds! As the Chinese say 加油!!! You can do it, persist!
Raf_AL [OP] 1 points 6y ago
Well I've been rejected 2 times now and I've had crushes on 7. It already felt much easier just saying "I have a crush on you" the second time, And it didn't feel so bed being rejected this time. Now I'm just afraid I'm a emotionless psycho,. It almost felt too easy to get over it this time. Hopefully it's just because I didn't wait that long to say something.
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