Why do some blind people "look" at the person they're speaking to, while others don't?(self.Blind)
submitted by WantonWontonWalton
I've been too awkward to ask the blind people in my life, but somehow asking blind strangers on the Internet is ok.
I've observed that some blind people have the same eye movements as sighted people: they will "look" in the direction of the person they're talking to, they'll look down occasionally, or look up when they're trying to remember something, stuff like that. But other blind people will just look straight ahead, or their eyes will wander aimlessly.
Does this have to do with if whether someone ever had their sight, or the specific kind of/cause of blindness?
Thanks a bunch and let me know if anything I said is incorrect/weird/ignorant!
modulus9 points6y ago
I'm blind and I think that's a good question. Speaking for myself I was taught to look in the general direction of people I'm talking to, but I of course can't resolve with enough precision to look at their face/eyes. I also am blind more or less from birth, so my eyes kind of do their own thing and I have very little to no autonomous control over them. It may be different perhaps for people who had sight before, I don't know.
WantonWontonWalton [OP]2 points6y ago
thank you for your answer!
PhotoJim997 points6y ago
One other factor: some blind people aren't entirely blind. They may be able to see where you are, even if it's with very little detail. It's easy for them to look at you because they don't have to locate you exclusively via sound.
Other blind people see no detail at all, or see literally nothing (a friend of mine lacks eyeballs completely), so they can only "look" via hearing. They'll have a pretty good idea where you are, but if they lost their sight young, it won't be their instinct to look straight at you as that's a bit of a learned behaviour.
Interestingly, I've learned over the years not to worry about making eye contact with my blind friend, because she can't tell anyway :)
lazy_state_worker4 points6y ago
On this note, people who aren't completely blind may have lost central vision from something like mac degeneration. They often have to turn their head away from you and rely on their peripheral vision.
PhotoJim992 points6y ago
Good point.
WantonWontonWalton [OP]2 points6y ago
thanks for the answer! i know some people have some partial sight, but I didn't even think about how some people would be able to sort of see the person they're talking to.
PhotoJim994 points6y ago
Yes, many blind people are not completely blind. They may not have terribly useful sight (e.g. could not read) but may still be able to see where a person is relative to themselves.
Marconius7 points6y ago
I had vision for 30 years before losing it two years ago, so I still possess all of my sighted conversation traits. I still do my best to look in the direction of whoever I am speaking with in order to remain engaged in the conversation, although sometimes I will turn my head so that I may hear them better, but ultimately I just personally feel that it's impolite not to look at the person I'm talking to just out of habit.
WantonWontonWalton [OP]2 points6y ago
hey thanks for answering!
BaginaJon5 points6y ago
As a teacher of the blind and visually impaired, it suggests to me a lack of social skills if a blind adult is not looking toward the voice or person he is speaking/listening to. Of course, though, it's not always that simple an answer.
Vaelian3 points6y ago
I've never looked at people while talking to them, not even when I had sight, because it's pointless and I hate to smell other people's breathes when they are close.
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