I'm not blind nor do I wear glasses, but the only advice that I can give on the glasses is to test out all of the your options multiple times, then narrow down to whatever works best for you. Everyone's eyes are different.
VR should help with job training - just apply. Ticket to Work Program
$1 I don't see why your master's would get in the way since that training isn't suitable anymore.
In case you're wondering about future employment, here are some ideas: Cook, counselor, financial analyst, software engineer, marketing, politician, journalist, social worker, therapist, rehab teacher. My favorite is engineering because the pay is great, and you can work from home :p
Places to live: Indiana (Indianapolis, Carmel, Fishers, Lawrence, Greenwood, Noblesville, Fort Wayne, Evansville, Westfield).
Michigan (Detroit, Grand Rapids, Okemos, Ann Arbor, Troy, Lansing).
Mississippi (Jackson, Gulfport, Madison, Southhaven, Biloxi, Hattiesburg)
Arkansas (Little Rock, Fayetteville, Springdale, Fort Smith, Jonesboro, Rogers, Bentonville)
These are all some of the cheapest states as well as the transportation. If I were to reccomend somewhere to move it would closer to your brothers (or other family? is moving closer to wife's family an option as well?)
" I am not ready to stop working permanently, but I need to make some changes in my situation to accommodate my disability" You're a badass lol. 100% the correct mentality and attitude.