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I’d rather be blind than deaf (self.Blind)
submitted by kromagnom
If i had the choice of course. Hearing Beethoven’s 9th performed in a concert hall or the sounds of my children’s voices is not something i think I’d want to live without. I feel like my imagination would help fill in the visual aspect of things if I was blind.

Question for the completely blind: is your imagination very vivid? Does it help to create a living “picture” of the moment?
Terry_Pie 4 points 5y ago
It's funny, I'm of the understanding most people consider being blind the worst disability. Every blind person I've spoken to though (myself included) agrees that being deaf would be worse.
kromagnom [OP] 2 points 5y ago
Haha so true. Every friend I’ve ever brought this subject up with has insisted they would rather be deaf than blind. I say no way and believe deeply that sounds create our environment in ways we don’t fully understand.

I’m curious though if your imagination gets more vivid when you’re blind.
fastfinge 3 points 5y ago
One thing nobody has mentioned is the social issues. When you're blind, you can still converse with people around you. When you're deaf, that gets a lot harder.
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DeafBlindAndy 3 points 5y ago
Really it's about what you're used to, you can adjust to nearly everything and the unknown is always scary. With the added complication that so many of the adjustments in life you make for one of the two rely on the other, eg lip reading or road crossings that make noises. The sum s definitely worse than the parts.

I think many people do take their hearing for granted. Perhaps because every time you close your eyes you experience a little bit of blindness but you'd have to make a bit of an effort and purposefully block your ears to simulate deafness

Source: born deaf, lost sight progressively from teens. Being told that I was going blind was the worst thing I could imagine. Given the choice I'd go for deaf over blind by a long way.
rollwithhoney 1 points 5y ago
I was going to say, the deaf community doesn't consider deafness to be a disability. I thinkm part of that might ve because loss of hearing is more often genetic at birth than loss of vision. And you can imagine sound just as easily (if you lose it after having it) as you can imagine sight
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ajwhitely 1 points 5y ago
Yeah, this is sort of the response I would've expected. I guess it just comes down to what we're used to / what our priorities and interests are. For example, music is HUGE for me (listening to some right now). I can't and don't want to imagine a world without it. Same thing for the voices and laughs of my friends, family etc., I think I'd go crazy in a silent world where I couldn't hear any of that, of course because I'm not used to it.


Admittedly I'm only legally blind and still have a fair bit of usable vision so maybe I can't comment fully. But still, I'm used to not being able to see in many situations and it just feels normal to me. Losing my hearing, (even if it returned my vision) is something I don't think I could deal with.
kromagnom [OP] 1 points 5y ago
I can imagine the visuals if I went blind. I’d soon forget the way music sounded if I went deaf. I guess I just get turned on by sounds.
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kromagnom [OP] 1 points 5y ago
I’m curious about your memory of sounds. Music and laughter and joy.
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quanin 2 points 5y ago
1. It's going to depend on the person, if by "imagine" you mean "visualize". You can't imagine what purple looks like if you've never seen it, for example.
2. We all think the disability(ies) we don't have are the worst thing possible. I've had people tell me they have no idea how I do what I do, given the fact I have absolutely no useable vision whatsoever. I've had to point out that when you've been blind for 30+ years and it's all you know, you get real good at doing all kinds of things real quick, because you don't have an option. I know deaf people who get by just fine. I know deafblind people who get by just fine, some of whom would happily spend the next hour explaining to you the oh so many ways in which you could not be more wrong if you were to suggest otherwise.
3. That post title. Oh, good god damn that post title. Please do better.
ajwhitely 2 points 5y ago
Yep agree, would much rather be blind than deaf. I guess the vision problems are just something we're used to though. Would be interesting to ask the deaf community as I imagine the results would be the opposite. Although there's not really any right or wrong answer to the question.
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Ramildo 1 points 5y ago
My imagination is so vivid that I actually hallucinate about seeing the world around me when, in fact, I have no vision left.

If I could choose I would rather have gone deaf, because that wouldn't have an impact in my ability to code and I don't really care about social interaction.
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