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Blind redditors, what do you do for vacations/holidays? (self.Blind)
submitted by ZombieAlpacaLips
I don't personally know anyone who's blind, so I'm wondering what sort of things you like to do when you have time off? What are your favorite destinations, or do you generally spend vacation time at home? If you do travel, are people usually good at accommodating your needs? What are your best, worst, and typical travel experiences? Thanks!
FrankenGretchen 11 points 5y ago
Blind folks don't sit home unless they have to or want to. I'm cool with reading and whatnot but vacations are for vacationing so, when I have the funds, I'm outta here.

I go home to NYC whenever I can. I also like the Outer Banks or rock hunting expeditions.

We planned an epic adventure up through New England this year but had to cancel for health reasons. This would've included a NH observatory, Niagara Falls, Portland, ME and of course, NYC.

I took my son to California when he was little. We went to SeaWorld and the San Diego Zoo and all over the place between Oceanside and San Diego. I took him to Dayton and WPAFB, too.
EndlessReverberation 7 points 5y ago
My wife and I go on skeet trips a few times a year. We are part of an organization that consist of both blind and sighted skiers. We pair up, so the sighted skiers can act as guides for the blind skiers; there are also hiking and kayaking trips.

We visit family a few times a year. Personally, I dread going through airports as a blind person. They can be tricky to get through, but the chief reason I dread them is you never know how the employees are going to be, and some of them are extremely difficult to deal with.

PS I also travel for work a few times a year, which has me take the Gray Hound.
somewhoever 2 points 5y ago
I notice the annual ACB conference is at a different major travel destination every year.

I assume it is a vacation because that's a great marriage.

* There are already around a thousand attendees who are visually impaired or dedicated to supporting them.
* there's an entire logistical support structure that has to be put in place to accommodate the visually impaired with volunteers, transportation, guide dog accommodations...
* there's an opportunity for community interaction, socializing, and safety in numbers
* there are many entertainment activities like audio described movies, mixers, tours of local sights and experiences all based out of a single hotel

I just kind of assumed that many people who are blind treated those types of conferences as vacations. Am I wrong?
silverclaud22 1 points 5y ago
Hey! Thanks for answering my question! I have more questions. When you say follow head to tail is that literal? Porr horse if he has to keep his head at the other one’s tail the whole time. Lol Or is that more figuratiiive, like they follow the other horse’s tail but at a distance?? Is it like the horse rides where the horses stay in a line and walk the whole way? I’d love to try horseback riding, but I’d definitely want to gallop. Can you gallop if the horse is following head to tail? Do you think a person could get by riding if another person were verbally giving them direction, like left, straight, turn around? Could you teach a horse to follow voice commands? Lol sorry like i said I know nothing.

Now I will answer your questions. I meant to but I forgot. Sorry. I still have some useable vision, not totally blind, but probably less than you because you can see there is a horse in front of you on the trail. I probably could as well, but it depends on how far ahead they are and the lighting conditions and so on. I have never travelled alone, unless you count the airport stuff. I’ve been through airports alone, but not destinations. I’m hoping to do that this year sometime. Working on building up the courage.

I like to do things on vacation rather than look at things. Museums aren’t my thing unless there is an awesome tour guide that is an excellent story teller. In Colorado I went hiking, zip lining, and had a craft beer tour, such fun! The hiking in the rockies was a little tough, partly because I’m blind and partly because I’m a flat lander from Florida. Lol The zip lining was great! Best travel experience was at the zip line place. They give you gloves to quote protect you unquote in case you decide to reach up and grab the steel cable while you are going fifty miles an hour for some stupid reason. Lol I think the gloves are more like mittens than protection though. Anyways, I was having a really hard time fumbling with the gloves cause I couldn’t feel anything. One of the guys noticed and offered me his fingerless gloves, which I happily accepted. Made the whole experience so much better! I was really impressed because it was so thoughtful of him to offer just by observing.

Worst experience... there aren’t very many. Only thing that stands out in my mind is when people think I’m faking. I’ve had a TSA agent tell me that he knew I wasn’t blind because he saw me playing with my phone while I was in line. I then explained to him that I still had some useable vision and that I had a bluetooth ear bud in telling me what was on the screen. He quickly apologized. I had another TSA agent ask me if i was blind where was my cane. I then told him that blind people don’t need to use their canes when they are being wheeled about the airport in a wheelchair so I had left it folded up in my backpack. Again, a quick apology. Other times I’ve heard flight attendants talking and saying stuff like I don’t think she’s really blind, look at how she looks around at stuff. Lol I just try to ignore it.

I think mostly in first world countries travelling is fine. I would worry about showing peoploe that I am blind in a third world country though. Primarily if I was alone. I wouldn’t want to make myself a target. Most people are very kind and helpful when they find out. Some people are awkward and weird, but that’s okay because sometimes I’m awkward and weird about it. Either way as long as you are clear about what you need and what you don’t need they’re fine. Like please don’t drag me around by my arm as if I’m a child. Lol Some day I’d like to try rock climbing, skiing, snowboarding, maybe surfing, and horseback riding. Hope this helps!
ZombieAlpacaLips [OP] 1 points 5y ago
> When you say follow head to tail is that literal?

Trail riding horses will follow each other at a distance that they feel comfortable, and I'd guess it's very rare that they'd literally be touching head to tail. The rides I've been on the horses are usually about 10-20 feet apart -- less if they're going slow, more if they're going fast. Some horses are slow or lazy and will hold back 100 feet if you let them. I'm no equestrian, but I don't think you could convince a horse to gallop if they don't have enough space in front of them to stop safely. They don't want to crash into another horse any more than you do.

> I’d love to try horseback riding, but I’d definitely want to gallop.

Horseback riding is really great, and even though I'm fully sighted it's definitely an experience for touch, sound, and smell. I'd advise against tasting, but to each his own!

You may have trouble finding a riding stable that will let you gallop the horse, since it's more dangerous, especially for inexperienced riders. Their insurance may not allow them to, and if you're blind they'll likely be even more hesitant to allow it. You may have better luck if you find a farmer with horses who will let you ride in an enclosed area until both you are comfortable enough to gallop. If there's an equestrian club in your area they might be able to help you find something.

If you go to a riding stable, you should definitely let the stable know when you make your appointment that you're blind and have not ridden before, so they can pick a horse suited to you. They'll have a guide riding a horse in front of you, holding a long rope attached to your horse, so that your horse can be controlled by the guide. That's how they do it for young riders.

As far as I know, horses aren't trained to turn left or right by voice command. You get them to turn by gently pulling their reins to the left or right. You can also get the horse to stop or even walk backward by sitting back in the saddle a bit.

> Lol I just try to ignore it.

Yeah, people can be inconsiderate, but I think that's mostly just their inexperience. If they're not used to working with blind people, or really anything different from what they're used to, there's a good chance they'll speak before they think through what they're saying. I've heard of deaf people being handed braille menus at restaurants, for example. I don't even know what those people think you would have to gain by faking blindness anyway.

> I would worry about showing people that I am blind in a third world country though. Primarily if I was alone.

That's a good point. As a foreigner you're already a target, and if they know you're blind they'll know they won't have to worry about you retaliating with a gun or something, or you being able to identify them as easily if they're arrested later.
silverclaud22 1 points 5y ago
Some space between the horses makes sense, but I didn’t want to assume. Lol Really great info. I didn’t know they could give you a guide that would hang on to a rope to make sure you don’t get off track. Kinda like driver’s ed for horseback riding. Very nice, I like that. You make a good point about insurance as well. I’ll definitely keep all your tips in mind for when the time comes. And even though I was seriously considering it, I’ll take your advice and not taste the horses lol too funny.

I agree that people are just ignorant and not malicious. I think the flight attendants assume I am faking to get on the plane first. Primo spot for my carry-on and all I need to do is fake being blind! Lol just silly if you actually take the time to think it through. Or maybe I just seem like I am desperate for attention. I dunno.

Thanks for the mini lesson on horses!!
silverclaud22 1 points 5y ago
very cool! Thank you I personally like to relax on vacations. That and doing stuff like hiking, zip lines, and eating delicious food and drinks. Some time I would like to go skiing, horseback riding, and rock climbing. Stuff I can do is better than stuff I need to look at
OutWestTexas 1 points 5y ago
I usually go to the beach or on some kind of big trailride with my horse.
silverclaud22 1 points 5y ago
I have never had the opportunity to be around horses much, so I apologize if these are stupid questions. Does your horse follow the other horses in the group? Are there trails that your horse or you know well enough to ride them on your own?
OutWestTexas 1 points 5y ago
I ride with a group of friends. We ride in some rugged parts of central and west texas. My horse stays with the group but I still have to ride him. He doesn’t follow head to tail. My friends are pretty good about warning me about low branches or places he might jump over something. I am not completely blind so I can see there is a horse in front of me on the trail.
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