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Hey i have a little brother of age 6 and he is blind and so bored all the time. (self.Blind)
submitted by jawad2001
hi so this post is me wondering how to help my little brother get not so bored all the time (excuse my bad english...) so i tried to help in everyway possible but all he does is watches a tv show in youtpube over and over all the time
he does not know how to read he only knows basic words so he can t read books and he gets boredvery quicly veryyyyyyyy rapidly... he listens to radio when soccer matches are on other wise he doesn t do you have any suggestions as how he can be amused most of the time .and also he depends on his imagination very much on daily basis
macncheeseballz 8 points 4y ago
This might sound strange, but learning how to navigate the grocery store was really fun for me and helped me to get out of the house sometimes. There was a Kroger by my house and I learned how to get there, browse the isles, understand brands and labels, and I generally had a good time. Also, going to parks was fun and I always loved monkey bars.
jawad2001 [OP] 3 points 4y ago
he is 6 years of age ....
itisisidneyfeldman 8 points 4y ago
With this response are you saying that 6 is too young to leave the house? It's definitely not too early. /u/macncheeseballz was probably not much different in age when having this experience.
jawad2001 [OP] 3 points 4y ago
it is too early for him ....
itisisidneyfeldman 7 points 4y ago
If he's as smart as you describe in your other comments, he must be bored out of his mind sitting at home. Don't you think he would welcome a chance to move around and see something new? There are many examples (including in the responses in this thread) of blind children moving around outside at this age. Ask him, and make sure you or a parent supervise him for safety, but give him the opportunity instead of making the decision for him.
itisisidneyfeldman 6 points 4y ago
You say your brother spends most of his time listening to the radio or YouTube. That suggests he is at home most of the time.

The instinct for a lot of families with blind kids is to protect them by keeping them at home. However, especially at his age it could be important to get him out of the house and moving around. If you can, take him with you when leaving the house for walks or to run errands, or have other family members take him. He'll learn the sounds, textures, temperatures, smells and tastes of the nearby world. He'll encounter people to talk to while building a mental map of his neighborhood.

Edit: About reading, your brother will learn vocabulary better if he has conversations in addition to just hearing words on YouTube or the radio. If you are near Marrakech or Taza, try contacting these organizations:

- $1
- Moroccan Braille League ($1)
- $1
jawad2001 [OP] 2 points 4y ago
thank you so mucchhh
jawad2001 [OP] 1 points 4y ago
intressting idea thanks man
Derpette4220 5 points 4y ago
Take him to play with different animals, teach him their sounds and what animals they're similar to, spell their names out for him. Get some clay or something for him to squish in his hands. Play outside, help him find flowers for your parents, help him to climb a tree while holding him. Bake something and have him mix the ingredients. Tell your mother to massage his back or his arms and legs for stimulation. Teach him the sizes of the different coins in your country.
Anything helps, but the most important thing is helping him learn and experience as much as he can.
jawad2001 [OP] 2 points 4y ago
here s the probleme
... he is far too smart or too afraid for all this ...he can understand shit very very very quickly like he is in 1 grade and my sister is in 4th grade and his ideas and view of the are way intresting than hers ...he mostly dreams of being a soccer star or having a supercar but undurstands that neither one of his dreams are possible because of his disability
Derpette4220 5 points 4y ago
Not true! There are blind sports teams that train at the Olympic level, and there's even a game similar to soccer called goal ball, the ball makes noise for it to be easy to find.

There are self-driving cars now, too. By the time he's grown, he might be able to have one of his own.

Blind people can do anything. Maybe you should read him Wikipedia articles about blind athletes. Daredevil is a popular show on Netflix about a blind superhero, and he's a lawyer!

Find out what he wants to do and help him do it. There are Braille teaching books on Amazon and plenty of people go blind in their adulthood and have to learn everything again. He has lots of time to grow and learn, he could even go to college and have a job if he works hard.
jawad2001 [OP] 3 points 4y ago
i understand all that and he he does too but he understands also that we are living in a not so rich country where their last concerns are blind people, in here there are schools for blind people in far places and there are no school buses or all that shit :( do the last thing to expect is advanced vehicules or special needs sports :'(
Derpette4220 2 points 4y ago
What country are you in? There are charities all over the world that can help. PM me privately if you want some help searching the English internet.

Don't give up, just be supportive. There's no reason he can't play sports like a regular kid. Swimming is great, sprinting, jump rope, exercises like push ups to get him ready to learn soccer one day. ;)

Blind people are regular people. If he can't do something, ask why. There's always a way.

Vicorin 3 points 4y ago
Not sure where you live, but there was a program I did briefly as a kid called Top Soccer. Basically, it’s a blind and low vision soccer team. There’s bells in the balls and they have coaches helping the kids and everything. Maybe look around and see if there’s anything like that anywhere nearby.

Also, (again probably depends on what country you’re from) but I know that in America at least, the national library service provides free audiobooks and easy to use book players for free. They have books for all ages too, so you could order children’s books and stuff, and I’m sure they would have children’s novels about soccer players that he might get into.

You mentioned elsewhere in the thread how much he likes music, you could get him something to listen to music on like a cd or mp3 player. You could help him set up and teach him how to use it so that he can listen to more often.

Ultimately, I suggest just paying attention to what his interests are and finding ways to help him explore them. Beyond that, just hang out with him. Some of my favorite childhood memories are just spending the night in my siblings’ rooms and telling scary stories. You seem like a really cool big brother trying to help him and everything. Hope this helped.
jawad2001 [OP] 1 points 4y ago
thank you so much for the creative ideas :D but infortunatly top soccer does not exist in my country :(
Pescodar189 2 points 4y ago
You can still find a way to make a ball that makes noise and then teach him how to play soccer with you. While he's learning to pinpoint the sound you can help coach him so that he can find the ball. You can pass a ball back and forth. If you talk he'll be able to know which direction to kick it towards you.

If he dreams of being a soccer star, he'll probably love this.

If he takes to it and gets better, he can probably even learn to juggle the ball on his own when he doesn't have his helpful brother to play with.
Babygirlbarbiegirl 3 points 4y ago
https://www.learning4kids.net/list-of-sensory-play-ideas/
jawad2001 [OP] 2 points 4y ago
now i see what you meant
alterego1104 2 points 4y ago
Yes, they might have what i was speaking of before. If you can’t afford a whole lot.
Make A. Amazon wish list and go to
Random kindness sub or assistance sub.
Dory idk how to link subs yet only people.
Post your story, and ask for some hel encouraging your brother
jawad2001 [OP] 1 points 4y ago
but i am too shy to post my story :(
alterego1104 1 points 4y ago
You’re anonymous, you don’t have to say much more than you did here.
Just add you want bond with him, and cheer him up, but your family doesn’t have any extra money. No need for personal details :)
Babygirlbarbiegirl 2 points 4y ago
Brill
jawad2001 [OP] 2 points 4y ago
BTWhe sometimes really enjoys being alone in a kind of introvert way
pokersnek 2 points 4y ago
You could read books to him. There are also some places where you can get books online that will read to him. If you have a cell phone, the amazon kindle app can read to you and there are many books for free in the text version.

You could take him to play outside with you. Have him hold your arm or elbow and walk one step behind you and kind of to your side. This way, you can guide him.

Describe everything you can see to him. It will give him a better idea of the world around him.

Does he use a cane or a walking stick? If not, try to find a strong but light stick or pole that he can old in front of him as he walks. It should help his confidence as he learns to trust that he will be ok.

I really admire you and am proud of you for wanting to help your brother. My job is to teach blind people how to travel and navigate in the US. It brings me joy when families reach out for ways to help.
jawad2001 [OP] 1 points 4y ago
thanks for your response our family wouldn t like to make him use a cane or a stick because there is still hope for him as he will still have an operation when reaching 12years old so we don t to make him lose faith that he will regain vision...
pokersnek 2 points 4y ago
I see. I hope his operation is successful. Is there a reason to wait 6years?

The brain works in interesting ways. If a person goes without sight for most of their life and then regains vision, the brain doesn’t know what to do with the information. It’s like if you have never heard a language before and were given the opportunity to hear it. You would physically hear it but not understand it.

If his surgery does correct his vision, it will take him time to learn how to use it. I hope the best for your brother and your family.
Babygirlbarbiegirl 2 points 4y ago
He may enjoy sensory play so exploring his senses. I normally use print and shaving form and water.
jawad2001 [OP] 2 points 4y ago
i am sorry but i dont understand whar do you mean by ur comment
Babygirlbarbiegirl 1 points 4y ago
So it’s play which helps him explore his senses. So you put a bowl of water in front of him and allow him to play with it. Kids generally love this kind of play
ENTJ351 2 points 4y ago
I read my fill as a teenager still do. But why can’t he read and know words? I suggest you educate him and introduce him to some nice books or audio books. If you have a smart phone there is probably ways to read them on there. I was reading Shakespeare by middle school. And by 16 I was reading political and historical texts and research.
jawad2001 [OP] 1 points 4y ago
he is 6.... he just learned letters and numbers and you are telling me to throw shakespear at him?
ENTJ351 3 points 4y ago
No, but there is stuff like Harry Potter. LOTR, the left behind series the kids, The hitchiker’s guide to the gallaxy. My dad read me novels for bedtime stories and that’s where I learn to love books.
jawad2001 [OP] 2 points 4y ago
i am definetly going to try and read him a few books thanks man!
ENTJ351 1 points 4y ago
Either that or have your phone read it to him. It is handy in that regard.
ravenshadow2013 2 points 4y ago
A question, what area do you live in I might have some suggestions for you but it depends on where ou live as to the availability of some of them
jawad2001 [OP] 2 points 4y ago
i don t live in america i live in morroco it ks located in north africa
ravenshadow2013 3 points 4y ago
well the easy suggestion would be to pay attention to the little one's likes, you said he like sporting events get him out of the house and encourage him to play either soccer ball or football where you have him throw or kick the ball . Additionally speak with his teachers and find out if he has any friends that you can work with as well, its all about imagination, thinking outside the box and coming up with fun things to do and explore

there also may be services that can help your family help him dont be afraid to research and ask lots of questions
jawad2001 [OP] 1 points 4y ago
ok imma definetmy try and play outside with himm !!!
SWaspMale 2 points 4y ago
>gets boredvery quicly

Maybe watch for ADHD, but I think it might be typical for his age.

Does he have access to music? Piano? Drums?

I am guessing he has some vision if he watches TV?
jawad2001 [OP] 3 points 4y ago
He has access to music but infortunatly my household does not have the funds for an instrument for the moment.. btw he mostly listens to tv shows rather than watching them and he can only see light and shadows of people passing by etc...
SWaspMale 2 points 4y ago
A few octaves of electronic keys do not cost much, especially used. Other 'student' instruments also. IMO the real money is paying for lessons and higher-end instruments.
natscat76 1 points 4y ago
Teach him to play chess.
There is a special board for the blind to use. There are also other board games that come in a blind edition. Buy some brail card games, get a soccer ball with a bell inside and play with him.
Tic tac toe in 3D..
spydermane12 1 points 4y ago
using this site right now www.asapflix.com its so good.. better than netflix (asapflix)
jawad2001 [OP] 1 points 4y ago
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sif_the_pup 1 points 4y ago
Entertainment wise, I love narrative podcasts and audio books. Might be a good substitute for reading for the time being?
jawad2001 [OP] 1 points 4y ago
i already tried that many times but his vocabulary is still poor for him to understand books and stuff
Kylexmajus 1 points 4y ago
Maybe a tactile coloring book would be fun? I just discovered them as a full grown adult and I’m loving it as something I never got to experience as a child lol. Here’s one:
http://www.nbp.org/ic/nbp/COLOR-FARM.html
Also rubixcube has a tactile version of their cube so he could do fun puzzles like that. There’s a lot of fun things he could play with :) also if someone could start teaching Braille that might be helpful in starting interest in reading maybe? I hope this helps!
jawad2001 [OP] 2 points 4y ago
thanks maaaannnnn !!!
jawad2001 [OP] 1 points 4y ago
i really like the concept mannn :o thank you so much
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