Amonwilde 2 points 4y ago
Minecraft has no objective, it's a sandbox. That either sounds amazing or terrible depending on your outlook, but for boys 8-13 it's irresistible. I'd play it a little yourself first. One thing to understand is that you're not meant to just boot it up and play, you'll be confused. Most of the knowledge about how to build things comes from reading the wiki or, in practice for kids, watching YouTube. After loading up the game, have a tablet or computer with you and do a lot of Googling, like look up "make shovel minecraft" and similar.
I'd set a goal of making an item out of iron when you play. If you achieve that, you'll know enough to help your son with most things until he's self-sustaining. The steps you would take to do that are:
1. When you appear in the world, look for a tree.
2. Hit the tree with your fist until it drops some wood.
3. In your inventory, put the wood in the gird of 4 boxes and then click the output box to get the wooden planks. You're making the wood into wooden planks.
4. Make sticks. (You'll have to start looking things up here, you use the planks to make the sticks.)
5. Make a wooden pickaxe.
6. Use the wooden pickaxe to collect stone.
7. Make a stone pickaxe, shovel, and axe.
8. Collect more wood using the axe. If night is approaching, use the shovel to dig and hide yourself until morning. This can be annoying, go get a cup of coffee until the sun comes up. Once you're good at the game you can make a shelter in the first day and this kind of thing isn't necessary. Basically, when it gets dark, monsters appear and you will die right away, more or less. If you bury yourself somewhere you won't die. Just dig three squares down and put some dirt above you to cover yourself up.
9. Build a furnace. Burn wood to make coal.
10. Make torches and a stone sword.
11. You're ready to explore a cave. Stumbling around you may have seen a cave. Use the torches to light your way and if you see a monster, hit it with the sword. Make sure you're not hungry, otherwise your health won't come back.
12. Find iron ore in the cave, which can be tricky. Also find some more coal.
13. Use the ore and the coal in the furnace to make an iron ingot.
If you can do even part of this you'll be in a good position to help your son. It's a great and actually rather wholesome game more focused on building than destroying. You create your own objectives as you realize you need more and more stuff to complete projects. Like, for example, sometime in the above you're going to want to make a house, and perhaps even a farm to grow food.
Good luck, and hope you get to play this game with your son! It will last him a long, long time if he gets into it, and you can also play with him.