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Full History - 2019 - 01 - 14 - ID#afz7cd
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Recently lost my left eye, anyone have any information about how life will be different? (self.Blind)
submitted by deadly_watermelon
Don’t wanna go into detail about how I lost it because it’s embarrassing and stupid.
katz30 16 points 4y ago
Had my left eye removed 2 years ago. The biggest thing for me was depth perception issues. Also people approaching me on my left side took some time to get used to. I simply cannot see my co-workers or customers if they approach me on the left and don’t make any noise.
impablomations 18 points 4y ago
My cats have learned to take advantage of the fact that I can't see them if they approach from the left.

If I'm eating some ice cream or yogurt, the first I know they are there is when a paw or a little kitty head suddenly appears from the left trying to intercept the spoon. lol
MonocularMichelle 3 points 4y ago
Yes I can’t see anyone approach me and noises are louder so I might jump or be startled by a kid running in front of me at the airport.

The depth perception was the hardest.

Took me for ever to use a walking stick. But helps me from falling down.

Nighttime vision is rough. Going from dark to light is rough but most of the time you will not even notice wearing an eyepatch.

I went to Europe and was walking around holding my friend. I noticed all these men staring at me I guess they liked the eyepatch 😉

Like anything you start out small like a baby trying to crawl and eventually you are walking!
Laser_Lens_4 14 points 4y ago
You won't be able to enjoy 3D movies or be a racecar driver, so that kind of sucks I guess.
sznowicki 6 points 4y ago
We have one eyed handball player in Polish national team so race car shouldn’t be a problem with some training.
FrankenGretchen 4 points 4y ago
I don't drive because my vision is overall not good enough but my cousin does. I'm sure there are other monocular drivers out there. Not many binocular drivers can drive race cars, so we aren't missing much.
Silverottawa 1 points 4y ago
Although that alone is devastating, at least they will always see the right side of things
palezombies 9 points 4y ago
Just take it day by day. It's going to be super fucking rough to get even moderately used to one eye but you'll be a pro in no time. I have both eyes, but I really only use my right eye because I see way better out of that one than the other. If anything there's communities for the blind on Facebook and what not to talk to others in your position. Sorry for your lost and I hope for the best.
halr9000 1 points 4y ago
I'm like you, I see much better out of the right. You ever find yourself closing your left eye routinely, like say if it's sunny on that side?
palezombies 2 points 4y ago
Yes, definitely. Even with flash photography lol.
air_child99 7 points 4y ago
Hi there friend. I can’t speak from personal experience but my father lost his left eye 13 years ago and I can tell you some things about his experience.

My dad adapted extremely quickly. His accident involved a lot of head trauma so he was down for a couple weeks before he decided he should start driving again. He has to compensate for that side a lot. He’s accidentally hit people who come up on his left, but never while operating a vehicle. I’ve been bopped in the head a couple times myself.

He cannot see 3D movies anymore, but honestly it’s not a huge thing to give up. He did go on a team building exercise through work where they learned how to drive a race car and got to do a couple solo laps. He thought it was a cool experience.

As for depth perception, he adapted quickly to that too. He still played catch with my brother growing up and was able to throw and catch the ball without a lot of issue. He actually can judge distance better than I can, and I still have two eyeballs. The incident happened when I was 12, I am now 25. Throughout the majority of my life I have never seen the whole “no left eye” thing hold him back.

I wish you well during your recovery and I hope that my dad’s experience brings you some comfort for your prognosis.
multi-instrumental 5 points 4y ago
For starters you will have one less eye...
halr9000 4 points 4y ago
My dad lost his left eye as a kid in one of the most stupid ways you can imagine. He threw up a stick into the air, and then looked up. :)

Many years later, when I was a few years old, I got a toxoplasmosis infection which caused scar tissues to form on my retinas, and it's much worse in my left eye, where I basically only have peripheral vision. Lived with that for 40 years now. While I'm not totally a r/Monoclops, I do suffer from really poor depth perception, and 3D movies are a big nothing.

The others talking about being super careful about driving are not wrong. I run over curbs pretty often, and I tend to leave a huge gap in front of me on the highway to be triple sure. Have never had an accident related to this (after driving for 25 years), so it's definitely workable.

Edit: For me, soccer is 100x easier than baseball. No fun getting hit in the face by a speeding projectile.
[deleted] 4 points 4y ago
If you continue to drive you're essentially going to need to relearn how to drive. Practice in empty parking lots to save yourself from an insurance claim.
deadly_watermelon [OP] 2 points 4y ago
I haven’t drive since the accident I’m not confident enough yet
MonocularMichelle 2 points 4y ago
takes time. i got in an accident, she hit me but I was traumatized so uber is my best friend or one thing very hard for me cause i was so independent to ask for help. There are a lot of nice people out there I will tell them I am partially blind can you tell me what the menu says. Or call someone to drive me to errands & grocery. i drive now but not at night only close to home and the freeway scares me. one day at a time. three years for me now.
[deleted] 2 points 4y ago
You'll mostly just have to turn your head to check for things around you. I'd still work on depth perception first, nothing worse than backing up and hitting a trash can, or a car, or even a person.
[deleted] 3 points 4y ago
To tack on to what everyone else is saying. You're depth perception is going to be off for a while. I have awful depth perception and contacts don't fix depth perception so I have to wear glasses. Well I'm also a swimmer and let me tell you water magnifies things so your depth perception is wack in a pool already. I've definitely slammed into the wall more times than I'd like to admit, but that being said it is possible to adjust. People walking up to you from your left side is probably going to freak you out, easy to counteract if you ask friends to announce themselves (a simple clearing of the throat as they're walking up goes a long way). To the honesty part - if your eye was removed and you don't have a realistic glass eye you're probably going to get stares, maybe even after you get a prosthetic. It's not the end of the world, even if it feels like it some days.
B-dub31 3 points 4y ago
My vision loss started with an acute loss of vision in my left eye. The biggest adjustment I had to make was driving. I took for granted how much I glanced at my sideview mirror with my left eye, not to mention the loss of that part of my visual field. You will get used to turning your head and actively scanning as you are driving. It made merging where traffic is coming at you from the left and the right very difficult. Good luck and I hope that you adjust quickly!
Kapitalist_Pigdog 3 points 4y ago
I suppose that makes you king of this sub

Joking aside, things that require depth perception will be a lot harder. Besides that, I'm not certain. I'm sure you can find someone who also only has one eye and ask them more.
getTrickshotted 3 points 4y ago
Cover one of your nostril and breathe and that’s how it is
Smidgenwitchen 2 points 4y ago
Check out r/monocular
[deleted] 2 points 4y ago
A great way to practice with your depth perception is simply to play catch with someone, and then play with a reaction ball.
stirs 2 points 4y ago
Can you go into detail? I’m really curious just because you said you don’t want to. Like my brain needs closure. I don’t really have any info for you, but I’m sorry it happened and I hope you can settle into this new and jarring way of experiencing life!
deadly_watermelon [OP] 3 points 4y ago
I’ll just say that I was messing around with a fishing rod
[deleted] 2 points 4y ago
One of my biggest fears about fishing.
deadly_watermelon [OP] 5 points 4y ago
Here’s a tip, if you ever get your hook stuck on something, slowly get it off the object don’t just yank it out like I did. If it does manage to get in your eye then there’s a correct way to remove it without doing permanent damage that you can look up online. One of the reasons I’m the way I am today is because I didn’t know the right method and just had a friend with me pull it out (not a hard pull but just like slowly taking it out). The smartest thing to do tho is leave it in and immediately seek medical attention and they will do it properly.
text_here0101 1 points 10m ago
Hey ik this is an old thread but Ive recently experienced a partial loss of vision in my left eye. Took pictures and x-rays (I believe) and I just received notice that they're going to run extensive tests on me. Doctor who's taking my case shrugged when I asked worst case scenario and said I have a give or take 30% chance of losing my left eye. That was 2 weeks ago and my vision has gotten about 10x worse even on various medicated eyedrops. I guess my comment is just seeking out how you adapted if you've fully adapted yet and any coping strategies you used. I just feel like it's coming and I don't know how to prepare for if it does.
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