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Full History - 2019 - 01 - 29 - ID#al6h2b
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My blind friend wants to cook for a party I'm having...... I don't mean to be rude but I'm nervous. (self.Blind)
submitted by Disney_Dude1998
The party is at my house and my friend who is blind wants to cook for it and I am letting her use my kitchen because I have the counter and stove space. She lives alone and obviously cooks for herself at home but she talking about chopping this and flambeing that boiling stuff and as her friend I don't want her to get hurt or burn down my house but she doesn't want me to help. I'm thinking I might stay very very quiet and just kinda sneak around her but idk if she'll catch me doing that. She's one of my best friends and I want to respect her wishes.
estj317 22 points 4y ago
Yeah, blind people can cook with no issues. So I wouldn’t worry. I think you’re worrying a little too much. I think you are thinking about the what ifs.
AllHarlowsEve 13 points 4y ago
It really shouldn't be an issue. Have you seen Christine from Master Chef? She's by far not the only blind chef who can do all this fancy stuff. Most blind people I know can grill or fry with little to no issues, and those are the "harder" ones.

If you have barstools or something, just sit in the kitchen and offer to be her helper, but she should be fine.
brimstone_tea 12 points 4y ago
Just show her where everything is and she'll be fine.
I personally find there is nothing worse than someone sneaking up on me. That is the worst feeling ever.
DONT. EVER. DO THIS.
Disney_Dude1998 [OP] 0 points 4y ago
If you don't mind me asking are you blind?
brimstone_tea 2 points 4y ago
Yup :) no problem
ratadeacero 4 points 4y ago
My wife has a special cutting glove. Even if she doesn't have one, she's been doing it her whole life. She'll be fine. I would be more worried about her grabbing the wrong seasoning or dumping too much salt rather than injury.
JWDenning 3 points 4y ago
Blind people are just like sighted people when it comes to cooking. I know some that should never go into a kitchen. And I know some fantastic cooks. I have been visually impaired all my life and I have also worked as a chef. I still cook at home even though now I barely see at all. I figure I enjoy eating, I better learn how to cook. And I’ve been doing that all my life.
Dragonfly337 3 points 4y ago
Do not sneak, i can’t stress that enough especially if you are great friends.
ChronicallyQueer 3 points 4y ago
Blind folx are able to live as full lives as you are as a sighted person—and treating us like we can’t is a surefire way to have a falling out. She can cook, she’ll be fine; let her do her thing and DON’T sneak around her, you’ll get in her way and either get burned, start a fire, or in some way screw with the dish because you will get in the way and can cause major issues.
I’m not going to sugarcoat this for you, you’re being a real ass about this. You KNOW she can cook. Don’t belittle her.

Plus, have you ever seen an actual chef (or have you, yourself) ever actually spent much time actually looking at what they’re doing once they know the dish? It’s intuition and memory. She’ll be fine.
Disney_Dude1998 [OP] 0 points 4y ago
This girl is one of my very best friends we've known each other for years I'm not trying to be an ass or belittle her, I'm just naturally super protective of my friends blind or not. Being completely honest I'd be worried about any of my friends fambeing because I've done it and know how dangerous it is.
ChronicallyQueer 4 points 4y ago
Then why centre around the fact she’s blind? Regardless of your intent, it is still incredibly belittling to be all “they’re blind, I’m so worried” when they express confidence in what they’re doing. You may have good intention, but that doesn’t change the bad impact.
Disney_Dude1998 [OP] 1 points 4y ago
I understand, like I said I'm super protective of all my friends blind or not. It's just a habit. I'd also like to apologise for offending you
KarebearMom 2 points 4y ago
Blind people cook all the time. Like, every day. My son goes to a school for the blind (he's legally blind but will have no usable vision) and he's been learning his way around a kitchen since 1st grade - younger than most kids learn to cook.
Disney_Dude1998 [OP] 1 points 4y ago
I mean this girl is an amazing chef! She cooks things I wouldn't even try. I've burnt myself really badly trying to fambe salmon so I know how dangerous it is.
the9thpawn_ 1 points 4y ago
I’ve gotten more paper cuts than I have cuts using conventionally dangerous sharp stuff.
Myntrith 0 points 4y ago
Any time there's an open flame involved with anything, whether sighted or blind, always keep a fire extinguisher nearby. I don't mean to belittle, offend or demean anyone here. I'm sighted, and I have a fire extinguisher in my kitchen, as everyone should. Anyone can make a mistake.
wheresmyglasses12 1 points 4y ago
Depending on the kind of rapport you have with your friend, it could also make for a great joke. I remember when I first worked inside a computer and my dad brought the fire extinguisher over even though everything was unplugged. My mom thought it was mean, but I thought it was funny.

Maybe like, "Ha! I'm prepared for your flame ninja shit! Bring it on!"

Then again, this might not be funny to anyone but me.
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