How do you interpret someone’s facial expressions if you have poor eyesight?(self.Blind)
submitted by mercuryDeon
As someone with poor eyesight, the problem I have is detecting someone’s facial expressions. Other than paying attention to someone’s tone of voice, what other techniques should I use to detect someone’s hostility towards you? Whenever I am with my sighted friends, a lot of times there are occasions that my friends and I had conversation with someone and I thought of their interactions neutral or benign, but afterwards my friends tell me that the person we were having conversation gave us a “dirty look” what does it mean to give someone a dirty look, anyway? Or someone smirked on us?
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If you are sighted person, you can tell pretty easily in a distance exactly if someone gives welcoming facial expressions or hostile one. But since my eyesight is poor, I don’t have that luxury, so I have to rely other techniques to understand people’s feelings. At times, you stop or continue conversation based on someone’s facial expressions: are they receptive, outraged, and indifferent, shocked, questioning about what you said; all of these feelings can be expressed and interpreted without someone ever saying a word.
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Obviously, I can’t tell someone’s facial expressions due to my poor eyesight, so most of the time, I rely on the tone of voice and the language the person use. It doesn’t help also that I am kind of autistic and socially inept. So, is there a tip deciphering someone’s facial expressions for those of us who have poor eyesight? Or paying attention to the tone of voice the only refuge we have?
FrankenGretchen13 points4y ago
You don't. It's information you simply don't get. There are other cues, though. Tone, emphasis, volume. Familiarity with a person adds depth to these cues. Sighted folks don't use visual cues exclusively. In fact, they are fascinated by the amount of information we gleen from all these non visual cues.
HDMILex3 points4y ago
Somebody needs to make a course for this kind of thing.
the9thpawn_3 points4y ago
I’m autistic too and have found that being open with my friends about it has helped.
liu_liu_liu2 points4y ago
I don't know how your vision is, but if I can't make out a person's facial expressions, I can usually still make out the rest of their body and see their larger expressions (for example, leaning in more if they're interested, standing farther away if they're bored, etc)
sarahluvsjoy1 points4y ago
I interview patients with vision loss and someone once said that they developed signals with their family members and close friends so that they could communicate during situations such as the one you described above without the 3rd party knowing - for example, if you were talking with someone and your sighted friend could tell they were hostile towards you, the sighted friend would say a code word or pretend to cough or something.
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I'm not sure what your acuity is but a bioptic (magnification device that is mounted above your glasses) can help with seeing facial expressions as well. So if you can't make out someone's face, by tilting your head down and looking through the bioptic, you can see their mouth or eyes (or whatever it is you want to focus on). As with any magnification, the higher the power, the smaller the field of view, but it would definitely help with maintaining a social sense with vision loss.
SpikeTheCookie1 points4y ago
This is a really interesting question, and there are professionals who have studied to help those with sensory loss (like blindness) and prosopagnosia (face blindness, brain doesn't recognize faces).
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Yet it seems like we're all out there, trying to figure it out for ourselves. ;-)
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Has anyone found great resources for things like this (learning how to read people when you can't se facial expressions?)
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