Do blind people have sex fantasies / masturbate?(self.Blind)
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brimstone_tea8 points4y ago
This question will most likely be perceived as offending by most blind people, including me. It happens quite often that people ask us completely inappropriate questions they would never ask a person with no disability and assume that's okay, so it's a difficult subject.
To answer your question: of course we do. What in the world makes you doubt that?
Some advice for you: think twice before asking such insensitive questions.
questiontime12374 [OP]-3 points4y ago
> people ask us completely inappropriate questions they would never ask a person with no disability
That's not nice, but in my case at least, i asked this question to all sorts of people, most with no disability at all, because i am curious how people perceive fantasies, IF they have them in the first place (some people don't have sex fantasies).
It makes me curious how blind people have them, especially if they were born that way, since they don't have "information" to visualize and work with.
Looking back i should edit OP because i should have been clearer- i am not interested in fantasies as in "what you would like to do" but rather the actual act of imagining you're having sex in your head, getting aroused and masturbating.
HDMILex5 points4y ago
nah blind people are stupid as fuck. we can't masturbate let alone have sex. dw you're quite safe from us lmao
/s
questiontime12374 [OP]-4 points4y ago
????
What's with the hostility? I never implied blind people are stupid. I just asked how sex fantasy works if they don't have something (visually) to fantasize about.
LiadanCroft4 points4y ago
Its extremely insensitive and blind/vi people are constantly asked these questions about their personal intimate lives such as wiping, sex/mastuebation, and many others to the point where it gets exhausting and infuriating to answer the same intimate questions over and over when its not something youd ask anyone without this impairment. Oh and people with perfect vision often dont look at what they do or visualize images in their minds anyways.
questiontime12374 [OP]0 points4y ago
I actually searched "masturbate" before posting and there were no results, that's why i posted..
LiadanCroft1 points4y ago
Well yeah, I mean its not necessarily asked in this sub, and props for trying, but its mainly because this sub is for discussion of relevant subjects and questions asked by non vi/blind users are usually for education per se. If you go to askreddit or anywhere else online that isnt dedicated for vi discussions then its actually very common.
BaginaJon4 points4y ago
I’ve been seeing a lot of questions like this on the blind subreddit lately. “Do blind people do this?” “how do blind people do this?” etc.
They are humans and do everything sighted people do. Enough with these ridiculous fucking questions.
ginsenshi2 points4y ago
For me growing up 20/200 vision my images are/were visual . I have a partner I’ve been with for 5 years now and for sex I’m a guy who just needs just a bit of forplay and I’m good to go. Also I’m gay if that makes a difference
cookieinaloop4 points4y ago
So you come here and ask an utterly insensitive question as if blind people were rats in a lab for you to investigate and are upset people respond in the same level?
Oh, poor you.
questiontime12374 [OP]1 points4y ago
No, i'm not upset, i genuinely don't understand why is this considered insensitive when there are questions like this and much weirder and personal on askreddit or other forums.
HDMILex4 points4y ago
because its a pretty fucking stupid question tbh
cookieinaloop2 points4y ago
I'll try to put it as simple as it can be.
If you go on r/askReddit and ask men about the size of their penis because you heard average men's penises are so small you need a magnifying glass to see them you might get some honest answers, some smartass answers, and some backlash for asking something so stupid.
If you ask the same question on, let's say, r/asianmen you'd most likely get called out for being an asshole. Why? Because that is a dumb stereotype associated with that group and also because you are treating them like a separate set of humans you can poke and ask insensitive questions just because you're curious.
And finally, this sub is not ask reddit. We don't go about asking stupid questions just to raise our karma or because we have nothing better to do.
CloudyBeep2 points4y ago
People with disabilities (some blind people and most deaf people) are offended because we are often asked extremely dumb and insensitive questions that arise from low expectations or popular misconceptions.
bradley223 points4y ago
I hardly masturbate, (i don’t find it pleasurable,) and I know I need a woman there to truly get turned on.
Nighthawk3212 points4y ago
It's a pretty dumb question, yes, but do I think all these blindies should be getting butthurt about it? No.
bscross322 points4y ago
Hell yeah! Sometimes like 4 times in a day.
devinprater2 points4y ago
I have fantasies, but do not masturbate. I do not see in my fantasies but imagine touching the person I fantasize about. Their big, soft belly, their hands, all that. I never feel the need to masturbate, as it never helps.,
HDMILex2 points4y ago
just wanna say you're pretty hot Devin and i hope you find an amazing partner who's right for you soon, friend!
devinprater2 points4y ago
Me, hot? Well, I'm glad you like this 235 pound body, lol :)
-shacklebolt-1 points4y ago
Alright, I'm wrapping this show up.
silverhythm1 points4y ago
So I'm not gonna rough you up as much as some others in this thread, but I think the problem they might be having is that your curiosity was phrased in a way that came from skepticism rather than a curiosity about the specifics of a pretty much universal human experience. We get asked a lot, of stuff like "Do blind people use the internet?" or "Do blind people date?" to which there is the implicit expectation the answer might be "No, they don't." It frames the questions in a way that just assumes these helpless blind people can't do all these other things everybody else does to fulfill their life, and since those lowered expectations are actually more challenging obstacles than the mechanics of operating without vision, some of us are quick to bristle at them. You'd have gotten far better responses with, "How do sexual fantasies work/manifest for someone who is blind?" Because you at least give us the benefit of the doubt that we DO have them. Like, yaknow, pretty much everybody. For my part, yes, when I'm rolling solo to get off I do have fantasies, they are more oriented to tactile and aural sensations though. Instead of seeing someone in my mind's eye, I feel them with my mind's hands or other parts of the body or hear them with my mind's ear. I hope that both answers your question and maybe explains a little more calmly why it was not very well received.
I'm sorry for the way you have been treated in this thread. This behaviour is unique to reddit, not the blind community of the world. I hope you are not discouraged from making friends with a blind person because of this. I feel the description for this sub should be modified to remove "those who are just curious" if this group is going to be so vicious to someone who is just truly curious. I think it's incredibly disingenuous to pretend like human sexuality is not a very visual human experience. I find it ironic that in this same sub there is a question from someone who wants to know "How to make friends at school." They write "At school I'm ignored and I only have one friend..." This is easy to understand isn't it. If you try to make friends with a blind person and you violate the "blind" code of conduct by asking a bad question or trying to be helpful, you are MONSTER! There are probably a lot of people who are just plain afraid to interact with the blind for fear of committing some unpardonable sin against them. For example, I can hold the door for an able bodied man who has his hands full, and he nods in appreciation. I can hold the door for a pregnant woman, or a man in a wheelchair and they say thank-you. But OH MY GOD if I do something in any way to assist the blind person without their express written permission, I have just committed a terrible hate crime against all blind people everywhere. You blind folks need to lighten up and build some bridges between the blind community and the sighted, and not spend all your time trying to be offended.
purely_sub0 points4y ago
I have fantasies but I don’t masturbait cause it’s pointless for me. Doesn’t do any good. 😕🙁🙁🙁😕😕😕😕 As far as seeing the said fantasies, no. But that’s cause I prefer not to. But I can feel things sometimes.
I realize that’s probably more information than people wanted to know, but hey, if you don’t want to know an answer to a question, don’t post it because I will see it and answer honestly.
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