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mETA: Can we please have a AskABlindPerson sub and encourage questions to post there about how blond people do things. (self.Blind)
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impablomations 10 points 4y ago
>We are a support and discussion community for people who are blind, visually impaired, those who work with the blind, and those who are just curious.

This is an open community, all are welcome.

We are a pretty small sub, and nowhere near the traffic that would warrant a separate sub.
MostlyBlindGamer 4 points 4y ago
How about an FAQ on a stickied post? People could get most questions answered very quickly and the would be fewer question posts that some people really dislike.
impablomations 4 points 4y ago
We already have a sticked FAQ at the top of the sub and two in the sidebar
MostlyBlindGamer 1 points 4y ago
I just checked and it turns out the "How do blind people use Reddit" post is stickied, but the FAQs are not. They're in the sidebar, but most people ignore those.

How about a new single stickied post titled "FAQs and general information - read this first" that would essentially be a copy of the sidebar?
MostlyBlindGamer 1 points 4y ago
Oh. I didn't even remember, sorry.

I guess we're not the only ones who have trouble seeing things...
impablomations 3 points 4y ago
Everyone is entitled to the occasional 'brain fart' lol
bscross32 4 points 4y ago
I think most of the questions here posted in an effort to learn. Some of them are asked in a way that is perhaps a bit misguided, but I don't think they're ridiculous questions for the most part. Anyone who does ask purely ignorant questions for the sake of it should be dealt with on a case by case basis IMO.

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Let me ask everyone a question. How are we supposed to bridge the gap between the blind and the sighted if some of us are wielding big sticks and driving off the sighted every time they try to approach us. You can't have it both ways. You can't complain about the way you're treated but then treat others like shit. What'll end up happening is the people who have questions will grow reticent to post them here, and it may even deter them from doing whatever it is they were going to do.

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I would like to give some examples of ignorant questions and ways they could be phrased a bit differently to show the questioner does really want to learn rather than propagate stereotypes or show their ignorance. By the way, I did want to make it clear that I at least, see a difference between ignorance and willful ignorance. The latter being ignorance you have no desire to do anything about. Ignorance itself isn't a bad thing. It's more to do with how you approach dealing with it. Anyway, here's the examples.

Q. (bad) Who picks out your clothing? How do you dress yourself?

OK, this one asked this way is pretty offensive because it rather strongly hints that we're incapable of dressing ourselves. I count this in two ways. First, the actual mechanics of putting clothing on our bodies, and second, picking out pieces that go together.

Q. (good) HHow do you pick out what you're going to wear? How do you deal with colors when picking your outfit so everything matches?

Something along that vein would be good. It doesn't imply invalid status, or some form of incompetence. Plus, it just sounds more intelligent.

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Q. (bad) What are you doing out here? Are you lost? Where's your carer/assistant/attendant?

This one's offensive because it drips with condescension and some level of disdain. We didn't teleport out there on the streets. We didn't break out of a group home or asylum. We're quite able to travel, and it's an insult to demean us because \*you\* have it in your head that we're useless.

Q. (good) Do you need any help? Can I help you find something?

Anything like that will do. Though generally, unless you see the same blind person wandering around the area for a while, we generally will find someone and ask or help if we need it.
annibear 2 points 4y ago
r/askblindpeople is a thing, but people seem to come here instead.
the9thpawn_ 2 points 4y ago
r/askblindpeople already exists.
stormsong19 1 points 4y ago
I could see a separate sub for this being very useful. It would naturally filter out people who don't want to answer questions as well as providing both a space for sighted and blind folks to coexist, and one for blind folks to simply exist. Worth noting, op, that you don't need permission to create a separate subreddit.
highpointing 1 points 4y ago
That would get lots of traffic. As many people wonder how blonds do things.
OP checking your spelling, you wrote blond.
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