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Curious About Your Thoughts on an Old Debate (self.Blind)
submitted by Mokohi
Hi again! So, as the title says, I want to know what you guys think about an old debate. At my boarding school as a kid, we often brought this up:

If your blindness could be cured somehow, would you do it, or do you prefer being as your are now?

There were so many interesting perspectives. Some people were scared of what it would be like, some believed blindness to be important to their identity. Others argued the benefits of being sighted are too good to pass up if available, amd some said they wanted to experience what they had either lost or never gotten to experience before.

What do you think?
CosmicBunny97 6 points 3y ago
God, yes, in a heartbeat. I want to be able to go out at night and not need help. To be able to drive, to be independent, to be able to go to a library and borrow physical books again, to not cry myself to sleep worrying about whether I'll lost my vision in the future.
Mokohi [OP] 1 points 3y ago
I agree. I am not losing my vision (Well, to a degree, but not rapidly.) I have been legally blind since birth. Still, I think sight would be very practical. It is a little scary to me, but also interesting and useful.
CosmicBunny97 2 points 3y ago
Agreed. Luckily I still have vision but I don't know where my conditions will take it. I'm so scared of the future and what could happen.
jayjames0193 5 points 3y ago
to some extent, i can understand why people would state they would remain blind. for a lot of us, our conditions are irreversabile, and there is no cure out there. and spending your life (and, of course, money) on experimental trials and possible cures is no way to live one's life. however, i personally never understood why some blind and vi impaired folks have remained adament that even if there was a working, free, cure, they would still remain blind. i suppose to people who were born blind, or lost most/all of their vision at a young age would be accustomed to that way of life, but as someone who lost my vision in my late teen years, and learned that I could never drive, watch a baseball game with my family, or anything else that required sight, and yeah, i dunno, for me, if there was a cure i personally would take it. but hey, maybe someone could enlighten me on why they wouldn't
Mokohi [OP] 3 points 3y ago
Some people believe that their blindness defines them - not in a bad way, but rather they are proud of it and see it as part of who they are. I personally disagree, seeing my blindness as just a part of me, sort of like "I'm Mokohi, and I'm a novice poet and aspiring teacher. Oh, also I'm blind", not "Mokohi the Blind Person." I'm not sure I'm explaining this very well, bit hopefully you get what I mean.
jayjames0193 3 points 3y ago
yeah, think i do get what you mean. i generally agree with that whole aspect of not letting one part of your identity be the most important thing about you. i'm lgbt, and while some people are very confident and comfortable with that being a core of their identity, i never really felt like that. so i also would never want to be 'james the blind person' because i'm more than the facets of my identity, ya know? but that's just my persepective
codeplaysleep 4 points 3y ago
Eh.... I don't generally mind the fact that I am blind. It's shaped some experiences in my life that probably had some impact on who I am today, and I generally like me.

So on an emotional level, nah, I'm not too fussed about fixing it. I'm happy the way I am.

However, on a practical level, it would be handy to be able to see better and if I could do that at this point in my life, I would.
Badassmotherfuckerer 7 points 3y ago
I one hundred percent agree with you on this. I'm absolutely fine as I am. I'm not holding my breath for any cures or anything like that.
But... If a genie could restore my eyesight, I'd take it any a heartbeat. Just because of how it would make things easier.
Mokohi [OP] 1 points 3y ago
That's pretty much how I see it too. If I could have vision, I would take it for the possibilities and benefits. However, I'm not actively seeking it to. They are currently experimenting with a solution for my condition which is why this came to my attention again, but it's nothing complete yet. It is still being tested and even on release, it will be extremely expensive. Someday, many years from now, I may use it. It's a little scary, but also exciting I think.
codeplaysleep 3 points 3y ago
Yeah, I'm down to one eye, any cure that might one day exist for me (and that feels super optimistic at this point) isn't one I'd take advantage of if it involved any risk to my only eye.

But in a magical, "snap your fingers and it's fixed" kind of scenario, sure, I'd do it, but it would be purely for practical reasons.
razzretina 3 points 3y ago
On a purely practical level, I wouldn't know how to function in society if I got full sight suddenly. I would need as much rehabilitation to learn to live sighted as I've had learning to live blind. And I can't help but feel that the experience would be very overwhelming what with having depth perception and peripheral vision and all that. I would try it for a bit if I could turn it off or if I could be assured of full rehab to learn how to live with it. But honestly, it's not something I think about. It's not going to happen with my vision condition in my lifetime I don't think and I wouldn't be who I am if I hadn't been through the experiences that being blind has given me, of which there have been more good than bad.
Mokohi [OP] 3 points 3y ago
That's understandable. I have both an interest and fear in the possibility. I would really wish to do it for the benefits I have never had, but I would also be kind of scared of having this new, clearer vision that I've never had before. I can see a little, but even the difference between new glasses and old are disorienting. It's a little scary to think what having full sight would be like. My condition is nearing a solution which is why this was suddenly brought back up in my life, but right now, the treatment would be too expensive when released anyways.
razzretina 3 points 3y ago
That's pretty cool that they might have a solution for you at some point soon. Even if it's not affordable at first, chances are it could be later. But I'd want to make sure I would get proper sighted life skills training before getting any vision back on that level, heh.
adrienneE49 2 points 3y ago
No. As much as I used to fantasize about getting back my vision when I was younger, I now understand that it is fundamentally a part of who I am. Which does not mean that I don’t feel lonely and wonder what my life would be like if I could see.

But every decision I make I make with the knowledge that I have to accommodate my eyes. I am not defined by my eyes, but they have made me the way I am today. I have had to deal with something terribly hard at a very young age. So I am able to put things into perspective. And I often feel alone in life and that I am a burden. Yet I still wouldn’t change myself.

It has shaped me and I have grown into someone who always thinks of others because no one thinks of me. And if I can help other people because I am looking out for those who feel like I do, then it is all worth it to me. Even if life is harder for me then for others.

And my problems are out in the open, other people berry theirs, I can’t. And I think that’s a very good thing. Because I have to ask for help and that is not something I am good at. So I am growing and learning how to ask for help when I need it.
blindpsyco 2 points 3y ago
Cured from now forward? You bet!

But to never be blind? No, I love who I am and all the adventures that-got me here.
codeofdusk 2 points 3y ago
A cure for blindness is kinda like a power strip – I'm not buying one unless it's pretty cheap, works with my existing equipment, and comes with an energy-saving OFF switch.
Mokohi [OP] 2 points 3y ago
Understandable. I imagine it could be very overwhelming to suddenly have a new sense, and the cost is always a concern.
oncenightvaler 1 points 3y ago
I had thought a lot about this issue but I believe that I would not take the opportunity because I am too used to being how I am, and because this is a central part of my identity and I would have much to relearn.
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Mokohi [OP] 2 points 3y ago
Please do not be disrespectful. If you are not engaging in conversation, you need not post in this thread.
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