So as a blind person with a partner who is used to mainly being around sighted people, does blind reddit have any suggestions on how I can pick up on these visual things? Things like facial expressions, nodding, pointing just to name a few. I know her well and if she speaks or we have physical contact I have no problems. It’s just the non visual stuff. Thanks
SpikeTheCookie5 points3y ago
Here's a really good article on this by someone who's been blind since birth.
Great article, but I wish he went into a lot more detail.
We blind folk need a proper course on this kind of thing.
djflex90 [OP]1 points3y ago
A very good read. I suppose that these things can be learned over time. Just sucks in the moment
TrippingWithNoSight5 points3y ago
Almost impossible for me. I'm curious about other people's experiences.
I plan to go to a social connection event sometime next month (possibly) while tripping, so I'll definitely let you know if that helps with reading people at all.
8i8oio2 points3y ago
My sweetheart tells me his non-verbal cues, like “I’m smiling” if I’ve told a half-funny joke.
I’m not shy, so when I’m in a group of new friends I’ll often tell them I don’t see much so if they do any side glances or smirks.. I’m not being rude ^.^ I just wont see it. That has been a successful ice breaker so far.
At a craft night this week they were very interested in my Braille device. Wanted to see how it worked. It was fun!
Mycrotag2 points3y ago
I grew up around sighted people all my life. Went to public school, my brother, mom, and my child's mother later on would go on to confirm all the visual cues I knew. Honestly, a lot of it was so natural to me and I wish I could tell you how. I knew shaking my head was a substitute for answering. I knew that 3-4 inches above the area where you hear their voice, you know that's their eyes and you know to open and look at them directly. I knew that shrugging your shoulders was a thing when you didn't agree. It became so second nature to where I can pretty much always be spot on with shaking hands. Based on height and other factors, I have a general idea where your hand is. I will put to the level and meet you have way/lock.
Good luck. I look forward to see if others can definitely get there with techniques.
TrippingWithNoSight1 points3y ago
How did you learn though? Can you teach me?
bscross321 points3y ago
I don't think it's possible.
TrippingWithNoSight1 points3y ago
!remindme 45 days so, how did it go? Share your experience!
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