I mean I'm sure you know this (especially if you're also poly because that is so important in that lifestyle) but like, communicate communicate communicate. Dont be afraid to ask (polite and appropriate) questions. Like dont jump into "how do you wipe your butt if you're blind? (Or regarding trans stuff) Have you had *the surgery*???" But like, "do you like using large print or braille menus when we go out?" Is a good question. I imagine if you're moving into the sexytime stuff there might be even more questions that might be kind of awkward to ask but.... Trans people and blind people, in my experience, they would rather be asked something than have a boundary crossed.

And you seem very conscious of consent, which is super important. Blind people usually have a lot of stories about people NOT respecting their bodily autonomy. Dont overthink it though. If you would go in for a kiss with a sighted, poly, cis guy, then, unless previously discussed that it's not ok, go for it! (Or go for my signature move, brush their hair our of their face and go all cute like, 'can I kiss you?')

Good luck and I hope you have many good future dates!!!!

You are fine. I would take the over thinking to just that. Over thinking.

The general rule with most disabilities is to let people get on with it. If you want to help or they are clearly struggling or getting frustrated when offer to help and see what they want you to do for them.

Outside of that. No fixing the awkward of dating someone I'm afraid. That part is universal. Typically good meaning questions from non- strangers are always welcome. You can't go wrong asking a date a thoughtful question.

Relax take a deep breath and roll with it, he’s lost his sight not his ability to communicate, but maybe ask him if something is okay before you go in for it so that neither of you feels like it’s a surprise, it might be awkward at first but if you are worried about his boundaries asking first is a nice way to establish that you care!

Ok but will you listen? Go. With. The. Flow. 🙂 You'll do your own head in at this rate. Good luck with it.

Haha, yes, you’re over thinking all of this. He’s just a regular guy. :) If anything blindness related comes up that’s important, he’ll tell you. In general, we value being respected and treated like everyone else as much as possible. Treat him like you do your other partners. That’s it. :) Good luck!