codeplaysleep 2 points 3y ago
Yeah, the article's a little disjointed, but I think the author's point is that maybe she would have been more inclined to stand up for herself if her disability wasn't always "hidden" behind person-first language and she'd instead learned at a younger age to embrace it as part of her identity.
I'm not sure that would actually make a difference, though, because in the situations she described, there's still the teacher/student dynamic and the imbalance of authority there to deal with.
Also, as a kid, I interacted with plenty of people outside of school and dealt with overcoming many things as a result of my vision loss and I'm not sure the words a teacher used to address me would have really had any impact on my own sense of identity, especially when those words weren't harmful or cruel.
As to the language itself, I may be in the minority, but I feel like person-first language kind of accidentally does the opposite of what it's intended to do, because we only use it for things that society considers negative or bad. No one says "<person> who is beautiful" or "<person> who is smart."
That said, it's all sort of abstract. I'll personally use identity-first language, but if someone addresses me with person-first language, I may correct them because the grammar sounds weird, but I'm not going to be bothered by it, because I understand that their intentions are good.