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(mostly just venting) I'm not career-oriented at all. Any advice? (self.Blind)
submitted by MaybeAnIdiot2
Hello all,

I have a pretty marketable skill, and most who know me on a casual level would think I'm destined for (and looking forward to) a career involving it. I try not to indicate otherwise; it's better to be pursuing something than nothing, and beyond this (Linux administration, if you care), as far as ideas for work are concerned, that's just about what I've got.

I've realized more and more as I've gotten older that the 9-5 (or should I say 8-5) office life holds absolutely no appeal for me, though. Being around people for any length of time is exhausting, and that's without throwing in any of the bullshit that comes with being part of a team, staying competitive/relevant, etc. A few years of that and I'll kill myself. Particularly when you add blindness, which sort of limits you to that type of work; I've heard lots of stories about long, arduous commutes that leave time for nothing once you're home, and I just couldn't. Huge respect to everyone who can, but I just lack the energy.

More generally, I find almost every aspect of this culture abhorrent. Particularly the fact that we as humans love to make life more complex and frenetic all the time (the sentiment that these days our lives are busier than ever is everywhere), and that your profession is regarded as, basically, your identity. I understand the realities of the age we live in, and also that not everyone thinks this way, but it is the prevailing attitude, and is mostly accepted with "that's just the way it is" or other such nonsense. But I reject it, all of it.

To be clear, I do want to work meaningfully and support myself, preferably making a positive impact on people while doing so. I also want to live as free from society as realistically possible, for the reasons I've stated above and more. Work should be a means to an end, not the end itself.

I think about a minimal lifestyle, so money isn't as big of a factor as it would otherwise be. I'd rather live that way regardless, but it's hard if you're not moving. I think often about living on the road, maybe in an RV or something, never staying in one place for too long. I've had really strong wanderlust for as long as I can remember, but I'm unsure how to satisfy it. I'd need to find a companion, obviously, or more than one, people who want the same things as me. How would I contribute, though? I'd be much less productive with odd jobs, and as I said previously, I've got no other skills worth speaking of. Could I work remotely, doing contract/freelance work? I've thought for a long time about getting into embedded systems programming and really low-level stuff since that seems a bit more obscure, and it may be easier to find work doing what most people don't want to. Doubtless there are things I haven't even considered.

So my question to you all is, do you know of anyone (blind would be even more interesting) who's managed to live a lifestyle that's a little "out there" and made it work? Do you think it's feasible? How should I, totally blind and severely hearing impaired, make it work? I realize living this way is no small thing, but I'm willing to put in the work to make it happen, if only I knew what to do. I'd really appreciate any thoughts you have on this. I want to live a quiet but interesting life, with lots of novel experiences, and I don't feel that living conventionally is the way to do that. If you've read this far, thank you. I hope life is treating you well.
razzretina 3 points 3y ago
Have you looked back on your life and found any times where you felt particularly fulfilled? That's how I landed on my current career trajectory and it's basically the opposite of what I'd expected while still maintaining the things at the heart of what I thought I wanted to do and none of the parts of that old career that were dragging me down. I went from freelance art and creative industry (not a sustainable job even when you aren't at risk of your sight failing completely at any time) to teaching. A fulfilling job isn't always about the money. It's what's important to you and using the skills you have or things you enjoy as a springboard to something you feel is worthwhile.
MaybeAnIdiot2 [OP] 1 points 3y ago
The only times I've felt truly fulfilled and happy have been when I was with good friends and could be somewhat carefree (we'd all go to the same places so I didn't have to worry as much about blind problems etc) and when I've been hiking/on road trips. I can't really make a career out of that haha.
blind_cowboy 2 points 3y ago
Maybe you could. How about reviewing all of the places you go and things you do from a blind persons perspective on a YouTube channel. Who knows where it could take you with enough viewership.
MaybeAnIdiot2 [OP] 1 points 3y ago
I really don't have interesting content ideas.
KingWithoutClothes 2 points 3y ago
So, basically you want something that isn't too creative but isn't a typical office job either.

This is just an idea but as a nerdy/studious guy, I would suggest going into academia. I have myself thought about it many times. I'm currently at the end of my Masters and I do have an urge to pursue a PhD and go into research. Unfortunately in my case this would be difficult because I'm already in my early 30s (my studies took forever due to my disability). If I really do the PhD thing, it's going to be almost impossible to have children with my wife (something we both want).

If it wasn't for this issue though, I would totally do it. I'm a very inquisitive person and I love learning new things. Also, when you work in academia you do technically work in an office but it's obviously very different from normal office jobs. The atmosphere is much calmer and peaceful. You share your office with maybe 2 colleagues, rather than 20.

It depends a bit on your age of course. If you're already in your late 30s or older, you will probably feel like it's too late to start something completely new like this. If you're worried about tuition, you could move to a country like Germany where universities are tuition-free also for foreigners. This may sound very unrealistic and I'm sorry if it's a dumb suggestion. It's just what came to my mind right now and it's the only thing I can really think of (aside from other things that have already been named).
MaybeAnIdiot2 [OP] 1 points 3y ago
I've thought about it briefly, but I don't see myself doing the PhD thing. Wouldn't know where to begin, for one, and from what I've heard it's a pretty stressful process.
DrillInstructorJan 2 points 3y ago
Just so you know, wanting to avoid the rat race of being stuck in an office every day surrounded by people you don't necessarily like all that much is not specific to people with sight problems. That's a fairly normal for anyone.

I had a horrible office job that had many of the characteristics you seem to want to avoid and it wasn't that great. I escaped by going self employed but I don't recommend it unless you have some decent leads for work. Just going freelance and hoping it'll work is a recipe for a really hard time. But I do have the best boss in the world now.
MaybeAnIdiot2 [OP] 1 points 3y ago
Oh, I didn't mean to imply that it was specific to blind people. For me, this is about much more than work. I'm just not well suited for this society. Like I said, almost no aspect of it seems to work for me, and it just gets worse with time. I really just wanted to throw this out there on Reddit and see if anyone knew of examples of interesting/unconventional living.
DrillInstructorJan 2 points 3y ago
Hey don't worry I didn't mean to criticise, just didn't want you to feel like the odd one out. It doesn't help if there are extra reasons for you to feel unusual. It's one of the reasons I went self employed which I think is great in general but you have to be in the right position to do it.
MaybeAnIdiot2 [OP] 1 points 3y ago
Yeah, for sure.
soundwarrior20 2 points 3y ago
Hi mate, a lot of what you say resonates with me. I’m a totally blind electronic musician and I have ended up volunteering on a software project. In terms of living in unconventional lifestyle I’ve known blind people that have travelled extensively with the family and others that have been musicians or creative in some way. I myself would like to do the backpacker hippie trail but I know of no companies that would accommodate a guide for this. Feel free to private message me if you want more info.
MaybeAnIdiot2 [OP] 1 points 3y ago
Interesting. Yeah, it seems like the kind of thing where you'd really need a friend who wants the same things.
codeplaysleep 2 points 3y ago
System administration is a job you could easily do remotely. If you want to be even more marketable, it would be a short leap for you to get something like AWS certification or learn Heroku ops, or Azure, or Kubernetes, etc. Just pick a stack. You could either find a job with a remote company or do consulting.

I'm a software engineer and while my current employee, as well as my last one, was aware of my vision loss, back when I was consulting, almost none of my clients knew about it. They just didn't need to.
MaybeAnIdiot2 [OP] 1 points 3y ago
Yep, I plan on eventually going for some certs, if I decide this is what I want to do. I feel I may just no longer be interested in this career, though. I don't get a sense of fulfillment out of it, and it seems there's this constant scramble to stay on top of skills and whatnot. I'm not saying it doesn't exist in other fields, but this is the only one I have some experience with. Just feels like a rat race, and even the idea stresses me out. I may be totally off the mark, and regardless I'm glad your job works for you.
BlueRock956 2 points 3y ago
What about becoming an author.
MaybeAnIdiot2 [OP] 1 points 3y ago
Nope. I'm not creative, and if I were, I wouldn't rely on creative work for a living. I feel like that would compromise my quality, as I'd have to think about what sells.
KillerLag 2 points 3y ago
Most people with vision loss I know who travel extensive usually go with a companion (a good friend or spouse), but I've known people who have traveled all over. I knew a client who ran ultra-marathons, and he had run one in every continent (and that included Antarctica. I have no idea how the heck that was done). In terms of his job, he was a drummer for a band, so he did end up traveling a fair bit, but would be going with his teammates.
MaybeAnIdiot2 [OP] 1 points 3y ago
That's pretty neat.
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oncenightvaler 1 points 3y ago
I had graduated with what most would not consider a marketable skill: a degree in English Literature. I had struggled for a few years to figure out what career path I want.

Earlier this year in October a career placement centre Path told me about a job for the Board of Education doing Braille transcription. I debated and decided that that is something worth pursuing.

Even though I know Braille I will likely have to take a course to get myself certified and I found two options for that. So hopefully my course takes around only one or two months and then by September I can work for the Board of Education writing Braille worksheets for students and textbooks when needed.

The whole reason I want to do this is because I got a lot of help from an educational assistant in elementary school and high school and would love to be that for other students, broiling for them and giving them a positive role model to chat with; hope you find a meaningful job.
bradley22 1 points 3y ago
I can’t give advice but would like to say I live off of disability money and enjoy it.

I live with my grandparents so that does make things easier but I still pay bills and rent.

I don’t have a job and don’t care to get one. No I don’t have much money but I much prefer that than being in a job I hate everyday

If you have the chance, do what makes you happy.
MaybeAnIdiot2 [OP] 1 points 3y ago
I too live on disability, though it's enough for me to live independently, with roommates. That's not a long-term solution though; I want to support myself, and I'm definitely not happy.
bradley22 1 points 3y ago
Then what can you do apart from travel permanently?

Are there some blind holiday things you can check out?
MaybeAnIdiot2 [OP] 1 points 3y ago
This is my question. I want to know about different, unconventional ways of living. When I say travel, I don't mean tourism.
bradley22 1 points 3y ago
I know but a holiday is something you could do.

Hmm, I wonder if there are any subs for what you want.

Backpacking, hitch hiking, things like that, right? There’s probably subs for that.
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