My first real "blind injury" in a long time...(self.Blind)
submitted by codeplaysleep
Tonight I dislocated my shoulder.... I'm wondering if there's an O&M skill I'm missing or if this was just bad luck.. I think it was bad luck. Maybe mostly, I'm just venting, I guess.
It was dark and I was walking through a parking lot - I had my cane and I was walking along a row of parked vehicles, about 2ft behind them, so I figured I was good, when all of a sudden, *wham*! I walked right into the end of some boards someone had sticking out of the back of their pickup truck. They were angled in the truck bed too, positioned in such a way that instead of just walking into it and knocking the boards aside, they had nowhere to move and the full force of the impact got me right in the shoulder.
Normally, my lack of vision doesn't get me down, but right now I'm in so much pain.... just mad at myself and at the owner of the truck and so over being blind tonight.
BabyBaphomet_13 points3y ago
Aw man. I'm sorry. That's just one of the fun perks of life though! I know plenty of sighted people who've gotten really hurt in silly ways like that. Slipping on spilled water, running into a glass door, getting whacked in the face by a low branch, walking into a pole... Those things happen to everyone. I agree though, it's extremely frustrating when you feel like you could've avoided an issue by simply not being blind. It sucks.
Hope you feel better soon! You're alive, you're ok, you can keep on walking after this incident. It's gonna be alright friend.
codeplaysleep [OP]4 points3y ago
Thanks! Yeah.. I'm slowly getting over my mad - just frustrated an in pain. I'm sure a good night's sleep will help.
makeupdupesforever5 points3y ago
Wish I could give you a kiss.. This happened because you’re human , not blind.. Don’t be ashamed.. I mean I’m sighted and about 3 weeks ago I fell down the stairs so vigorously all the hair pins popped out of my bun. I still have a bruise! 🥰😘
codeplaysleep [OP]3 points3y ago
Ouch. Falling down stairs is the worst,
Thanks. :) I'm in a better mood this morning, at least.
oncenightvaler4 points3y ago
I had a dumb injury the other day. On Sunday I walked off a curb and slipped because it was wetter outside than when I had entered the church like two hours before. I skinned my knee, and tore a hole in my new khakis which I honestly was more upset about, lol. So my friend who was with me asked "so does this happen often?" "less often than you would expect, maybe six times a year or so that I take bad tumbles"
codeplaysleep [OP]2 points3y ago
Yeah, I ended up ruining a jacket, too. I definitely end up getting injured less since I started using my cane. I think if I'd stepped wrong off a curb and sprained an ankle it wouldn't have bothered me so much, but this just felt like it was out of nowhere, completely blind-sided me and I had no chance. :P
Oh well, I'm off today and tomorrow and have a party to go to tonight - things could be worse!
oncenightvaler1 points3y ago
going to a New Year's Eve party myself with a prime rib dinner and comedians.
hope-opotamus3 points3y ago
I'm really sorry that happened to you. Don't be mad at yourself.
codeplaysleep [OP]1 points3y ago
Thanks. :) Definitely in a better mood today. :)
BenandGracie2 points3y ago
I have things like this happen to me a lot.
I don't have any vision, so I use echo location to walk around my dad's truck. It just so happens that he is a roofer, and sometimes he forgets to tell me he has a ladder sticking out the back of the truck. My echo location doesn't always catch it because it is right at my forhead, and I run right in to it. I hope your shoulder gets better.
codeplaysleep [OP]1 points3y ago
Ow. I took a fire extinguisher to the forehead once when I was walking along a wall and it was apparently ... right there.
At least my family has finally learned to close cabinet doors behind them, even if they are just going to turn around and open them again to put things away, etc.
Stick812 points3y ago
Sorry about the injury, I had to adjust my habits after running into a trailer hitch on a truck. People are required to put a red flag on overhanging loads, but doesn't really help us. Sounds like just bad luck, could have happened to a distracted sighted person too. If it's a big concern, and you have the disposable income, you could get iGlasses, they are worn like most eyewear and detect obstacles around head height.
codeplaysleep [OP]1 points3y ago
I've thought about devices like that, but none of them seem to work well enough or intelligently enough to make them worth the money.
I've had more than one encounter with trailer hitches to the shin bone. Those aren't fun. In fact, banging up my shin on one was actually the last straw in what made me start using my cane more, because I could run my cane along just behind the bumper and make sure there was no hitch attached.
BlueRock9561 points3y ago
Hi, by law when a vehicle has something sticking out beyond the trunk that thing needs to be marked. A red flag at the end of the trunk, for example. Unfortunatly there is not a skill you can use. When I go have lunch at the restaurant next to my office I stay away from the truckers because they may have things sticking out of there huge vehicles. like you, I learned that the hard way.
blackberrybunny1 points3y ago
Oh wow, are you at the hospital then?!! I don't know how someone could dislocate their shoulder and not go to the nearest ER. That is not a thing that heals on its own. Sorry this happened to you!
I had something similar happen to me once. I was learning O&M skills for the first time with a white cane. I marveled at how the echo off of its metal tip could alert me to things around me, such as when I walked near a bush, or past a utility pole. You could \*hear\* that stuff!!
Well my cane couldn't alert me to the bucket hanging off of the end of a huge bucket truck. I could \*hear\* that a very large vehicle (or something) was to my right that was never there before. But there was no way I could know about the bucket. And BAM! I hit it with my face and head. So embarrassing!! But to this day I can only laugh, as it was some kind of a sign. A few years later, I'd meet the man of my dreams---my husband---who as a profession drove and operate a bucket truck every day in his career as a tree surgeon. Now I joke to people I'm married to a "surgeon" who is on call 24/7, and cuts off limbs almost every day. They ask what KIND of a surgeon is he?-- and I say, "A tree surgeon!" to laughs all around. :-) Too bad the pay isn't as high, hahahah.
Hope you feel better soon, codeplay! \*I had an O&M instructor tell me of a scary thing that happened to him: His cane missed the open manhole, which was not blocked or barricaded, and he FELL IN! He was hurt a little, and completely embarrassed, but he survived. Shit happens.
codeplaysleep [OP]2 points3y ago
Yeah, it sort of just popped out and then back into place right away. I ended up going to the walk-in clinic last night since my whole arm was hurting. They took x-rays and said nothing looks broken or torn, told me to ice it and take ibuprofen for pain, ice it, rest it for a couple days, etc. and follow up with my GP after the new year.
I had an injury to that shoulder many years ago and messed it up far worse, so it's just a little unstable and it doesn't take a huge impact to make things slide around.... that grinding feeling, though... ugh.
Bucket trucks to the fact are good oems for you? I'm already happily married, though, so I don't think there's a carpenter in my future. :P
blackberrybunny1 points3y ago
I'm glad you are ok! Much better luck, health, and happiness, to all of us VIP (visually impaired persons), in 2020!
DrillInstructorJan1 points3y ago
I dislocated my shoulder as a kid (when I wasn't blind) and it just popped back in. X rays to check nothing bad had happened. Nothing bad had happened. Walked it off, really. Sore for a week.
DrillInstructorJan1 points3y ago
Ouch. Get well soon.
If it is any consolation the worst moment I had involved an estate agent's (realtor's) sign that had been zip tied to a fence, but fell over horizontally at more or less face level. I walked into the edge of it. Staggered back into the apartment looking like something out of the texas chainsaw massacre still clueless about what I'd actually hit.
I am over being blind several times a day.
codeplaysleep [OP]1 points3y ago
Oh wow, that sounds painful.
My shoulder doesn't feel any better this morning, but my mood has improved.
KillerLag1 points3y ago
Unfortunately, something like that isn't picked up by the cane. It's too high up, and it projects outwards. There is currently no good technique for protecting yourself from that if you can't see it. While there are canes with ultrasonic sensors, the cost makes it difficult for most people to get. And it's not realistic to put your hand up constantly.
If you have some vision, a good flashlight can help, but is no guarantee (once again, due to the height).
codeplaysleep [OP]1 points3y ago
I sometimes use a flashlight at night, but honestly, I doubt I would have caught this, because shoulder height in the middle of a parking lot isn't where you expect to find a random object. I think I'm just going to chalk this one up to "one of those things."
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