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Can I ask my boyfriend's blind father if I can interview him for my essay about people with visual impairment? (self.Blind)
submitted by plsletmepetyourdog
First of all, sorry if my english is bad. I am from Switzerland and can't speak english fluently. So my boyfriend and I got together almost two years ago. His father is blind and he is one of the most kindest person I know. I am doing an apprenticeship and we have to write an essay about a subject that we find interesting. It should also be a subject where we are able to interview someone with experience in it. Because the story of my boyfriend's father inspires me so much, I want to write about the life of people with visual impairment. I wanted to ask him if I could maybe do an interview with him about his experience and his life. He never told me anything about his blindness. Now I don't know how I should ask him and I am afraid that he might take it as an insult that I want to interview him. He should not think that I only see him as a blind person because I just like him as the person he is and sometimes I even forget that he can't see.
Should I ask him and how? Am I thinking too much about it? What do you think?
It would be great if someone could give me some advice or maybe tell me how they would feel in his situation.
Thank you so much!
bscross32 8 points 3y ago
I don't see why not. I would avoid so-called inspiration porn though. Things like awwwwww, you can dress yourself, how nice. Hey, how did you manage to tie your shoe laces? Stuff of that nature. As long as you are willing to treat him as a person like any other, I don't know why this wouldn't be a good thing.
factfarmer 7 points 3y ago
Ask FIL if he is willing to share his thoughts and experiences with you on this subject. He may welcome the opportunity. I would imagine there are many things he wishes sighted people knew about being blind. Nothing wrong with sincere questions.
SecTrono 3 points 3y ago
Ask your boyfriend.
jemaj 3 points 3y ago
Of course you can ask him. Why would that be offensive?
bradley22 2 points 3y ago
Ask him :)
JynxBJJ 1 points 3y ago
Only read the title. Yes.
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