Hey all, I'm looking for help/ideas for helping my step daughter who's visually impaired. We had somebody call to the house to give us advice as my step daughters eyesight is getting worse. She's started slipping up and down the stairs in the house and started walking in to the door frames so we got in contact with the person who helped her get the large print books for school and she was saying that the colour scheme in the house doesn't help for example white doors and door frames with a light paint colour on the walls which means she can't judge the difference between the wall and the door frames so keeps walking into them. We're going to sort the paint issue out. Our problem is our stairs. We got new carpet on the stairs not to long ago it's just one colour and we're looking for any cheap or homemade stair rods to see if we put them down would she see each step and be able to judge them better and realise where each step is. Thanks for any advice
stupidpoopoohead11 points3y ago
You don’t need to repaint your house. Get your daughter a long white cane. You can get one for free from NFB. It will keep her from falling down stairs and running into walls. As she get more comfortable she’ll learn your house and won’t need to use the cane at home anymore. The cane is something she can control and it can be used in any environment no matter the color scheme. It will give her autonomy over her surroundings and grow her confidence in her own abilities. There’s a really good group on Facebook for parents of blind children where you can get more ideas from other families search NOPBC and it should come up. I can send you a direct link too.
ShrekDaTurd [OP]1 points3y ago
I'm not on Facebook but I will tell the wife to look it up. Thank you
ESTJ1371 points3y ago
if you haven’t found it here.
https://freecane.nfb.org
get a mobility instructor through the school to teach her how to use it. and see if they will provide ils training or find a place that will provide it blind organizations around you. ask around here if necessary start a post saying blind services in this state or part of this state.
brimstone_tea1 points3y ago
I don't know one blind person (and I know 100+ because I was in a school for blind people) who uses a cane at home.
stupidpoopoohead4 points3y ago
I know hundreds as well. I don’t know any adults who’ve been blind since childhood that use a cane at home but I do know children and those who are newly blind that use a cane in their house until they get used to their surroundings.
CloudyBeep2 points3y ago
But how many of them have repainted their house just because of their blindness? Not very many is my guess.
Remy_C6 points3y ago
I second the cane. She probably won't need it in the house for long, but then she might. Depends on her. Becoming blind takes getting used to, whether you go total or lose it gradually. If she's trained properly how to use the cane, she'll figure herself out in time. What she needs most from you is support, and not to be treated differently because of her vision. It's hard for the visual to fathom what it's like to not have vision She will have challenges, but being blind is, in many ways far less of a problem in today's society than it once was. Especially if she has even a little vision left. But even if she doesn't, with enough confidence, training and support, she will be fine.
BlindasaurusRex4 points3y ago
Not sure how it would work with smaller children but hand rails. i feel i can do any stairs if i have a hand rail, or a heavy duty tape to mark the edge of each step might work. i use tape on the stone steps in the garden.
ESTJ1372 points3y ago
hand rails is an excellent idea I am totally blind have been for 19 years or so and still use rails for stairs and cane. I mean I don’t know it but it’s good indicators.
Mendy32732 points3y ago
I was told to use high-contrast tape around my house, as well as adhesive dots on certain buttons, etc. I purchased both on Amazon only because the support office I was going through was out of supplies.
jrs122 points3y ago
How old is your step daughter? Also, what country do you live in? Age and location matter for what services you get and what are appropriate accommodations. If your step daughter is just a toddler, it may be appropriate to be giving her a cane to use in the house now in order to increase her exposure to it and learn how it functions. If your step daughter is older, it isn't very common to use a cane within your own home as it should always be familiar and safe. If you have a lot of people in your home though and things are always getting left on the floor or moved about, your step daughter may benefit from using a cane at home. Changing the paint is an option either way. If you were thinking about panting to begin with, contrasting colors may help your step daughter, but what is she going to do the next time she is in a challenging environment like a dark movie theater or restaurant? The moral of the story is that your step daughter needs to learn the skills she needs to keep herself safe in all environments. If she is slipping up and down the stairs at home, she is at risk of doing the same thing or worse in any environment she encounters with stairs. Is your step daughter working with a orientation and mobility specialist at school? If she isn't three yet, do you have one coming to your home? Make sure that they know about these slips. It may change what they are teaching her so that she can feel safe and confident everywhere she goes. My opinion is, don't change the environment unless you were planning to anyway. Change the skills your step daughter is learning so that she can tackle any environment like this on her own with confidence.
CosmicBunny972 points3y ago
I hold onto the railing and if I’m going down, I tap my front of my foot on the edge of the stairs, and when I’m going up I tap my foot where the next step is. For walking around the house I tend to trail my hand against the walls. I can’t promise that this will be effective for your step-daughter though, but I wish you luck :) Also maybe look into O&M or occupational therapy for around the house?
B-dub312 points3y ago
I’m partially sighted and can navigate well without a cane, but I have been using one especially to help me detect changes in height, like stairs and curbs. I’ve noticed I can navigate stairs that have a defined edge (Like the edge is colored black or has a distinct texturing). She should receive orientation and mobility training.
bscross321 points3y ago
Most stairs are 7 inches on the riser and 11 on the tread so knowing that, if your house is the same, she can just learn what that feels like. I run up and down stairs all over the place.
Drop9Reddit1 points3y ago
What you could do which my parents did at least for nights was to get glow in the dark electric tape at the edge of the stairs.
Otherwise maybe a metal stair edge.
serconian-2 points3y ago
Ideally you'd want specialist advice rather than general advice on contrasting colors for door frames before spending money and possibly making mistakes.
Given you've put new carpet down on the stairs, it seems you've lived in the house for a while and your step child knows his/her way around, so I'd disregard any suggestion involving using a cane inside.
Kids want to move about quickly, they obviously need to do this. And they are going to bump and fall.
The doorframe idea is great.
Don't attach anything to the stairs unless advised to do so by a pro, it might be a hazard. As another member commented, put hivis tape on the stairs for now, until you can get your home assessed properly.
Extra lighting around the stairs might help and tape around the doorframe could be a quick fix too.
It's hard not to make assumptions when replying to a post, but my experience of this issue is to get a proper assessment done before making changes to your home.
Basically, don't be like me and do it half assed and/or not allow for further vision loss.
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