Send everyone a package with the same kinds of cakes, then we can each try one and compare and contrast. That's what I just did with a family member's birthday and he's a grownup!

Virtual movie marathons, zoom conference band, virtual murder mystery/Nancy drew night, everyone makes a mug cake together and sings happy birthday, virtual uno/card games, etc... Just about anything can be converted to long distance if everyone is willing to get creative and be patient.