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i need some advice about approaching a girl please. (self.Blind)
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Fange_Strellow 9 points 3y ago
Probably best if you just leave her be, you sound a bit creepy
[deleted] [OP] 0 points 3y ago
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Fange_Strellow 5 points 3y ago
And how will you react when she asks you to leave her alone? Move on. Even through the internet I am feeling some vibes that tell me you could be a threat.
Laser_Lens_4 3 points 3y ago
I'm going to take a guess and say you don't have much experience with dating and even less interacting with disabled people. You can just go up and say hi. Be friendly about it. I mean, don't go up and shout or get really close, but be friendly. Be ready for her not to accept your advances. It's possible she may simply want to be left alone.
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You can talk to someone with a disability like you'd talk to anyone else, without encroaching on personal boundaries and showing mutual respect. Don't just go up and tell her that you think she's beautiful out of the blue. That's a bit creepy.
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You can talk to someone with a disability like you'd talk to anyone else, without encroaching on personal boundaries and showing mutual respect. Don't just go up and tell her that you think she's beautiful out of the blue. That's a bit creepy.
bscross32 2 points 3y ago
Dude your vibe is not chill, you sound like a bit of a creep honestly. Just leave her alone.
[deleted] [OP] 0 points 3y ago
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bscross32 1 points 3y ago
But you don't even know her. SO far, all you know is what she looks like. She could totally be incompatible with you. The point is that you seem to be putting her on a pedestal without even knowing anything about her.
You're going to do what, exactly? Go up to her and say, "Hi, you're beautiful, I love you!" Do you know how weird and offputting that sounds? Even if you don't do that, I feel like you would be creepily awkward and yeah. I don't really want to help you if I'm honest, because something about your original post didn't sit right with me, and I'm worried about this girl's safety now.
You're going to do what, exactly? Go up to her and say, "Hi, you're beautiful, I love you!" Do you know how weird and offputting that sounds? Even if you don't do that, I feel like you would be creepily awkward and yeah. I don't really want to help you if I'm honest, because something about your original post didn't sit right with me, and I'm worried about this girl's safety now.
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Envrin 2 points 3y ago
RJHand 1 points 3y ago
So let me get this straight... You saw this girl, you know she's at least partially blind. You also say shes "The one for you" but you've never spoken to her?
Yeah your a creep. Lol Sorry but, yeah. Regardless of the blindness factor like if you've never spoken to someone how would you know there the one for you?
You good?
Yeah your a creep. Lol Sorry but, yeah. Regardless of the blindness factor like if you've never spoken to someone how would you know there the one for you?
You good?
[deleted] [OP] 1 points 3y ago
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coarsing_batch 1 points 3y ago
Are you Ted Mosby?
RJHand 1 points 3y ago
Lmao.
Placebo_DMT 1 points 3y ago
I don't know why people are calling you creepy. You sound like a genuine person. Maybe I say this since I lost my right eye and having a girl who is the same is a fantasy for me. Regardless, im sure if your intentions are true, you could just approach her like a regular person. Good luck.
Ant5477 1 points 3y ago
It does not hurt to just take a chance and think of a question that might not be offensive, or say something that may make her laugh or something to break the ice, but just do it, you only live once
bradley22 0 points 3y ago
Try talking to her like you would anyone.
You could try mentioning the weather, things like that.
As for your family I can’t help sorry.
You could try mentioning the weather, things like that.
As for your family I can’t help sorry.
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