What's your answer to "you don't look blind"?(self.Blind)
submitted by Lightxd
I have retinitis pigmentosa, which means I have tunnel vision, no night vision, and too sensitive to light, but because I don't use a cane, people don't believe I'm blind. What's your answer to those who say "you don't look blind"?
BenandGracie9 points3y ago
I get this sometimes. When I tell people I am totally blind, they usually think I have some vision because I look at them when I speak to them. I usually say something smart like I don't need eyes to hear you talking. Honestly, I like when people don't think I'm blind. I get to walk around for the rest of the day and imagine myself as some sort of ninja. That usually ends the minute I run in to something.
Lightxd [OP]3 points3y ago
oooooh, poor thing. I;ve got more than 30 scars on my legs from coffee tables and fire hydrants
achromatic_037 points3y ago
I would ask them what they think blind looks like and then talk to them about the media, confirmation bias, and stereotypes. I would say, if someone does look blind or not, you're making an assumption until you talk to them. If they have any kind of minority status, I would use that to help them relate to being stereotyped. I would talk about how complicated the world of blindness is...and then I would get off the soap box lol! I know not everyone likes to educate, but I don't mind.
Lightxd [OP]3 points3y ago
YOu need lots of patience for that, which most of us lack :)
achromatic_031 points3y ago
yeah I know, but it's one of the only areas where I have patience lol
bscross326 points3y ago
You don't sound dumb!
Lightxd [OP]3 points3y ago
Classic!
DrillInstructorJan5 points3y ago
Background is I could see until I was 19 and I have completely normal body language, so I get this constantly. If you want to be offensive, you just reply "and I bet you don't look stupid." If you don't, you just laugh and do what city girls said.
Lightxd [OP]2 points3y ago
What if they actually DO look stupid? :p
Fange_Strellow4 points3y ago
“Thanks, I try not to.”
Lightxd [OP]1 points3y ago
Do they laugh?
its_the_city_girls3 points3y ago
Looks can be deceiving or have they ever told you not to judge a book by its cover.
Lightxd [OP]2 points3y ago
That;s a good one, but they will probably not believe we're blind after hearing it :)
CAHWY171 points3y ago
"My reply is' You don't look stupid.
guitarandbooks1 points3y ago
I lost my sight when I was 14 so often when I am in a situation where people don't see my cane or didn't see my now retired Seeing Eye dog, I'll get that remark. My response usually is "Well, what does blind look like then?"
Lightxd [OP]1 points3y ago
And what do they say?
messiestobject1 points3y ago
Would it be possible to make a joke like "That's pretty much what it means!" or is that really stupid? Based on the way you can interpret "You don't look blind" to mean "You don't look while blind, you don't look when you are blind" similar to phrasing like "You shouldn't drive drunk."
Lightxd [OP]2 points3y ago
Will probably get people confused but I like that you've found a new angle
IDKzeros0 points3y ago
Lol I was going to say you don't look dumb. How about you don't look suker punched, hey lemme fix that....
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