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Fuck me eyes (self.Blind)
submitted by N7EVEN_
As a blind person I don't have a clue what the fuck me eyes is or if it even is an actual thing? Can someone elaborate pls
AllHarlowsEve 9 points 3y ago
Uhh fuck me eyes, as in the facial expression?

It's like, mostly closed eyes, usually at an angle, like looking up through your lashes at the person you're giving the look to. Sometimes combined with biting the lower lip, pouting a little, or licking your lips.

It doesn't sound sexy on paper, but it's definitely pretty hot visually.
N7EVEN_ [OP] 3 points 3y ago
Yeah, its hard to visualise it being hot and I can't really distinguish between expeessions/eye contact. Am I missing out?
ElfjeTinkerBell 9 points 3y ago
I don't think you're missing out. Some might find it attractive, others (like me) really don't. Flirting etc. can be done in many ways
80percentaccurate 6 points 3y ago
I’m pretty sure it’s the sound of any hair commercial. Just assume women in hair commercials are making that face when they talk.
N7EVEN_ [OP] 6 points 3y ago
Feel like this is 20percentinacurate
80percentaccurate 5 points 3y ago
You used my username in the response! I’m honored!
Superfreq2 5 points 3y ago
Or chocolate commercial, or perfume commercial.
coarsing_batch 3 points 3y ago
Or any women in any sort of media, because apparently the only way we can have women up here in media is to make them fuck everything.
meeowth 6 points 3y ago
It's not really a distinct "thing", but it is generally associated with smiling, unbroken eye contact.

Can be considered creepy in uncomfortable contexts.
N7EVEN_ [OP] 2 points 3y ago
But with the right person it all changes?
meeowth 3 points 3y ago
Sustained eye contact from people you aren't close to or currently talking to is profoundly uncomfortable, most people "bounce" their eyes around a room full of people and any eye contact will be broken instantly.

A common reaction to being uncomfortable is laughing, so a game some people play is to stare silently at each other and the first person to laugh loses. Even people who are close will probably laugh eventually.
N7EVEN_ [OP] 2 points 3y ago
It's this type of stuff I'd have never known. Its said 95% of communication is through eye contact. So sometimes its hard knowing I'm missing out on this.
AlexandrinaIsHere 1 points 3y ago
It isn't accurate... It's more that all body language is conditional. Crossed legs mean you're walled off unless you're just sitting like that.

Facial expressions and posture inform translation of body language. A good example is whether or not a woman messing with her hair is flirting or just messing with her hair- facial expressions and checking to see if you're looking make it flirty.

There's a tone of voice that goes with "fuck me eyes" but it's still conditional to translate. Word choice is what tells you whether or not the tone translation is accurate.

No one part of communication can be termed 95% of the whole. It's all conditional... Some of us are really shit at translation just because we suck at noticing lies or because we don't want to believe that John or Jane Doe is actually not flirting with us.

I'm trying to say you're likely getting a higher percentage of the communication than you think- because you aren't assuming wrongly that a woman brushing her hair is flirting and failing to notice that she's not talking to you like that.
msoc 5 points 3y ago
Probably similar to the sexy voice people do sometimes. Don’t think you’re missing out. It’s more of a trope than something people do regularly.
CowboyBoats 3 points 3y ago
Okay, here is my best attempt at an explanation. "Fuck me eyes" are a bit like flirting in general, in that it's highly subjective. But if I were trying to give someone instructions on how to do it, I would tell them to let their gaze linger on someone (that you have a rapport going with! Otherwise you're just staring creepily) while smiling warmly.

There's a "tease and denial" element to flirtation. Like, you might gaze warmly at someone, or appear to be visually enjoying their body, but then pretend disinterest, as though something else, or someone else, distracted you. Some people might avert their gaze this way while flirting because they want to see the other person display more interest first, or simply because they feel shy.

But anyway, when you do the dance of visually admiring someone and vibing with them, up to the point where it might be typical to look away demurely, and instead you double down - gazing at even greater length, or smiling even more warmly - that's when you've decidedly crossed the line from "flirting" and into "fuck me eyes."

tl;dr the duration of a (welcome) sexual gaze expresses interest level; brief glances express a "will they / won't they?" level of interest; longer, warm gazes express something more like "come and get it"
N7EVEN_ [OP] 1 points 3y ago
This was extremely helpful. Well written and well thought out. Thank you!
DaaxD 2 points 3y ago
You know how people can show emotions with their facial expressions? These expressions are innate and even blind people do express them, although a bit differently than sighted people ($1, I hope the article is accessible).

The way how eyes behave is big part of those expressions and most sighted people can deduce the emotions of a person just looking at the picture of their eyes. The way how emotions can affect the pupil size is one of those tells.

I'm not entirely sure does the eyes of the people, who have been blind since birth, express the emotions in similiar way. At least for sighted people the pupil size is involuntary and they have little control over it, so it might be an innate thing just like the facial expressions.

So long story short, most sighted people can instinctively read emotions and feelings just by looking people in the eye, including passion and lust.
N7EVEN_ [OP] 2 points 3y ago
Just a shame I can't read those emotions
DaaxD 4 points 3y ago
Neither can all sighted people. Some people are just oblivious, but some people might have other issues as well, such as people on autism spectrum. Some of them might have difficulties to read tones of voice as well.
N7EVEN_ [OP] 1 points 3y ago
This is very true.
blackberrybunny -4 points 3y ago
I don't understand your question. You want to know how to make a facial expression that says "Fuck my eyes?" Why? This is such an immature question.
Superfreq2 6 points 3y ago
Yes, I am going to fuck your eyes, and you are going to like it! shall we commence eyefucking now?
I pitty da foo who don't educate his self!
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