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Full History - 2020 - 07 - 24 - ID#hx8jyp
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Im scared (self.Blind)
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MRMeneer 10 points 3y ago
its a tough time for everyone. Its really tough to face the unknown andthe fear of it. its a challenge to push through these things each and every day.

That said This is a learning curve for each of us and one that we needto learn from. By going through these experiences we learn skills and different ways of skinning cats, these skills serve us later on in life and develop the resillience muscle and the adaptability muscles.

Key skills and muscles forthe future that will get you through other tough times in life and also aid you in everyday navigation technigues.

its really hard to loose sight, its hard to loose it fast and have to learn fast and on the hoof, .

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The benefit is thatthe school is a place you have been to before so you have some knowledge of the layouts and areas and can be first step done in this period.

managing anxiety is something everyone has to do in one form orthe other.

Each day brings new challenges, some we are aware of and some crop up unexpectaedly, use this time to the best of your ability.

There are things you can do to help yourself on this occassion.

Try ask for a early day to have a less crowded day to learn some routes and get that confidence going

Plan ahaead

remember what you can ofthe place and try set things like markers in your mind ahead of time , things like notice boards, texture of pathways, sound of changing environments.

be fresh and prepared on the first day and well rested, or as best as possible, its good to start with a bang and not a crash pardon pun.

dont be afraid to come up with ideas to help you navigate like colour of rails and strips across steops.

this is long but I hope some of this helps you. miles and hope you all the best .
Opinion-Future 2 points 3y ago
Ive been vi since birth but slowly lost more and more vision over the past 2 years

Ive learnt how to use a cane
MRMeneer 1 points 3y ago
I knowthe feeling.
I have been VI since birth as well but lost vision steadily until about eith years ago then it took a massive overnight dive.
Im in my late thirties and I knowthe long term effects of living with VI and the good and bad days andthe challenges that seem overwhelming and yet when we look back and wonder how we got through it.
BlindFuryC 1 points 3y ago
I’m afraid I can’t help in terms of sudden sight loss. But speaking on the social side, if you had friends before, as in the bit where you said you had no friends was more a fear for the future rather than your current reality, there is no reason they would suddenly stop being your friend. As soon as they see that you are still your old self, but slightly more ocularly challenged, then it should stop any awkwardness and allow you to maintain those friendships.Friends can be a great source of support in times like this. From your part, do what you can to make them not feel awkward, as in allow them to speak freely about this. This will probably be new for them to.But if they’re good friends, they’ll stick by you
Opinion-Future 1 points 3y ago
I was always visually impaired and i only ever had 2 friend because everyone ignored me because i have an assistant

Im just worried of the isolation because im even more impaired and am now using a cane that will give peers an even more reason to make fun of me

My friends i know will still be my friends however i think itll be even harder to make more
guitarandbooks 1 points 3y ago
I lost my sight when I was 14 years old. Middle school, high school, and college were difficult at times both socially and logistically.

I don't have any fantastic advice on how to deal with things during the pandemic but just try to keep going even though you're worried and even though it's going to be rough at times. Utilize all the people and resources that you can and clearly try to outline your concerns and questions.

Good luck!
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