Frying is the hardest thing for me! But here are things that helped.
What really helped me was getting an oil thermometer. I just have a regular one that I read with an electronic magnifier but
$1 is the link to a talking cooking thermometer designed for blind people.
A thermometer is a good trick because most of the time when something goes wrong with oil, it’s because the oil was at the wrong temperature. When you’re ready to start cooking, look up what the ideal temperature should be online (for exemple, to deep fry frozen chicken nuggets, it’s 190°C/375°F) and then cet your oil to that temperature and cook according to instructions (if you can’t read packets, you can just look it up online I always do that, for exemple, chicken nuggets are 2-4 minutes). When it’s ready, turn off the stove and get your shit with a tool of some kind, I recommend a colander because it’ll drain out the oil, and put your stuff on a plate that was already prepared and lined with paper towels.
I’m writing this post on mobile as a stream of consciousness and I just realized I just talked about deep frying. Here’s how you cook stuff that isn’t supposed to be deep fried in oil. To cook that sort of stuff (could be a steak, chicken, hot dogs whatever), you get a small amount of oil in your pan (like a tablespoon I’d say. I get spray oil for that kind of stuff because it’s easy to coat the whole pan without seeing shit with a spray). The thermometer would be overkill for that, just wait like 2 minutes for the oil to be sort of hot, and make sure the thing you want to cook is room temperature (it could be slightly cold but not frozen) and get it in there. If it’s small pieces of stuff (like cubed chicken) make sure to keep stirring so every side gets cooked faster, for the time it takes, either go by instinct or look it up online. If it’s something yiy flip like a steak, bacon or a burger patty, it’s like 3-4 minutes on each side depending on how big or how small it is or how cold it was. When you’re done, take your colander/spatula and put it on your plate and there you go you cooked stuff in oil.
Hope that made sense. I wrote this sat on the tube so sorry if it’s full of typos or if it’s not cohesive. Feel free to ask me any question you might have if I was too confusing or if you have any more question!!
Edit : if you want that barbecue meat effect, get yourself an indoor grill, I do my steaks on there.
$1 sorry the link is in French I couldn’t find another one (I’m located in france so everything I’m getting recommended is in french). Basically there’s a bottom part where you put water and above that you have a grill thing and it gives a barbecue effect. But it doesn’t have the smoke taste tho.
Edit 2 : here’s a life hack, if you still want the barbecue taste, toast your bread for way too long, and rub the burnt bits on your meat or sprinkle it on top and boom barbecue tatse.