I’m currently dating a man who has low vision who I hope to marry within the next few years. His vision is about 20/400 right now. He has retinal scars due to congenital toxoplasmosis and his doctors say there’s a chance he may lose much more of his vision later on. This isn’t something that seems like a deal breaker to me but of course it’s easy to say that right now when things are fine.

I was hoping someone could share with me what kind of adjustments you had to make and how you managed the change from some or all useful vision to very little or no vision. We don’t anticipate him losing much more vision but it’s a possibility we’d like to be somewhat aware of. Please message me if you’d like if you can share some of your insight (pun intended) and maybe help us figure out how to emotionally or practically prepare for this possibility. Thank you.