What are some interesting/unexpected problems you have experienced?(self.Blind)
submitted by Paully_D
Hello everyone, I was reading an older post where op described how they wished there was a way to carry soup while holding a cane and it got me thinking, what are some other unexpected problems that you have experienced because you were visually impaired?
psychgamer201410 points2y ago
Carrying things has been a huge issue for me. Prior to COVID, I was a special education teacher for an autism room and had issues with my students trying to run off with my cane.
TheBlindBookLover1 points2y ago
Hi. Have you considered getting one of those thinner canes that can fold down quite small to use within the classroom. With it being so small, you could probably fit it into a pocket or maybe a small fanny pack. You could then lock your main cane in your desk.
dunktheball8 points2y ago
I am legally blind and main thing with me is I have accidentally gotten into strangers' cars. lol. Luckily they didn't think I was robbing them or something and shoot me.
codeplaysleep3 points2y ago
I've done this...
DrillInstructorJan4 points2y ago
Also the getting into cars backwards. As in your backside is facing the front. There is no way to play this off with any degree of dignity.
vwlsmssng6 points2y ago
> As in your backside is facing the front.
How?
Just how?
DrillInstructorJan2 points2y ago
Well, if you're standing by the side of the road and there's a car there, and the door is already open, and all you have is the edge of the seat...
Complete dignitectomy.
Envrin2 points2y ago
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haha, this has happened to me a few times before as well. I even managed to get a couple free rides out of the deal.
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Me: Are you the taxi?
Her: No, I'm Amanda, but do you need some help?
Me: No, that's ok, but thanks anyway.
Her: Are you sure? I can give you a ride if you need it.
Me: if you don't mind, that would be great.
_Night_Wing1 points2y ago
That's a high risk high reward game there.
Lyssa2212018 points2y ago
The cane and carrying things is a nightmare. I use my cane in my campus dining hall and trying to do that while holding a plastic drink cup and takeout container and grab more food is not fun. Then when I get out i have to put everything down to fold the cane and carrry it in the crook of my arm with my food and drink in either hand. If there was anything that could help with that I'd be the happiest person lol.
DrillInstructorJan7 points2y ago
What everyone else said. Wheelchair users apparently have the same problem - try making your way across a crowded bar with a round of drinks.
cantmakemewearabra5 points2y ago
I’m new-ish to being visually impaired. I have no close up depth perception, so I hit my head/hands/feet on things a lot, I’ve learned to move more slowly and deliberately now.
Also, my husband and I have frequented a local comedy club for several years, and there are sloping, curving walkways in a darkened room with dark solid colored carpeting, and they aren’t marked. About two years ago when we went, my husband was shown to our table while I was in the restroom, so I walked out into a dark hallway full of people. Luckily, husband had thought to tell the ushers that I would need help, so someone escorted me to our table. We go often, and most of the staff is aware that I’m low vision, so they help me out if I need it. There was a new guy working last time, and when I went up to the usher’s stand and asked to be escorted to our table, he sort of laughed. One of the regulars said “nah man, she’s blind, we look out for her”. The poor guy was embarrassed and kept apologizing and tried to grab my hand to guide me, I laughed and asked if I could instead hold his elbow. He tried doing that thing where someone holds their elbow out to guide you in front of them, and I said “nah man, walk next to me and lead a little, just don’t run me into shit” Super cool staff there.
awesomesaucesaywhat4 points2y ago
When I was a cane user I instinctively got my morning coffee, only to realize that it’s impossible to juggle an umbrella, cane and coffee. I ended up squishing the umbrella between my shoulder and face
Paully_D [OP]2 points2y ago
That's interesting, seems like not having enough hands is a common issue lol
vwlsmssng3 points2y ago
Potholes and other pavement imperfections can be damaging to companions.
You're walking alongside your VI companion when their white stick gets snagged, leaving you to walk into it, the handle being at groin height for you.
OUCH!!!
cantmakemewearabra3 points2y ago
Ouch! I don’t use a stick, I have enough sight to not need one yet. I did have a problem when I was in Chicago a couple of years ago, the sidewalk wasn’t marked to indicate that it sloped down well before a crosswalk. I misjudged it, and ate it so hard-I’m talking full brisk walk to losing my footing and falling flat on my face. People came rushing over to help me, and I was so mortified. It was 7am on a weekday, and I was half laughing, half crying, and I kept saying “I’m not drunk, I promise I’m not drunk” (which is exactly what a drunk person might say). One of the ladies asked me what happened, and I told her that I’m blind and wasn’t being careful. She gasped and said “you just walk around BLIND like this??”, like I have a choice and I enjoy it. They kept offering to call me a taxi and I explained that I was staying in a hotel right up the block, and the woman again said “why are you alone?? Who is supposed to be with you??” I’m a 42 year old woman, lady.
vwlsmssng1 points2y ago
I can imagine talking to your partner and saying
> Stubbornly independent?
and hearing the reply
> Yeah. Your's too?
Me ...
> Yep. Stubbornly independent!
codeplaysleep3 points2y ago
Well, I was not expecting wearing a face mask to mean I'd need to rely on my cane more. I don't normally use my cane all the time, but the mask obscures just enough of the lower portion of my already small field of vision that getting around without the cane is a lot more difficult.
J-POPS701 points2y ago
Hi, I've been blind since 1998 and this is my first visit to this site. I can fully relate to most of the experiences and find humor in seeing that I'm not alone in navigational hurdles. To be able to laugh at our mishaps especially with others who are being so honest, can be very dignifying.
TheBlindBookLover1 points2y ago
I have 4 boxes of papers that are in print that I need to organize and can’t read without an OCR app on my phone. I have been putting off organizing these papers since long before quarantine. The inability to just pick up a paper and read it has dramatically increased the procrastination. This is why I am trying to build the habit of brailling the paper name on top of each page when I receive it.
Superfreq21 points2y ago
If you can, you might want to consider investing in a flatbed scanner, they've gotten very fast, not to mention accurate... It's allot less hellish than using a phone with that many pages. Maybe a friend or family member has a newer one you could borrow as well? Or you could get some accessible software on your computer and see if the library has one they don't mind you using, if it's open where you live right now...
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