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You have some seduction tips, I beg you! (self.Blind)
submitted by Nefilimulalchimist
Question for those who are totally blind, what seduction tips do you have for me? How can to make a girlfriend?
If you haven't done this before, how do you cope with the lack of a person who understands and encourages you to follow your dreams?
I am not without the affection of my parents, but I want a girlfriend, I feel incomplete. I want help, pleeease!
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If you haven't done this before, how do you cope with the lack of a person who understands and encourages you to follow your dreams?
I am not without the affection of my parents, but I want a girlfriend, I feel incomplete. I want help, pleeease!
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BlakeBlues 9 points 2y ago
I don't think about romantic relationships as seduction. That seems temporary. To me, they are about comfort and honesty and sincerity. You need to find who you are, make sure you have good hygiene, and take care of yourself. Outside of that, it's hard to say. Dating is hard for sighted people too, we just have added barriers
LadyAlleta 7 points 2y ago
If you feel incomplete, getting a girlfriend won't complete you. You should focus on completing yourself and sharing who you are with another.
And it's best to find your partners through things you genuinely enjoy. If you love to read find a book club. Sports? Join a team or hang out with fans of the same team. If you try to find a girlfriend by going to bars, but you don't drink, then you're probably not going to last long.
And it's best to find your partners through things you genuinely enjoy. If you love to read find a book club. Sports? Join a team or hang out with fans of the same team. If you try to find a girlfriend by going to bars, but you don't drink, then you're probably not going to last long.
Revenant624 6 points 2y ago
Your blindness has nothing to do with getting a girlfriend. Even people with site can have trouble getting a mate. But I will tell you is you need to be confident in yourself, independent and be outgoing . Having a good sense of humor can help as well. Don’t let your blindness define you. You are not the blind guy, you are a guy that happens to be blind. There is a big difference in that. Just be yourself and don’t be too needy or desperate. It’s a big turn off to women.
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Nefilimulalchimist [OP] 0 points 2y ago
For a normal person it is difficult, yes, but for us it is almost impossible. It's like going for a run with a backpack pulling us down all the way.
Nefilimulalchimist [OP] -1 points 2y ago
Right now, I'm reading from a seduction site, but because I can't see I can't apply all the techniques, which is extremely frustrating. Yes, I learned some useful things from there, but somehow I have to adapt what is said there to my situation.
I feel like I should rediscover the wheel, and it's not a pleasant feeling.
The problem is that I stay at home for a long time and I can't even try many things, but I don't get too crowded either. It would probably sound weird.
I asked here because I hope someone has a functional method of hanging. I feel really bad that my friends are doing it and I can't ... --- ...
I feel like I should rediscover the wheel, and it's not a pleasant feeling.
The problem is that I stay at home for a long time and I can't even try many things, but I don't get too crowded either. It would probably sound weird.
I asked here because I hope someone has a functional method of hanging. I feel really bad that my friends are doing it and I can't ... --- ...
bradley22 1 points 2y ago
What do you mean by seduction?
If you’re talking about sex and foreplay, we can’t help you there you and your future girlfriend would have to figure it out together.
If you’re talking about sex and foreplay, we can’t help you there you and your future girlfriend would have to figure it out together.
Nefilimulalchimist [OP] 0 points 2y ago
>Vorbesc despre cum pot face o femeie să fie interesată să aibă o relație cu mine.ÎndrăzneţCursivLegăturăStrikethroughCod InlineSuperscriptSpoilerTitluListă cu puncteLista numerotatăBloc de cotațieCod blocMasaTreceți la markdown
bradley22 2 points 2y ago
your message was in Rushin I believe, I managed to translate it into english.
My advice would be, shower, brush your teeth, make sure you're clean, and just start talking to people. Don't mention sex in the first chat unless the woman you talk to is interested in that kind of talk.
My advice would be, shower, brush your teeth, make sure you're clean, and just start talking to people. Don't mention sex in the first chat unless the woman you talk to is interested in that kind of talk.
CosmicBunny97 2 points 2y ago
As a woman, the idea of being seduced right off the bat is disgusting and makes me cringe. We’re humans too, just so you know. Anyway, just focus on yourself and your confidence and don’t come across as a creep or desperate. You’ll come across as a nice guy incel otherwise. If you work on bettering yourself, work on actual conversational skills instead of “seducing”, you might have luck.
Nefilimulalchimist [OP] 1 points 2y ago
I'm sorry, but I'm afraid the translator didn't translate the first part of the message very well.
The problem is that I don't know how to talk and I don't know how to attract women.
Among other things, I'm not happy with the way I express myself in a conversation. Sometimes I tend to repeat the words many times and stop between sentences, God knows why. I don't have a mental problem to justify this and I talk a lot with my friends, so I should have trained by now.
The problem is that I don't know how to talk and I don't know how to attract women.
Among other things, I'm not happy with the way I express myself in a conversation. Sometimes I tend to repeat the words many times and stop between sentences, God knows why. I don't have a mental problem to justify this and I talk a lot with my friends, so I should have trained by now.
CosmicBunny97 1 points 2y ago
Oh sorry for being so harsh. I also didn’t know that English wasn’t your first language. I’m really not sure what you can do in that situation...sorry
siriuslylupin6 1 points 2y ago
Maybe some self-development tools may help you.
BlueRock956 1 points 2y ago
You are far away from the point you should be trying to seduce someone. Focus on making friends and working out ways to hang out with them doing fun friendly things. Make friends with men and women, and you'll find opportunities to dateNote: The seduction sub in Reddit mainly provides toxic advice.
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bjayernaeiy -4 points 2y ago
You should look up some RSD instructors on Youtube and learn from them. Sounds like you just need to learn game theory and go out in real life to have practical experience with it.
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