Hi! For context, I'm a content creator for a startup in the UK which is creating a service for visually impaired people.
This week 13th-19th is Transgender Awareness Week. I'm interested in making a blog post exploring being trans and gender as a whole and if being visually impaired makes these experiences any different. Has being visually impaired made typical experiences aligned with your gender any easier or harder? Those who identify as non-cisgender, does being visually impaired impact you in a way that sighted people or able bodied non-cis people may not feel?
Hearing from trans or gender nonconforming people would be incredible but also I'd love to hear from anyone at all who feels their gender has had an impact on how they're treated by family/friends/the general public/doctors/anyone at all, how they feel generally - literally any input at all.
I'll credit you or keep you anonymous as you please. Responses that I'd like to use may be posted on our website and our socials. Just state how you'd like to be credited (name or social media handle maybe?) if at all.
Thanks!
Laser_Lens_414 points2y ago
Hey. I’m transfem. There’s not a whole lot of us, but I have encountered many trans people with other disabilities.
I’d say that being visually impaired has made a significant impact on how I perceive my gender. Most of my life, I was far too busy trying to be blind in a world with sight. As a result, every other part of myself (gender identity included) got pushed aside. It wasn’t until college that I realized something was wrong. Now I’m giving the various parts of myself healthy amounts of attention. Nowadays, the biggest way being blind affects me is in clothing. Turns out women have wayyyyyyy more options to pick from. That can be overwhelming when your only option is for a sighted person to describe them to you. Aside that, I’ve struggled to picture myself as I appear to others. I have an idea of what my face looked like, but I’ve no idea how it’s changed with hormones. Since I can’t see myself, my biggest source of dysphoria is my voice.
That’s about what I can think of off the top of my head. Seriously, I think I know of like 3 other blind trans people, and I don’t even personally know one of them. There’s not a whole lot of us. I spose you can call me Pepper.
Jamie___May1 points2y ago
Voice here too
AchooCashew11 points2y ago
I think the issue is more about intersectionality rather than specifically blindness or visual impairment while being transgender. I'm non-binary (agender). I don't think being visually impaired changes how I experience my gender or rather lack thereof, but it does impact my overall sense of community and available supports. It often feels like the facets of my identity are extra complications asking people to remember and be mindful of multiple things about me as a person, putting a burden on others. "Oh, so you're blind *and* trans *and ...* ". I worry that people won't take me seriously; I worry that people will think I'm just trying to get more attention or be more 'special,' more 'oppressed' than others. Being blind/disabled in LGBTQIA+ spaces is challenging. Being LGBTQIA+ in blind/disabled spaces is challenging. There's not a lot of overlap or safe places for people who fall into multiple minorities to show up authentically as 100% of who they are, unapologetically. Intersectionality needs improvement across the board.
Edit: thank you for my first-ever award! I’m still figuring out how to find who gave it, haha, but thank you kind soul. :)
NonstopBus3 points2y ago
This is the big point for me too as. VI person and as a transman. It all about hbo W they intersect for me. It feels like a big challenge to find places that I feel safe or are welcoming as a trans person. And it’s hard to find places that I feel safe as a VI person. Finding places that feel welcoming and are accessible for both parts of me is so hard.
bradley229 points2y ago
I’m male.
I don’t think me being blind changes that part of me.
You can call me Brad.
UtterlyUnexplained3 points2y ago
I’m blind and a trans guy. These two have never conflicted but I know they will soon as my body physically changes with hormones and surgeries. I may be extra observant of my body changing shape. I also fear the issue of not being able to see post op photos of top surgery results from other trans people when searching for a surgeon.
Please keep me anonymous
W1ll0wherb2 points2y ago
Have you come across Quiplash? https://www.quiplash.co.uk/ A collective of disabled queer performers, many of whom are gender diverse and I know at least one is blind
siriuslylupin61 points2y ago
Interesting female here and gender and blindness usually are fine. Doesn’t effect it.
joannu [OP]1 points2y ago
Here's the final product. Thank you everyone for your submissions <3 $1
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