I think your video would be more interesting if you just looked for people who acquired their disability as teenagers or adults.

Children born with their disabilities often don't feel anger or resentment because that is all they have ever known—one can't be sad about not being able to see if one has never seen, even if they know what seeing is, because seeing hasn't been a part of their life.

Sure there are some things that are frustrating about the physical disability itself, but from my perspective, most of the stuff that bothers me is societies lack of caring accessibility. I don't need to learn about how to be stoic on those topics because they should be things that anger people. It should make someone mad when isn't accessible media, closed captioning, or ramps available, or when an able-bodied person goes out of their way to tell you how inspiring you are while grocery shopping, or to take pity on you. Those things aren't cool and will never change if we just sit there and say nothing. We don't need to rise above disability, we need society to raise the bar on accessibility. If you want to talk to disabled people about stoicism try the chronic pain community. They are the masters of pulling a brave face.

I think anger and resentment for me is more about how people treat me and such. If people shelter or see me as incapable. Or can’t do things.

I'm not blind. I have multiple health problems that mainly affect my mobility and quality of life, but I'm able to blend into an abled crowd. My SO is blind, which is why I'm on here.

How I look at it, those who have been born with it, or those who experience a gradual loss in their ability do better than someone who suddenly looses something about themselves.

We still suffer and go through the same stages of grief, but we have time to evolve and adapt. Everyone is different, though. My SO gets PTSD flashbacks whenever she's reminded she can't do something and it causes her to spiral into deep depression.

I have a lot of acceptance about my body's limits but I'm still angry. I also have learned helplessness when it comes to pain. As an example, I'm so use to it that I've walked around for over a month with car glass stuck in my shoe. I'm so use to being unhealthy that I constantly push to the point where I can't anymore. I've burned myself several times because I'm disconnected from my body.

I don't really see these as strengths.