OK so this post is a little more personal than usual but I need some advice. I'm currently 17 and am registered partially sighted/sight impaired. I get night blindness, terrible depth perception and dark patches in my vision so sometimes mobility, especially in crowds can become an issue. Something that was recently suggested to me was that I apply for a guide dog, and I'm considering it. My mum has one so I've witnessed the positive impact it can have on people. However I'm worried about some of the judgement that might come with having the dog and that people won't see me as 'blind enough' to use one. What do you think?
Thanks for reading :)
SticksAndDrones3 points2y ago
Maybe. However, I would probably recommend getting comfortable with using a cane in situations where you you have difficulties first as a dog can be quite a responsibility and May require you to do more planning when travelling.
Saying this, I know many partially sighted people who have benefited greatly from having a dog as for them, it’s enables them to travel more smoothly. Others prefer a cane for the reasons listed above. Paragraph
bradley222 points2y ago
You can get a guide dog if you are VI or blind.
KillerLag2 points2y ago
Most guide dog schools require you to have good cane skills before you can get a guide dog. Do you have the skills you need?
Are you living in a place/situation where you can take care of a guide dog? I've had clients who wanted a guide dog, but would only go out once a week. Virtually every guide dog school has specific minimum requirements you need to meet before they would consider it.
bevk_2092 [OP]1 points2y ago
Yeah I've been cane trained since the age or about 8 and I live in a very dog-friendly household because of my mums guide dog. I've taken a look at the website for there requirements online and haven't seen any issues so far.
je972 points2y ago
Don't worry about the judgement, if the dog makes your life easier and you benefit from having it that's what's important.
What I would ask though, from another person who had a guide dog at age 17 which didn't work out for a multitude of reasons is whether the changes that often come at this stage of life are compatible with having a guide dog. Not just around caring for the dog but around the amount of training that will be required so that both you and the dog learn routes. If you plan to attend university for example I personally would wait until you've been there for a while and so already have some idea regarding routes around campus/the local area. I'm not trying to hurt your confidence at all, but having to give up my guide dog when I was 18 was truly heartbreaking for me and I'd hate for others to go through that experience without warning first.
4humans2 points2y ago
I agree. I think it would be good to be a competent cane user before getting a dog.
bevk_2092 [OP]1 points2y ago
Thanks for the feedback, I'll definitely have to consider whether it will be compatible with my situation.
overheadfool2 points2y ago
If you qualify for one, apply for one. Sod the nay sayers! My mother has a guide dog too and they're truly liberating.
bevk_2092 [OP]1 points2y ago
Thank you:)
siriuslylupin61 points2y ago
I would say consider the dog and cane prose and cons first. Maybe it’s more beneficial just to have a cane first.
TheNewMe201 points2y ago
If you're certain that you would benefit from a guide dog and you're prepared to take on such a big commitment, then I see no reason not to get one. Forget the naysayers!
I am also partially sighted and trained with my first dog at 17. Over the years I have had numerous people tell me "You can see. You don't need a dog." It always comes from people who barely know me and probably know even less about blindness. So who cares what they think? My family has been supportive all the way, and since your mom has a guide dog I'm sure yours will be the same! And the reactions you'll get from strangers in public will be overwhelmingly positive. People love seeing service dogs!
Do what's best for you!
bevk_2092 [OP]1 points2y ago
Thank you :)
BenandGracie1 points2y ago
I got a dog at 17, and they never had a problem. I am in the USA, so I don't know if the requirements are different.
bevk_2092 [OP]1 points2y ago
I think they might be roughly the same, did you have any negative experiences with classmates or teachers of you don't mind me asking? It's one of my bigger concerns
BenandGracie1 points2y ago
No. What I did was I got my dog over the summer, and before I startted school in the fall, I met with all the teachers and staff and showed them my dog. We went over things you shouldn't do to a dog. Once I startted school I had another student who wouldn't leave my dog alone, and the school administration took care of it. Also, my guide dog school met with my school in the spring to make sure they were okay with me bringing a dog.
bevk_2092 [OP]1 points2y ago
Oh cool
CosmicBunny971 points2y ago
Who gives a crap what others think? You need to do what’s best for you. Besides, the majority of people are in their own little world anyway. If you think it’s the right choice for you, you should apply.
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