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What do you find physically attractive in a partner? (self.Blind)
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I like long, thick hair, nice smelling preferably. Color is not important as I really can't see any with my remaining vision.

Voice, if I don't like how her voice sounds, its an absolute dealbreaker

Body type, curvy, but not fat. I really wish I could point to someone as a reference, but alas, imagination will have to do.
AllHarlowsEve 6 points 2y ago
Depends on gender tbh. I like guys with a dad bod and deep voices, but when I could see I dated ... so many femboys and twinks.

In ladies, I like curves and softness, even if they're overweight, but shorter. Definitely a fan of alt girls, and even though I can't see their style, it's more likely they'd have similar political views and music tastes to me.

I don't really have a type for nonbinary folks, tbh. They're more about the personality for me, as long as they take care of themself.
je97 5 points 2y ago
It's weird for me. I thought I'd like a big, slim, muscular guy with a deep voice. I've been with a short skinny guy with a rather high-pitched voice for a while now though.
bradley22 2 points 2y ago
I like women with round bellies.
devinprater 1 points 2y ago
I like bigger women, (fat), with long hair, although that doesn't matter
much; I just like playing with it. Voice is important, preferably soft
and gentle. Nowadays, though, personality matters a bit more than
physical appearance, as even if the woman were 350 pounds, six foot 2,
and had the most sexy voice ever, if she is mean and mistreats me, or
needs so much support that I am not sure i can provide it, I just can't
get into her. Also she has to freaking talk to me. I can't be in a
relationship, especially long-distance, where a woman goes more than two
or three days without talking to me without an good explanation, more
than "I was busy." Then again, I get really busy nowadays too, but I try
not to get too busy for the person I'm with, if I'm with someone.
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Nefilimul 1 points 2y ago
First of all, the voice is extremely important. Ideally, she should be a little shorter than me, have blonde hair, green-blue eyes (more green), a heart-shaped face and the rest of the features that society considers super attractive. I am completely blind, so I do not take these characteristics into account when I want to choose my partner, but if there were all this, plus a wonderful personality and intelligence, I would be the happiest man in the world, because I know I would have a girlfriend who would it makes my friends and enemies die of spite, not understanding how a blind man managed to be with such a nice girl.
Trowawaycausebanned4 1 points 2y ago
I’m not going blind but voice is probably a big one for me too lol.
[deleted] [OP] 1 points 2y ago
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MakihikiMalahini-who 3 points 2y ago
lol yes of course you can. Just because you couldn't does not mean others can't either.
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nicholasluigi -2 points 2y ago
I honestly agree with you, if you cant really see them, why does appearance matter? It's the personality that makes it or breaks it after all.
AllHarlowsEve 1 points 2y ago
So you'd date someone who's 5' even, rounder than a doughnut, covered in enough hair and acne to look like an eldritch abomination, but who's real sweet?

I have standards, as do most people. While I'm not gonna be prissy about the shape of their nose or the color of their eyes, I do have visible preferences.
thicccdragon 2 points 2y ago
You just offended abunch of people. Maybe consider if you're that much of a catch to begin with
AllHarlowsEve 3 points 2y ago
I am, thanks. ☺️
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nicholasluigi 1 points 2y ago
I'm not totally blind, I meant that if you're blind, the appearance doesn't matter nearly as much.
[deleted] [OP] 2 points 2y ago
Of corse it doesn't. But you don't need to see someone to appreciate long hair, a nicely shaped body, nice voice, thin hands, etc.
ContraMia 1 points 2y ago
You ever heard of hands, or…?
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