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Full History - 2021 - 02 - 05 - ID#ldi67i
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Did you lose your sight late in life? (self.Blind)
submitted by FlamingWhisk
Hey all. So I’m legally blind in one eye (can see light and dark, sometimes large shapes) and just found out that I have a major cataract forming in my other eye. They are hesitant to touch it because of issues with it and worried about blinding me. The other option is losing my sight slowly. I always knew it would come to this so now want to plan.

How did you pick a new field of work? Is there anything you wish you had done to have been better prepared? I’ve tried to learn braille just can’t. I tried audio books. Didn’t do anything for me. How do you stay current? Hints tips advice.

Thank you
K-R-Rose 5 points 2y ago
I thrive off audio books, but I have to be doing something else while listening. Try exercising or walking or just doing something else to help you focus.
FlamingWhisk [OP] 1 points 2y ago
That’s what it is the focus bit. Good ideas
K-R-Rose 2 points 2y ago
I also am just desperate to listen to them because it’s really so impossible to read print books and I don’t know braille, so that also holds my focus lol. One page of text takes 2-5 minutes plus the back pain is just not worth it for me. Desperation is great when it works in your favor 😂
BlueIr1ses 4 points 2y ago
Have you gotten a second opinion? If not, I highly recommend it. I had a cataract removed from my only seeing eye, which has various issues of its own. Ideally, try to see someone affiliated with a large eye hospital. Good luck!
FlamingWhisk [OP] 1 points 2y ago
Thanks. I’ve had a couple doctors involved. Fortunately live in a city with an amazing eye institute
MostlyBlindGamer 4 points 2y ago
Learn to touch type if you don't already. It's a great skill to have, in general, and it's vital with low or no vision.
ps-im-blind 3 points 2y ago
Hey! So, I didn't lose my sight, I was born blind, but there are plenty of resources out there...but here are some things to keep in mind.

1. Braille is hard. Or rather, it takes a lot of patience and practice to get fluent and be able to use it in everyday situations. I do recommend continuing to practice, because even if you don't use it, it helps you learn to detect subtle tactile differences, which is useful as a blind person even if you don't use braille.
2. Learn how to use a screen reader. There are many free ones out there (Narrator on PC and VoiceOver on Mac) and these are super helpful. Computer literacy is so important in this age, no matter what line of work or lifestyle you live. Learn how to access the internet. Learn how to use word processors, file organization, etc. On a cell phone, learn to send a text message, navigate YouTube or some other favorite apps.
3. Learn to use a cane. This is soooooo important. I cannot begin to tell you how helpful the cane is! Learning to use one now is surprisingly simple and super practical. Even if you end up switching to something else, like a guide dog, you will be very grateful you learned cane navigation.
4. Don't go it alone. Despite how small the community is (compared to other minorities) there are still so many of us and we are here to help! Message me anytime (and anyone else reading this that may have similar experiences) and I'll be more than happy to help/connect/be a supportive friend!
5. That being said, also maybe seek professional help. You don't have to learn braille or cane skills on your own. In fact, don't. There are plenty of professionals nowadays that are trained to help you through that transition and introduce you to assistive tech that may be useful.
6. The last thing I will say is to put some fun into it! There are plenty of accessible games/apps out there that actually help teach/reinforce some of those skills you will need later. Need to learn some braille numbers/letters? Try playing braille UNO! Want to test out your audio-spacial abilities? Try the Blindfold Games on Apple (just do a quick search on the App Store).

Hope that helps!
FlamingWhisk [OP] 2 points 2y ago
All huge help. I have a cane but I think they “measured” it wrong. Seems really long.
ps-im-blind 2 points 2y ago
Oh yeah, the cane is pretty long. For beginners (and slow walkers) it usually goes up to about the sternum. I've been using mine for a long time, plus I walk really fast, so my cane goes up to my nose. The cane is supposed to be pretty long, but that does mean that it's a little harder to control. Just practice getting used to it. Plus, aluminum canes tend to be easier/lighter for beginners (and getting a smaller tip, such as aluminum or pencil tips doesn't hurt).
FlamingWhisk [OP] 1 points 2y ago
I’ve gone out to “test” it solo after some training. I think I whacked some people by accident lol
ps-im-blind 2 points 2y ago
LOL. I do that all the time. Once, I hit a guy in the leg on my way to class, and his girlfriend (I'm assuming) started scolding him, and he was like, "Sorry, I didn't see you there." and I just smiled and said, "It's fine...I didn't see you either." To this day, that is my proudest moment.
DrillInstructorJan 3 points 2y ago
I was nineteen and there was no warning so there was nothing I could have done to prepare. I'm now more than twice that age (argh) and when there is no virus I'm in a career that makes me happy as hell. That didn't happen quickly or easily and I went through a phase of seven or eight years of working for a big company. I did that because it was a comfort zone and I guess the only advice I can offer is to go straight for what you want and don't get distracted. It will be hard for all kinds of painfully obvious reasons, but my main complaint about holding down a career that doesn't suck without sight is the sheer unending workload. It's like having two jobs. But in the end if it's that or just sitting at home in misery, that's an easy choice.
Envrin 2 points 2y ago
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Can't help on the work with, but if using a laptop, make sure to get a wireless USB keyboard. Having a large keyboard is somewhat of a requirement for blind folk, as typing on a laptop keyboard is nearly impossible for me at least.

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Never learned brail, never needed it. I can read just fine via screen reader at 100% rate. Takes a while to get used to and work up to 100% rate, but it's fine once you're used to it.

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For staying current, I just use Youtube personally. Premium is only $12/month CAD so no ads, and news segments hit Youtube almost as quickly as they do live TV.

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Other sites like CuriosityStream are a great add as well for documentaries. If you're into true crime by chance, search "That Chapter" on Youtube, he's awesome and has tons of videos.

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As for preparing, I didn't. Had no idea I was about to go blind when I did. At the time didn't even know what a screen reader was let alone how to use one.
siriuslylupin6 2 points 2y ago
What do you do and is it wholly unadaptable if and when you go blind?
FlamingWhisk [OP] 1 points 2y ago
Unfortunately yes. It has to do with physical safety and being able to read body language.
siriuslylupin6 2 points 2y ago
I see. Maybe something similar or in the same field.
FlamingWhisk [OP] 1 points 2y ago
I work with homeless person and those with addictions. I’ve tried to think how to translate the job. It’s so visual. I’m looking for cues, even the way somebody is breathing can give me info. There is also a huge safety factor. I have to be able to dodge a punch etc
siriuslylupin6 1 points 2y ago
Hearing maybe? But also maybe a role that is similar that is maybe more doable then....
TheBlindCreative 1 points 2y ago
On the Braille side of things, were you going through the self taught rout or working with a teacher? If learning independently, I would seek out the help of a teacher. What did you find difficult about Braille specifically? I might be able to give you some suggestions.
FlamingWhisk [OP] 1 points 2y ago
I tried both ways. I don’t know if it’s years of working as a chef or what but I can’t feel and differentiate the bumps. I need like lego bump sizes. Our money has Braille on it. Can’t feel it at all
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