Ok I am going to step on my soapbox here for just a second. What I am seeing is frankly deplorable.

Yes. It is important to educate people and point it out when they are, knowingly or unknowingly, being ignorant, ablist or offensive.

No, it is not ok to jump down people's throats about it when they are posing a, to them, perfectly reasonable question.

Just like it's important for others to understand that we are just as human as everybody else, it is also important to understand that not everybody grows up around blind people, has ever met a blind person before and has no idea about the often unwritten rules in this community that even I, as a fully blind person, even misunderstand from time to time. FFS, this sub is a great platform for people to ask questions and not everybody is out to get you. What I am seeing being lobbed at the OP here is not necessary and does way more harm than good. I get we're all tired, I get we all don't like having to explain things over and over, but if you're this butt hurt about it, please do me a huge favor and link to an FAQ or something, don't get your pound of flesh in from a person who is asking a perfectly reasonable question.

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u/Hidnut I would argue that sexism is definitely a thing in the blind community, even among those who are fully blind and can't see how women are dressed at all. Unfortunately just like everybody else, blind people are often a product of their environment. If sighted peers do it, blind people might learn from it, and given sexism is all around us it is pretty difficult to not at least pick up on it.

How it manifests can be different, though. A while back, I heard a story of a person who would intentionally run into people with his hands raised in front of him to cop a feel, bragging that since he was blind, he could get away with it. I also see blind people harassing women and , for example, sending them private messages on social media without being given prior permission. Replace the dick pic with a voice message and bob's your uncle.

The reason people got a little upset is because your question MIGHT be read as assuming that people with a disability are somehow non-human and not subject to the same human vices, therefore not human / not to be considered as such. This is a pretty ridiculous notion but, unfortunately, rather prevalent, and it can ...as you can see ...make people just a tad trigger-happy :)

There’s more to sexism than ogling appearances.

Although we can't see, we live in a world with others who can ... So we don't get a pass on that either. It isn't like we live separated from sighted society and not all of us are completely blind. As a woman that happens to be losing my sight, I hope for the same things as when I did have sight, that we can just all be treated with decency and respect no matter what we may look like.

There's a huge sexism problem in the blind community, but of course, that depends who you ask. Many blind people weren't raised with proper social etiquette or boundaries, and you end up with many stories of blind women being asulted by other blind men. This particularly reached it's pinnacle at the last NFB conference I believe, where several women came forward to talk about the sexual misconduct that is so common in the community.

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Assholes are independent of their disabilities or skin colors or sexes. Assholes simply are. They just manifest differently.

For some reason, this made me remember about the blind, black KKK member. It was a comedy skit, but I don't remember where.

Ah yes. Sexism. There's a monthly ritual where we all take our white canes and sunglasses and enchant them with dark magic so elves will guard us from sexism.

Your question makes us sound like we aren't a part of the human population. And that sexism is purely based on vision.