I like disabled better than handicapped or differently-abled.

Stereotypes do get me down, but I've strived to try and prove those stereotypes wrong. Even if I can't get a job traditionally, I do my own work at home and volunteer at places that will take me. I think the best way to combat that negative stereotype is to prove those who are ignorantly labeling us as lazy, that they're wrong in the only ways we know how. :)

I'm fine with being called disabled, but I'm not happy about those who try to tiptoe around the word. Especially when they call us people with "Special abilities", that really gets on my nerves.

Doesn’t bother me. I have body that functions differently in a ableism society striving to overcome

I don't mind it honestly, it's the word I've grown up with so it's just become 'the word that means that thing' now. If someone calls me differently abled I do get an urge to show them some of the things that disabled people are able to do with sharp objects though, that one really winds me up.

I do have other disabilities outside of the ones that impact my vision, and I do prefer the term disabled over any of the other ones. Primarily terms that are used in place of the word disability or disabled are created by ableds who are uncomfortable with the challenges we face everyday, often they are used in a condescending way and I believe that there was a social experiment done where respondents were asked to write down what ever words came to mind when they saw the various terms. Disability/disabled had the least stigmatizing language associated with it. I am having a really bad light sensitivity day and unlike reddit I can't figure out how to get darker backgrounds for the internet assuming that is possible in the first place, so I am unable to search for it today but it was a fascinating read.

That said just because one is disabled does not mean they are useless, often with the right accommodations or tools a disabled person can function on a similar level to our non-disabled counterparts.

I'm fine with both disabled and handicapped, we only really have handicap in my language but when using English disabled seems more fitting, however I do prefer to use it in the "I have a disability" rather than saying "I am disabled" because I feels it narrows it down just a part of me and not all of me.

The word I really can't stand is "invalid", it's mainly because of the words other use as "not valid" which makes it feels like you're calling someone not a valid human being.

we are never more visually impaired than in the eyes of those who are not

Often the people who told me that in the past have the same thoughts, regardless of what word they described it as. The more complicated the phrase, the more often people would take a condescending tone, as if they were putting in effort to not use the word they want to use and that "we" should be grateful for their generosity. It took a while for people to not use their go-to words for anyone with a physical/mental/social/etc. complication; some people have different implications for what that means because that's what they knew. It can be tiring to have to teach the same lesson over and over, but use whatever language you feels works best as long as you're willing to put in the effort to doing it every time.

I am ok with the term it is only how people say it. If someone says it to put me down or say something like "He is disabled! He can not do anything on his own" or something like that then I do not like it but if someone just refers to me like that I am fine but when someone calls me handicapped I do not like it I also don't like Visibly Challenged it just seems very negative and reminds me of the word mentally challenged which is a threat and insult

"Disabled" always felt instinctively like I should be using a wheelchair or something, but I suspect that people who do use wheelchairs might object to that idea. Most people tend to go with "visually impaired" which is also wrong because I'd need to have some vision to be impaired. I'm OK with "blind." Or, you know, Jan. It's not like a complicated situation.

no, why?

It doesn’t bother me at all because I know who I am and my capabilities. It’s just a word

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I think you are trying to say you are not just one thing, and for people to stop being lazy with the titles we give each other.

I see all humans as cutlery... there are spoons and forks and knives and even some sporks. we know they are all cutlery. but when talking about one, we need to give obvious descriptors.

Sadly those descriptors have meshed and merged over time, similar to pusillanimous (shortened to PUSI )meaning cowardly and the word pussy meaning a cat... they slowly merged in society somehow and now confusion occurs between an insult, a cat, and a body part.

Disabled means two things to me. First it means paraplegic, cripple, lame, and paralyzed.

But, disabled also has a completely different second meaning used in a damaging way meaning to weaken, enfeeble, diffuse, and make useless.

You are correct to be angry, but maybe not at the word... angry at lazy peoples misuse of the words separate multiple meanings.

Never be disabled because of your disability.

No because I'm not a stupid SJW snowflake.