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What are some good sun glasses for extreme light sensitivity? (self.Blind)
submitted by casserole_cat
My girlfriend has extreme light sensitivity but other than that good vision. I am legally blind and only have I guess minor light sensitivity. So for me regular sunglasses do the job just for outside or very bright places.
But she needs them all the time even at school in class her white paper will hurt her eyes from being too bright.
I want to surprise her hopefully something chic because we are teenagers lol. She isn’t too picky but I don’t want her to feel too different.
Also she isn’t good at explaining things and gets really nervous when people ask why she always wears sunglasses. And it’s so cute but probably so frustrating that she gets all nervous and says “light bad?”. So maybe for those that deal with it at more her level what could she says when someone ask especially teachers because they forget. And then tell her to just take her sunglasses off in class and she just does because she doesn’t want to say anything. Unless I’m in that class to back her up and say something. Maybe a rehearsed sentence. I already tell her that it’s ok to speak up and that they will probably be understanding if she just tell them even though you might have to tell some of them like every day. (She’s had terrible experiences with adults being jerks so she doesn’t like talking to them)
But she needs them all the time even at school in class her white paper will hurt her eyes from being too bright.
I want to surprise her hopefully something chic because we are teenagers lol. She isn’t too picky but I don’t want her to feel too different.
Also she isn’t good at explaining things and gets really nervous when people ask why she always wears sunglasses. And it’s so cute but probably so frustrating that she gets all nervous and says “light bad?”. So maybe for those that deal with it at more her level what could she says when someone ask especially teachers because they forget. And then tell her to just take her sunglasses off in class and she just does because she doesn’t want to say anything. Unless I’m in that class to back her up and say something. Maybe a rehearsed sentence. I already tell her that it’s ok to speak up and that they will probably be understanding if she just tell them even though you might have to tell some of them like every day. (She’s had terrible experiences with adults being jerks so she doesn’t like talking to them)
UpsideDownwardSpiral 7 points 2y ago
I can't help you with finding a pair of sunglasses, but I think the easiest way for her to explain why she needs sunglasses inside (especially to a teacher) would be to say that she needs them because she has light sensitivity. Practicing the phrase 'light sensitivity' might help her, it will help when she gets put on the spot (asked why she is wearing them).
casserole_cat [OP] 1 points 2y ago
Thank you yes I think if she could just practice that it would be good. She just has a really rough time with authority. And before I was in a lot of classes with her so I would say something for her. But I’m not in any classes with her anymore and she tells me that she can’t see in class because of it. And I’ve just gotten so used to speaking up for myself that it comes to be second nature. I tell her that usually (with the teachers at our school) if you tell them what the problem is and what you need then they will accommodate you.
MizzerC 3 points 2y ago
For me, it wasn't about getting the darkest pair of glasses that helped out. I had tried that for awhile and it just didn't cut it.
Then shortly after getting assigned my VIST cordinator with the VA, I was suggested to try a different COLOR of lens.
Amber lens is what I ended up with. It was an immediate difference for me. It went from being functionally totally blind outside to being able to interact and seemingly act normally. ( Still got to squint a ton and can't do high activity, but I can at least get away with not needing my cane 80% of the time. )
As for how dark of an amber lens? That is all up to your girlfriend. I would just start off with a default amber lens pair and see how she reacts. ( or whatever other color seems to do it for her. )
Then shortly after getting assigned my VIST cordinator with the VA, I was suggested to try a different COLOR of lens.
Amber lens is what I ended up with. It was an immediate difference for me. It went from being functionally totally blind outside to being able to interact and seemingly act normally. ( Still got to squint a ton and can't do high activity, but I can at least get away with not needing my cane 80% of the time. )
As for how dark of an amber lens? That is all up to your girlfriend. I would just start off with a default amber lens pair and see how she reacts. ( or whatever other color seems to do it for her. )
casserole_cat [OP] 1 points 2y ago
Wow thanks this maybe could be a game changer because this could be the reason why sun glasses seem to just not be dark enough for her.
MizzerC 2 points 2y ago
At the onset, I was literally attempting to wear two pairs of sunglasses at same time to little or no benefit.
Change of tint color? I could almost see as well as I do inside. With exception that everything now had an 80s sci-fi tint to it...
Change of tint color? I could almost see as well as I do inside. With exception that everything now had an 80s sci-fi tint to it...
silamtao 3 points 2y ago
I have Rod-monochromatism and as a result I'm extremely sensitive to light and always on the lookout for super dark sunnies to wear over my super dark custom red contact lenses. The best I've found are made by Julbo Eyewear. They make sunglasses for mountaineering and many are category 4 which means they are illegal to drive with, not such a problem for me as I'm legally blind. Some styles are quite plain and a little on the sporty side but others have a very cool vintage style to them. My favourite are the Cham (Jamie Hyneman from Mythbusters wear them). They're also not overly expensive. Hope that helps and best of luck!
casserole_cat [OP] 1 points 2y ago
Thank you so much I will check it out!
annbeenan 2 points 2y ago
Chadwick Optical does a lot with the companies that make lenses specifically for different visual and neurological conditions. They have this really cool interactive filter comparison tool on their website that allows you to look at all of the Noir lenses and then order what you like from Noir. You can slide it back and forth to see what a bright room might look like under different Noir filters. I've been using it in a pinch during the pandemic. Hope this helps!
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shiningeagle_ 2 points 2y ago
NoIR has many different lens colors and frame styles. The dark red lenses work the best for my condition, I never leave the house without them.
https://noirmedical.com
https://noirmedical.com
casserole_cat [OP] 1 points 2y ago
Thank you I notice very quickly that it has a little quizlet to ask what they will be used for any everything so that’s a good sign
AchooCashew 1 points 2y ago
I have NoIR glasses for photophobia and retinitis pigmentosa, in the darkest amber lens. I love them.
One-Eyed-Frog 2 points 2y ago
I don’t have advice for finding the best glasses, but I have to wear sunglasses and baseball caps indoors due to light sensitivity. I relate to your girlfriend with even white paper being too bright sometimes.
Being in the USA, does your girlfriend have an IEP (Individualized Education Plan, also my knowledge on this is from 2006 so forgive me if this is out of date!) My agreement with the school allowed for me to wear sunglasses and a hat in class and the teachers rarely gave me hard time about it. If they had, I responded with something alone the lines of “This accommodation for my light sensitivity is a part of my IEP and has already been approved by the principal.”
Being in the USA, does your girlfriend have an IEP (Individualized Education Plan, also my knowledge on this is from 2006 so forgive me if this is out of date!) My agreement with the school allowed for me to wear sunglasses and a hat in class and the teachers rarely gave me hard time about it. If they had, I responded with something alone the lines of “This accommodation for my light sensitivity is a part of my IEP and has already been approved by the principal.”
casserole_cat [OP] 1 points 2y ago
No she doesn’t have a IEP because all of her medical stuff gets handled by her mom who has no custody of her. Her dad handles the school. And her dad is well he just doesn’t care or believe in doctors or idk he just doesn’t take any of it as fact. Her mother like isn’t even listed as a trusted person for school or someone that can give information if she calls the office.
TheBlindCreative 2 points 2y ago
I am pretty sure that this falls under some form of neglect. What country do you live in? Myself and others might be able to recommend resources. Depending on her age and region of residence, she might be able to get medical services and school accommodations without parental consent.
casserole_cat [OP] 1 points 2y ago
Trust me her dad is flat out abusive this is the least of it. She has a secret email on a laptop that he has forgotten about that she hides. He is physically abusive, emotionally, sexually, and verbally. She used to show up to school with bruises. We’ve tried CPS (makes it worse), court to get her to be with her mom (like I don’t even care that her mom lives hours away but she feels guilty but I tell her that our relationship will be fine). He slept with one of her therapists so they straight up didn’t believe her that he was bad. But ultimately she wants to stay with her sisters and it’s different when it’s just one kid trying to get out instead or 3 who want t stay together. We aren’t even allowed to see each other because her dad found out that we are dating. One time she even ran away and I didn’t say sh*t because honestly I rather have her run away if it gets that bad. That system is broken we have tried everything. Our new plan is when we turn 18 to work our butts off to get a apartment then she will try to adopt her sisters we might even get married just so she can say that she is married (it’s more like to be allowed to adopt).
TheBlindCreative 2 points 2y ago
I am so sorry that you two are struggling with this awful situation. She can report her therapist for unethical actions. Therapists are supposed to adhere to a code of ethics which includes not sleeping with a patient’s parent. She has probably looked into this, but maybe research becoming an emancipated minor. I wish that I could provide more help.
bdevel 1 points 2y ago
If she's only sensitive to indoor might, it might be the florescent tube lighting. They flicker at a high speed which isn't obviously noticeable but can cause all kinds of health issues. Sun glasses can work to dim the flickering. Sit by the window if possible. I like yellow tinted lenses which aren't dark at all but help with visual distractions. I also have blue lenses which I like on cloudy days. Amazon has cheap pairs.
SeaSongJac 1 points 2y ago
I'm autistic and to deal with bright lights, my boyfriend gave me his pair of welding grade safety glasses. They're not super expensive. However, they're not really chic. I love them though, because they fit my face well enough to keep most light from coming in the sides like regular glasses. I love how dark they are. I use them a lot for driving.
casserole_cat [OP] 2 points 2y ago
I also have autism and hey you have the welding glasses and I try playing with the blowtorch in my dads car. He doesn’t let me but one time he caught me outside blow torching stuff in the backyard. (I have a very poor sense of danger like VERY)
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