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Full History - 2021 - 05 - 21 - ID#nhyo20
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[RANT]There are so many jobs I have to miss out on because I don't drive and there is not public transit to that area. I'm so frustrated. (self.Blind)
submitted by princesspooball
Im have vision issues and technically I should be able to get my license but I do not feel comfortable driving and my family recommends that I do not drive. Since I am not disabled I do not qualify for Paratransit wouldn't work anyway for it's only goes to the fixed route areas that the city buses go to.

I am trying to get a better job with benefits and more pay but that feels impossible. There hardly any public transit or there is its only in that city me town and doesn't connect to other areas. Sure I could move but I'd still have to walk 2 hours to get there and it's not like I can just walk on the highway. Uber and Lyft are too expensive to use every single day. I have to rely on rides from my parents and I feel awful that they have to be in a car for an hour every day that I work.
BlindLuck72 8 points 2y ago
I usually move as close to work as possible then Uber until I can find someone to carpool with.

Is it cheap no, but it puts me into a good paying job I actually want to do.

If you offer $100-150/ month to someone as gas money you’d be surprised how many people would jump on that. The way I look at it it’s still cheaper than buying a car,.
princesspooball [OP] 1 points 2y ago
Okay that's an idea but that sounds super stressful.
BlindLuck72 8 points 2y ago
If you want to improve your situation sometimes you need to push yourself outside of your comfort zone.
GTbuddha 5 points 2y ago
I am legally blind. I used to be able to drive, that ended 21 years ago. My transition from sighted to legally blind took over a decade where I didn't feel comfortable driving but was legally allowed to.
I'm going to write a few things for you to consider. Take them, leave them it is your journey.
The two most important things I learned about where to live are: proximity to work and the grocery store. Now that may be proximity to a direct bus line or actual proximity.
The work part everyone thinks about but the grocery store usually gets overlooked. If you have a "disability/impairment" you tend to make less money. So, easiest way to save some money is cook and prep your meals. It's healthier and cheaper. Lugging groceries every couple of days gets old. Obviously Uber/Lyft ect can be an option but we are back to spending money.
Then build a friend group. Join the visually impaired community for events. You will be able to help others with less vision but you will meet volunteers who are also interested in helping the VI. Make friends with them. Get their phone numbers. Occasionally you may need their help and because they know that you are a good person and help others they are more likely to help you too.
If you are religious join a church. Get to know folks. Build your social network! Everyone is a resource.
Feel free to message me or respond here, or ignore me. I'm just another person willing to try to help.
princesspooball [OP] 3 points 2y ago
This is such excellent response! Thank you so much for writing all of this
TK_Sleepytime 5 points 2y ago
I had this problem too and eventually just moved to the city where the jobs are. It was either that or be ok with being dependent on others my whole life. I've got a decent career now so it worked out in the end and I'm happy being independent.
homerq 3 points 2y ago
Social Security Disability benefits pay specifically because of restriced mobility of the low vision and blind.
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princesspooball [OP] 2 points 2y ago
Thank you so much I didn’t know that!!!
yourmommaisaunicorn 3 points 2y ago
I’m looking for remote-only jobs on a subscription site called FlexJobs. It is the only site I’ve seen that has no scams WFH deals.
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yourmommaisaunicorn 3 points 2y ago
Oh it’s terrible. I only navigate it by only going to the job postings and ignoring all other things.

Definitely needed a sighted buddy the first time or two.
projeeper 3 points 2y ago
I feel your pain. i have the same issue in my town. when I first became Legally Blind, vocational rehab wanted me to go back to college for a business degree. I agreed if I could do it online. They said NO The State of Flirida does not allow for online classes period. I live about a ten minute drive from the college but because I can no longer drive, I have to walk in the hot Florida sun 20 minutes to the closes bus stop, wait for the bus, take that bus to the central station, change busses with a 15 minute layover. Travel on the next bus all over the west side of town before arriving at the college. It take 50 / 60 minutes each way. that a hour and a half ride each day. I told them no thanks I am to old to waste seven and a halve hours a week of my life just because the Florida Legislators have 30 year old laws still on the books stating online school are not creditable forms of education. Maybe one of the new online lawyers can get that changed for us! 😎
princesspooball [OP] 2 points 2y ago
I totally get the bus problem!! The buses are so ridiculous!!! There is so much stuff I would love to do you don't want to spend an eternity on the damned bus to get there!!

There is a gym near me that is 2 miles away that I wanted to join, it's on a very busy road with zero sidewalks. If I took the city bus it would take me an hour to get there!
NinjaTrainingWheels 2 points 2y ago
I feel your pain. I moved to a better city with light rail and a good bus system for this very reason. I'm looking to move again to a place with even better transit as I'm hooked on the freedom that enabled and want more.

I'm not sure what line of work you're in but wonder if these covid times have enabled remote work as an option, even if it were only one or two days a week. I've lyfted to train stops before, which is a nice hybrid model. Saved a lot of coin and was faster than bus to rail transfers.

Best of luck to you. Not being able to drive is definitely one of the most restrictive parts of being blind/low vision.
ItsUrMove 1 points 2y ago
I mean this with no disrespect, don't listen to your parents! They have no way of understanding what this means for you...they are likely just trying to protect you and they don't consider anything else.

I'm blind in one eye and 20/60 corrected withe some pariphrial issues.... I've been driving for 40 years. If I had listened to my mom I don't know where I'd be.

I'm not sure of the extent of your blindness, but you would be surprised at how poor your vision can be and still drive. Fear will rob you of the life you deserve.

Now I will say driving still freaks me out every time I get behind the wheel, but I can drive enough to get to work (40 miles each way). My wife is the primary driver for all else. Every time I have to renew my license is a big deal and lots of hoops to jump through.

But if there's any chance at all you can drive you owe it to yourself to try.
bdevel 1 points 2y ago
Just throwing it out there, I don't know your details, but an electric bike can get you 10 miles in 30 minutes. It's easy and still a good workout. Get some proper clothing for the winter.
princesspooball [OP] 3 points 2y ago
thanks for trying to help I don't feel comfortable on the road in a car, I'm definitely not going to feel better on a bike. We also get really nasty winters here
Ant5477 0 points 2y ago
Wow
AutisticPearl 0 points 2y ago
I have a suggestion I have to be very careful giving this suggestion because there might be some rules against me to me and they move where I work on social media, so I'm just going to call this place I can't see a good thing for you to look up if you live in the US of a is the Arkansas lighthouse, they are similar in nature to where I work and we'll find everything you need there oh, I think they're actually run by the same people that I work for, but I'm not sure, so it's hopefully going to work.
princesspooball [OP] 3 points 2y ago
I'm not blind or considered legally blind but thank you! I still have crap for eyes and on paper I should be able to drive but I don't feel comfortable
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