Literally every ophthalmologist I’ve seen has checked my eye pressure. They do it twice, once by their nurse with a Tonapen and the second time by the doctor with the slit lamp thing. I would see somebody else if possible

Go to a different DR. If you don’t advicate for your self medically, then no one will.

Not to defend your doctor. But I work as an ophthalmology technician, and one way the Dr will assess for glaucoma is to look at your cup to disc ratio in your eye. Basically the size of your disc surrounding your ocular nerve. 0.1 - 0.4 is normal, if it is higher then they become concerned and order more testing. Ocular hypertension doesnt always mean glaucoma. However though, they really should have checked your pressures, my office checks pressures on every patient to be safe.