Most people would just assume that she is somewhat shy, if it's not obvious that she's visually impaired.

Giant, wrap-around, super dark sunglasses are going to be your girl's best friend, and not just for getting people to stop bugging her.

I really don't notice if people are looking at my eyes or not.

Depending on the amount of sight she has .. maybe just quick, fraction of a second, glances towards the face. That's pretty normal.

Thinking of it now, I think that in a lot of interactions, both parties are interested in other things... screens, phones, paperwork, making coffee, ringing me up.. eye contact is such a small part; that a few quick glances towards their general area is all you really need now.

Hope it helps.

tbh what i’ve done is just come straight out and said this is my situation, deal with it or don’t. not those exact words but just own it. people don’t care, they have their own lives. if it’s a problem for them, that’s their problem not your gfs.

I just initiate conversation and put my hand out so they have to shake it, then I know where they are.

Everyone thinks I’m out going but I’m just finding people :)

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You've gotten some good suggestions here. I wear glasses and never wear sunglasses so I can't hide my eyes. My eyes are misaligned and people can be uncomfortable trying to figure out which of my eyes is looking at them and where to look. I think if she's open about her visual impairment it will help people to be more understanding. Once I explain to people that my right eye is blind then they know which eye to look at, at least.

I've been blind since birth, and I have advice. Tell her the problem will be solved if she wears sunglasses, sunglasses that hide the eyes. People are used to pretending to make eyecontact with sunglasses that hide the eyes. So she gets a few different pairs so she doesn't get board with the same pair.

This is the easiest blind people question ever. Get sunglasses. It puts people with vision at their ease, and then you can talk to them way easier, because they aren't getting whigged out by your eyes.

I'm always torn between saying yes I get this, because I do, but also let's not be too concerned about it because it's not a big enough deal to most people to matter. I have often worn sunglasses in situations where it possibly wasn't that obvious a time to wear sunglasses but by doing that I've had twenty minute conversations with strangers where they didn't clock what was going on at all. If I don't do that I can sometimes convince people for a little while but I can't see at all so I can't focus on anything and it's an effort of will to do it. So I don't.

I wouldn't necessarily encourage anyone to do any of those things because whoever you're getting to know needs to get used to you as you, but sometimes it's just easier to shove some ray bans on your face and not deal with people asking the same questions all over again. I don't mind doing that, I think it's useful for people to be willing to do that, but sometimes you want an evening off and that's fine.

The only other thing about this is that I have really normal body language. I could see fine until I was 19 and I basically come off as a sighted person. If that's not you, then not focusing on things may be the least of your problems and you may as well not worry about it.

In 43 years, I have never met anyone who cares if I'm looking them in the eye or not.

I’ve always been told one of the reasons I “pass” as fully sighted is because I give eye contact when people are talking. I don’t do it consciously, I just turn my head and face towards the sound. However, I have been accused of having more sight than I do, even by people who have my vision reports. Apparently I “scan” my surroundings continually moving my eyes all around to make maximum use of my usable vision, but I wear dark sunglasses almost 100% of the time this time of year outdoors and indoors.