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Full History - 2021 - 09 - 24 - ID#puxm7i
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is car anxiety normal? (self.Blind)
submitted by ohshiloh
i’m not fully blind but had an eye taken out a few years ago. i never learned to drive but where i grew up most people didn’t drive places. we took public transit, walked, or biked.

i live in a city now and even though my boyfriend is a solid driver i’ve noticed being on the road makes me anxious, like sick to my stomach. it’s been a couple years of this now trying to figure it out… i’ve never been in any car accidents and i’ve road-tripped a lot without anything bad happening. all i can think is my depth perception is screwed, i obviously have a blind spot, and i can never tell what anyone else is doing on the road. i can’t pinpoint “landmarks” in the city either despite living here for a while so i’m still unfamiliar with where anything is.

is this anxiety normal? how do i get over the vision related parts? i have a therapist but he doesn’t really know much about this.
SqornshellousZ 4 points 1y ago
Absolutley. My wife would get nausea more often and her Kia had a great deal of customization done to the bodywork on one side by trees and stumps, but honestly caused zero traffic accodents and obeyed the laws that counted most. You are doing exceptionally well.
Adventurous-Bid-9341 3 points 1y ago
It’s absolutely normal - my dad (100% blind) still gets a bit skittish if I drive too fast. But, he also has some 40 years without sight now, so be knows Where we are, if I’m merging.. my point is it will come! It will take some time, and you may have some anxiety even after years of being in the car. Especially if you’re with a new driver. I would say (not because I know or have firsthand experience) take a drive with someone you trust, in a residential area, ease into it when you can to even out the times you can’t
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rumster 1 points 1y ago
OP I'm not visually impaired but I get anxiety all the damn time driving especially when it's raining hard or really late at night because of drunk drivers lol
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