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Do blind people enjoy having non-service animal pets? What is cute? (self.Blind)
submitted by horseradishking
I'm a sighted person. I recently ran across this question and it made me think: what is cuteness?

Sighted people always talk about how their pets are cute. This seems to be a human phenomenon that appears to be based on sight. But I wondered how much is involved with vision.

Do you or blind people you know enjoy non-service animals as pets? A cat? A dog? A bird? Does the care of a pet add another level of care that is too complex for a blind life or does it add value?

Does the awareness of a cute animal, or what is generally cute, transfer from sighted to blind people? What is cute to a blind person? Can animals be cute?
EyesR4Nerds 13 points 1y ago
I Foster and rehab special needs guinea pigs. There are some aspects that are more challenging blind, but I love my fuzzy potatoes for their personalities, snuggle time and the many adorable sounds they make.

And yes, I’ve rehabed a few blind guinea pigs lol
Tarnagona 12 points 1y ago
Keep in mind that many blind people have some sight and may be able to see their pet’s cute face, if for example, they get close enough. I’m one of those people. My cat looks like a fuzzy blob from across the room. But I can see him pretty clearly when I’m sitting beside him. But I also enjoy that sound of him purring, the softness of his fur, and the warmth when he sits in my lap. Plus, the companionship of having another living creature to come home to.
Simply_Limeade 2 points 1y ago
This
BenandGracie 7 points 1y ago
I have a dog, and I am totally blind. People tell me she is cute, and I can kind of tell by how she acts when she is being cute.

I have to say, this is kind of a stupid question. The thing sighted people forget is that being blind doesn’t make me much different than you. I may have to do some things a little differently, but at the end of the day, I have all the same hopes, dreams, and problems that you do. I am a blind guy not an alien from another planet.
horseradishking [OP] 2 points 1y ago
aww

You won't believe how many sighted people ask this question on Google's search engine.

\> I have all the same hopes, dreams, and problems that you do

Very true. But perceptions are different. My Chinese friend from the Chinese countryside couldn't believe I had a cat in my house and would never touch it.
BenandGracie 6 points 1y ago
True, but that is a cultural thing not a blindness thing. My main problem with these questions is the sighted people don’t think about people who have been blind for years. For people like me who have been blind their entire lives, we just go about our day. I don’t sit around asking myself how the sighted people around me view the world. I know I will never be able to understand what a sighted person sees in color or looking at the sky, so I don’t ever worry about it.
horseradishking [OP] 2 points 1y ago
\> My main problem with these questions is the sighted people don’t think about people who have been blind for years.

That's exactly who I was hoping would answer. I think you're taking these questions the wrong way. It's people like you who give insight into our humanity. Most people don't know a blind person and have never spoken to one about questions that make us wonder. Human brains are believed to have developed because of vision -- the ability to identify ripe fruit. What happens when you have a brain that is deprived of vision?

You know what sighted people already think. Sighted people don't know what you think. Some of the answers to these questions are very insightful and incredible to read for a sighted person. They're not always what a sighted person would answer, especially those who've be blind since birth.

For example, one of the responses to a question about jokes about sighted people is how he gets a chuckle from sighted people asking why he's sitting in the dark. Since he wrote that, it has really made me think. You might this is simple. But it's very insightful.
BenandGracie 4 points 1y ago
That's the problem. Being blind doesn’t give me some special insight in to humanity. I have the same knowledge and flaws as every other human on the planet. My blindness doesn’t give me an edge because I might perceive the world differently. Knowing how I look at the world will not help you understand it.
DrillInstructorJan 7 points 1y ago
We have a cat. She is adorable, although she tends to stick her cold wet nose in your face.
Vicorin 4 points 1y ago
Fuck off with your dumb questions. Yes, we find things cute or beautiful just like anyone else, and we are perfectly capable of taking care of pets, the same way we take care of ourselves, our service animals, and/or our families. I’m tired of ignorant people who think they’re asking thought-provoking questions.
retrolental_morose 4 points 1y ago
when my guide dog died, the house felt empty without a dog. We have a pet now and just the company of her curling up when I watch movies or do my paperwork is reassuring. Cuteness is a matter of perspective I suppose, but the company aspect of it was important to me.
B_Bussen 2 points 1y ago
I've been totally blind since birth, 73 years ago. I've always had a dog for a pet. I get to attached to them, but they're a lot of company. I even had a guide dog for a while. My wife had a cat. After she died I kept her cat until she died. I liked the cat, but prefer a dog. I had a bird once a couple times and that was fun, but sure messy.
codeplaysleep 2 points 1y ago
I love my dog. He's the best little dude.... and yes, $1.

He brings me so much happiness, with his wiggly, playful, snuggly ways. I've always had and loved dogs, but I have especially bonded with this one like I haven't bonded with a dog since probably childhood.

As for care, it's not hard - take him out on a rough schedule/when he asks to go out and make sure he's got food and water. One of the reasons I got a small dog was so it would be easy to accommodate his exercise needs in our house/yard.

He mostly keeps his toys picked up and in his bed when he's not playing with them (we didn't teach him this), but he's tiny so it's not like they'd be huge tripping hazards anyway. The worst that happens is getting startled when I step on a random squeaky toy.

Speaking of being tiny, he learned quickly that I have no peripheral vision and that he shouldn't get under-foot.

Finding accidents in the house when we were potty training him was a little difficult for me at times, but the rest of the family was around to help out with that. I did most of the actual house training, though. After about two weeks of struggling with it due to the rest of the family not being consistent enough, I basically took a week off work and stayed with him 24/7 and kept super on top of his cues that he needed to go and made sure to take him out frequently. That's a huge up-front commitment and of course YMMV, but in our case, he learned so quickly that way that it was totally worth it (and I needed a break from work anyway).
horseradishking [OP] 1 points 1y ago
What a cute dog!! Is that a Maltese? I have a maltepoo and just love her.

I've had other dogs but she is so mindful about staying away from my feet, in fear that I'll step on her. I wonder if this is unique to their breed.
PaleontologistTrue74 2 points 1y ago
Pythons. I think any pet works but I recomend something that you can handle on your arm. Just make sure it's not dangerous and no where near your neck.

Also, have someone else clean the cage.
Tarnagona 1 points 1y ago
I held a snake once in high school and have wanted one as a pet ever since. I’ve never gotten one, though, because I’m worried I won’t know how to take care of it, and haven’t yet been in a place where I could devote the money or time to figuring it out. A pet snake is still a goal, though. Especially ball pythons, who are just such fat, chill noodles, and I love them.
PaleontologistTrue74 2 points 1y ago
Yea fam. Its hard to keep them cozy. Very sensitive animals. Try buying equipment one piece at a time. Also, dont fall for the expensive cages/habitat's. They are kinda unreasonable for most snakes.
BenandGracie 1 points 1y ago
You are braver than me. I am not a snake fan, and if someone handed me a Python, I would either shoot it or run screaming from the room.
PaleontologistTrue74 1 points 1y ago
Start small. I think the terror is seeing it. The feeling of its scales though are awesome
BenandGracie 2 points 1y ago
I think I’ll just take your word for it.
SoapyRiley 2 points 1y ago
I have 3 dogs and 2 cats and a turtle. I have had all but the turtle since before my sight went wonky. They are all super cute. When they have all passed except the turtle (he’s a juvenile with a 20 year life expectancy) I’m sure I will think my next pet is cute whether I can see it or not. Even if the glaucoma took all of my vision tomorrow I would find the affection, warmth and texture all my babies cute.
imjustyittle 1 points 1y ago
>Do you or blind people you know enjoy non-service animals as pets? A cat? A dog?

Was I supposed to get rid of $1 a few years ago because my vision deteriorated?
Alaisha 1 points 1y ago
Cute is when my cats lay on my chair with me. Cute is when my cat Nala licks my hand over and over, or when she meows at me when I enter the room or call out to her or ask her a question. Cute is feeling how soft and fluffy she is, and noticing how relaxed she is in my presence.
Cute is my fluffy cat Harley. Cute is when he trills more than meows, and that the only time he meows is when he hasn't gotten my attention by trilling, so I say he's yelling. Cute is when his tail is up, because he's happy. Cute is when he plays with our other cats, and trills and they chase each other.
horseradishking [OP] 2 points 1y ago
That is cute.
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