CactoHelado 2 points 1y ago
Yes, voice is definitely a big determinant of physical attractiveness for me! Very much into girls with higher-piched, giggly, sort of shy/embarrassed voices. But mental connection is also very important as well.
bradley22 1 points 1y ago
I like chubby women, who know how to joke around and have fun :)
Voice/accent is a thing for me I guess but I've not really thought about it, I mean if I were going out with someone and they were from a diffirent country to me and had an accent I liked I'd probably see it an an extra :)
Fridux 1 points 1y ago
This is actually a sensitive subject for me, because it shows just how superficial I can be in some circumstances.
Even after 7 years of total blindness I still find myself judging people's attractiveness based on descriptions of their looks, and to make things worse I do have my own taste, so what many people find attractive might not be attractive for me. As a result I haven't felt attraction to anyone to the point of actually wanting a long term relationship with them ever since I lost my sight. I absolutely need to feel proud of my partner, and that includes their looks, which I cannot judge anymore.
When it comes to casual sex the story is completely different though, as I don't mind to have sex with anyone as long as they don't smell bad and are of the opposite gender.
Anyway answering your question, when it comes to physical non-visual attraction I do find acute triangular or sinusoid wave shaped female voices, which I call blue voices since I experience synesthesia and those voices remind me of the color blue, as well as big boobs, to be very attractive. As turn-offs I dislike the smell of cosmetics, which is consistent with my distaste for them visually, and dental problems that affect pronunciation.
WorldlyLingonberry40 0 points 1y ago
Attraction happens even when I don't know how they look. I do like BBW women, big breasts, and clean shaven.
I've been with all kind of women, and their bodies were all beautiful. Its a matter of exploring them.
guitarandbooks -1 points 1y ago
I've dated and slept with many girls over the years;both blind and sighted. Since losing my sight as a teen, there are certainly non-visual things I find a turn on, or, a turn off.
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I prefer short smaller girls with straight hair. Although I'm okay with hair various places, I do find it more of a turn on when she is fully waxed or shaved. (It's not a deal breaker for me though.)
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Good hygiene is a must but on the other side of that coin, I can't stand nail polish, lipstick, hair spray, really strong perfume, or makeup.
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Voice and accent are a big deal but I find that I like many more than I really dislike as far as that goes.
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I honestly could care less about clothes or fashion etc. She can hang out around my place in her thong all day if she wishes. If she insists on wearing clothes, I'll pick the girl next door type wearing jeans and a hoodie over a girl who is obsessed with fashion or brands.
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At the end of the day though, I'm attracted to a girl who is creative, smart, sweet, caring, and a girl who has a high sex drive. If those things are there, than I find that most everything else comes after in terms of importance if that makes sense. Somebody may have what you like physically but even if they are also great in bed, you won't have a good long term relationship if you aren't attracted to who they are. Now if we're just talking about a hookup or a FWB situation, I can sort of let that go a bit.