Curious, how many of you left moved into an apartment after becoming legally blind?(self.Blind)
submitted by blazblu82
So, the question is more for those who live alone. Did you decide it would be better to live in an apartment rather than try to maintain your house?
I bought a used mobile home almost 2 years ago and have been debating on whether to sell it and move into an apartment to remove some responsibility from my plate. Even though that prospect sounds good, I'm not at all thrilled about living in an apartment. They're smaller, more expensive and the close quarters with tenets bugs me to no end. I'm not legally blind, yet, but feel like I should be actively planning for it.
What have you done with your living situation? TIA!
kescba6 points1y ago
appartment, i dont know if the rules are the same at where you live, but where i live others maintain the building and so on.. They can be expensive, but also cheap.. Mine is on 4 rooms, kicthen bathroom because i have a son and yes, we can complain, but you should be focused on what you need.. Vision loss makes you move less around and therefor its important that its easy to get around and especially to things you need.. I live near my fitness and shopping and most important public transportation.. Yes i dream of having a house, but for now i invest my money and see where my life will bring me.. and am a part of organisations for visually impared so i get around :-)
blazblu82 [OP]3 points1y ago
I know the short comings of renting an apartment, the negatives mostly outweigh the good. It's the reduced responsibility of renting that has me interested in moving into one.
codeplaysleep5 points1y ago
I've done both.
The conveniences of renting can be nice when it comes to maintenance, lawn care, shoveling sidewalks, etc. but you're also at the mercy of having a good landlord/property manager when it comes to getting things done in a timely fashion.
Owning means all of that is your responsibility, and your expense, but you're also in control of it. You can hire people to fix things or take care of your lawn.
Renting is more costly month to month, whereas owning can come with unplanned, sometimes large expenses. If you can afford the higher cost of renting, you can budget and save for the unplanned expenses of owning.
As far as which one is "easier" as a blind person? Since buying and moving into our current house a little over a year ago, we've replaced three light fixtures for brighter ones, installed exterior lighting, improved our front steps, and sanded the hip-height corners of a butcher block countertop on our kitchen island to a nice, round edge.
It's a lot easier to make your place accessible when you own it and have full control over it.
B-dub314 points1y ago
We own a house and a little over an acre of property that we bought prior to my vision loss. It is a nightmare for me to keep it maintained. It is cost prohibitive to hire someone to do outside maintenance, so I do it myself. I get by OK because I have some vision remaining, but keeping the equipment maintained is perhaps the biggest issue for me. Luckily, my sons are at the age where they can help. I like owning my own home, but I can see the appeal of renting. When our boys move out, we will be downsizing for sure.
Simply_Limeade3 points1y ago
Really it depends on where you live and your finances. Speaking for my own experience in Florida. Renting is not worth the insane rent prices these days. Being a landlord has become a very greedy business and they will squeeze the life out of everyone for every last coin. It's hard enough to be disabled and afford things as it is.
blazblu82 [OP]2 points1y ago
Currently live in a mobile home park on the edge of town. Nothing over here to walk to unless I get a ride to the next town over which is about 5 miles over.
Really can't beat the what I'm paying to stay here versus renting. House is about 1200 sqft, but an apartment of similar cost would be about half that. I have thought about downsizing my mobile at some point since I'm the only one living in it.
Luckily, I still have time to decide things. My biggest driver for moving is to get closer to work. But there isn't anything I want to live in or at near there.
Simply_Limeade1 points1y ago
Late reply but whatever you choose. Hope the best for you.
oldfogey123453 points1y ago
I guess it depends on your financial situation. If you can afford to pay people to mow the yard and do repairs then stay in the house. If not, move.
A few blind people can learn to do mowing and small household repairs without help, but those folks tend to be extremely resourceful people.
Bubbly-Duck32323 points1y ago
I have been living with my parents since May; and I’ll be moving into my own house in a couple of weeks. I lived in apartments and I hated it. I’ll be having someone come in to clean and do yard work for me.
BeforeSides2 points1y ago
I am less worried about the maintenance aspect. I was pretty handy throughout my life so I’m in a good position to figure those things out post vision degeneration. I was more concerned about the physical security element as I live in a rough town. Twice my house had attempted break ins while I was home. Just figured an apartment would be less stress and less on my mind. Though it was a rent house so I couldn’t upgrade or install exterior light fixtures, swap doors out, install cameras, so on. Living in a high rise apartment now with my fiancé which works out. But we will still be acquiring a house at some point given equity is a huge benefit for long term financial growth. And if I owned the house, I could make all the physical security adjustments and modifications necessary.
blazblu82 [OP]2 points1y ago
I'd much rather stay in my house than move. But I need to move closer to my job so I can get rides to and from work. I've got about 6 months left with a coworker before they retire then I'm SOL. I'm only 15 minutes from work, but paying $20+ for Uber 1 way 8 times a week is WAY too expensive. Plus, where I live, there isn't anything within walking distance to go do; so, I'm stuck at home until I can get someone to take me somewhere.
BeforeSides1 points1y ago
Yeah, I can understand completely. Is public transit an option in your area, or is it too far out of their operating area?
blazblu82 [OP]2 points1y ago
I'm at the edge. Closest bus stop is a couple miles away and even then, a bus doesn't stop there regularly. Additionally, I'd have to switch busses a couple times and get dropped off a couple miles from work. Not an ideal situation. I can get paratransit, but it wouldn't be any better than a bus, except it would pick me up at my house. The downside is not knowing when I would get to work and getting a ride home afterwards since I work night shift.
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I'll probably just find an apartment later in the year, if I can sell my mobile home.
TechnicalPragmatist1 points1y ago
Yeah, yard work and major repairs would give me pause in owning a house do I want a yard is a better question.
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