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Full History - 2022 - 01 - 15 - ID#s4j6mt
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Recreational activities? (self.Blind)
submitted by Cellist_Witty
Hello LV/blind peeps,

What are hobbies that you currently are enjoying lately? Trying to figure out some recreational activities for my LV pal; trying to encourage her to keep herself busy with different things than just Facebook and online (sometimes gets toxic and triggering for her), she also gardens and attempts to cook, but it's getting harder and harder as her blindness continues to progress. I'm curious to hear how y'all stay busy 😁
Samanthia_Farthing 6 points 1y ago
I think learning something new is one of the best ways to stay busy. Is there something that maybe she has always been interested in/wanted to learn, but never had time for before? Maybe she wants to learn the piano, or a foreign language, or computer code, or anything really.
Another great thing is volunteering. That is one of the best ways to get your focus off your own problems. Is there an organization she has a heart for? Similarly, there are a lot of organizations/programs that hook up mentors with mentees who are both visually impaired. That can be an awesome way to give back and help someone else who is new to blindness or having a hard time. It might also help her to realize how much she is able to do when she is teaching those skills to someone else.
Does she have a pet? I don’t know what I would do without my guide dog, but even just a regular pet can be a great companion and they can definitely take up some time if you want to work with them to do obedience stuff.
I also really think group activities are better than individual activities like playing games on your phone or watching tv. Are there any community or church groups/activities she could get involved with to stay busy and meet new people?
Hope some of that is useful and helps your friend.
ratadeacero 5 points 1y ago
We go camping, hiking, fishing, concerts, and bowling. It pissed me off bowling. I suck and the blind one did better than me.
My wife suggested botanical gardens, dancing, petting zoos, and make your own pottery stores. She added bumper cars. They can do any activity anyone else can. They might not do as well but they'll have fun. I've even taken her to a gun range before.

You want a real hoot? Take them to a big, empty parking lot and let them drive. We've done that.


Edit: my blind wife says those that suggested ham radio and coding for fun are lying. Lol. She also suggested horseback riding
r_1235 3 points 1y ago
ROFL!

It's fun if you enjoy it!

There are days when I also hate learning python, or learning Japanese, or creating music, or reading, or hmm, lot of things. I just take a break at that time, do something else.

Not sure about ham radio, but it's a cool skill to have I guess. But, I would rather have some walkytalky app on my phone to talk to people in real time.
letspaintthesky 5 points 1y ago
Arts and crafts. If at first you're thinking 'what the fuck? She's blind' don't despair.


Knitting: Use big needles and chunky wool-lots of things can be made chunky, and should be.
Crochet: Same deal
Macrame: Again, you could start simple and go by feel, relying less and less on remaining vision.
Painting: Landscapes, portraits, abstract, who cares? Sometimes it's just fun to throw paint at a canvas (or paper, or cardboard, or really anything)


Tie Dye could be fun, with a sighted assistant (or hell, just a friend/family member. Some things are just more fun when you work with someone)
Origami: Start simple, with bright paper and a sighted friend, they could learn some things they'd like to fold and go from there.


Modelling: Think polymer clay, air-dry clay, modelling clay, even start with play-doh if the person wants to get better at making by hand before using expensive supplies.
Pottery: Again, by feel.


Baking could be fun in similar vein to modelling, with the fun caveat of it's edible. Or modelling with fondant or modelling chocolate. Again, edible, so bonus points. It also ticks the box of being creative and of being similar enough to cooking.


And of course, musical instruments and learning languages can also be great fun. Depends on what you're into. There are also sight-assisted and blind/VI sports as well. Swimming, running, skiing, snowboarding, goalball. There are beeping balls you can buy for basketball, rugby, american football, european football/soccer, baseball/softball, and cricket, to name a few.


There's also extreme sports like bungee jumping and skydiving, but they're not for everyone :L


If the person in question has their own ideas, bring them here. Someone will know some way to make it happen, or make it easier, or a version of said thing that can still be enjoyed.
Tarnagona 5 points 1y ago
I’m going to second the arts and crafts suggestion. My favourite is embroidery, but I’ve also done origami, beading, and before the pandemic happened my fiancé and I did a couple paint nights.

I have some sight, so I can see things if a hold them close enough to manage so pretty fine work, but I think many of these could be adapted to less vision. I know there are origami models that I’ve folded enough of that I could do them completely without sight. You can embroider with thicker thread that’s easier to see. Your pictures will come out chunkier, but that’s also a style. And you can create tactile art by using different stitches.

For something like a paint night, I highly recommend having a sighted friend who can demonstrate what the facilitator is doing close up. Or following a tutorial online where you can zoom in and pause and take things at your own pace.

If you can learn what kinds of things she was interested in when she was sighted, we might be able to give suggestions on how to adapt it. We can do most things in one form or another.
letspaintthesky 6 points 1y ago
I'll piggyback off this to add that art classes (classical drawing, still life painting, watercolour impressionism) could all be worth trying if she wants to. Just have to find a teacher/instructor that's willing to work with you (I've been very fortunate, I confess).
Cellist_Witty [OP] 2 points 1y ago
Yes I like the idea of embroidery with chunkier threads! She used to do the FINEST stitches of embroidery when she still had her vision... Maybe she might enjoy trying again with thicker strands
Cellist_Witty [OP] 2 points 1y ago
Oh thank you for offering more input on things she would like to do!

She has a lot of roadblocks that can make it hard to enjoy crafty things or new things she has to learn... chiefly, she tends to get easily frustrated (brain injury and PTSD). She has been experiencing some neuropathy in her fingertips due to a neurological disorder (she can't always feel when her plant soils are wet or dry)... She used to crochet and knit when she had more vision. I like the idea of maybe using chunkier yarn, only problem is she is on a fixed income and the chunky yarns are very pricy for her budget...

I think I would like to see how she feels about swimming during the summer... That might be fun. She does love to walk when weather permits us to (she can go for miles)...

Thank you all for all these great suggestions and insights! 😁
TechnicalPragmatist 1 points 1y ago
I think she can still do some of the stuff she use to enjoy.
Fridux 4 points 1y ago
I code for entertainment and learning purposes, but already had years of experience before going totally blind. I doubt that I'd get into it if I had been born this way though, because what attracted me to programming back when I started is not the same thing that attracts me now, and what attracts me now requires experience.

At the moment I'm building the back-end of what will hopefully be an accessible real-time persistent mobile game, kinda like the old web games but running natively on people's phones and using modern technologies. I'm also using this project to familiarize myself with the ins and outs of the Rust programming language.

My final objective is to build a portfolio of projects developed totally blind that can impress recruiters once I begin my hunt for a job as an iOS developer later this year.

I'm glad that I found out that I could still code blind, because before I figured that I had enough skill to overcome the mental drag of doing it with this condition I felt extremely bored and useless, and while I still feel useless at least I'm not bored anymore.
paneulo 4 points 1y ago
And just in case it's not totally clear, you can absolutely get into coding if you are blind. Pretty sure you weren't saying otherwise, but it took me a quick reread of your comment to confirm. I've always been blind, and I'm a senior dev.
BeforeSides 3 points 1y ago
I’m not sure how old this person is or what their comfort level with contact sports is, but I’ll throw in a vote for grappling martial arts such as Brazilian Jiujitsu or Judo. I’m significantly Low vision beyond hand movements territory, but I’m two years into BJJ as a blue belt. Good for physical fitness, camaraderie with training partners and a community, promotes lots of other healthy lifestyle choices, and really helps with feeling more comfortable in space given it builds a lot of kinesthesia which has benefits for us blind folk in other areas of life. Not for the faint of heart though but certainly worth looking at.
x_Barnacle_671 3 points 1y ago
I am legally blind and enjoy playing music. I can't read sheet music obviously but I found ways to learn. There are verbal instructions that can be taught, and once learned it's like another language that is spoken between musicuans. Someone can tell me what to play and I know how to play it.

YouTube has thousands of videos on how to play tons of music on many instruments. I play drums and bass, and am learning guitar. I would say choose an instrument, and find a good teacher. It's that simple. I play everyday. I joke that a guitar is my fidget spinner, and a set of drums is my treadmill.
paneulo 3 points 1y ago
Ham radio? It's a pretty popular hobby amongst us blind folk.
TechnicalPragmatist 1 points 1y ago
What about self work, no sight needed just honesty and looking inside, though sometimes the books can cost a lot but if you go the eastern route there’s not that much.

What about getting in to studying mbti and socionics and the enneagram?

I got really in to that stuff and learnt so much about myself.
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