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People who lost their sight, how often do you visualize in your head? Do you worry that you will forget what things/people look like? (self.Blind)
submitted by Djweath13
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OldManOnFire 2 points 1y ago
I visualize everything. I can't imagine ever stopping.

I'm not worried about forgetting what people look like. I will, of course, that's just part of being human. But we replace the fading details with constructs from our own imaginations. We don't notice it because it happens slowly, but the more time passes the more of what we remember is actually a made up substitution for the details our minds forgot. For example, if you picture in your head a place you haven't been in awhile, really concentrate and try to picture it as it really is, then go there and observe it you'll see how much simpler your mental image is than the reality. Our brain filters out the unnecessary details so we can focus on the more important ones.

So yes, I will forget the details of my wife's smile, of my daughter's hair, of my grandson's hands. But it doesn't bother me because I know my mind will fill in the blanks in such a way that all of the love I felt when my wife smiled at me will still be conjured up when I remember. It's the old Ship of Theseus question - Here's a wooden ship. If I replace a piece of wood on the ship with a new one is it still the same ship? What if i replace more than one? What if I replace every single piece of wood on the ship, one board at a time, with an identical but new board? Is it still the same ship?

My answer is if this reconstructed mental image of my wife's smile still evokes the same warm feelings of love and happiness then it's the same smile. I don't need all the details, I just need all the love.

That's why it doesn't bother or worry me.
Djweath13 [OP] 2 points 1y ago
Thanks for the thoughtful answer. I’ve been thinking of this since learning that some people can’t visualize things in their head. Then I thought, well, people who were born blind can’t either, since they have nothing to visualize. It must be a very different experience to be born blind than to lose your sight later. I imagine when you pick up an apple, you “see” an apple in your head.
OldManOnFire 1 points 1y ago
It's odd, but for the last few weeks I've been noticing something new. Even if the lights are all off and it's totally dark, if my eyes are open I can "see" my surroundings. I can see the outline of a door frame, for example. But if I close my eyes it all goes away.

When I turn the lights on the door frame is a little left or right of where I saw it because I wasn't really seeing anything, my brain was just filling in. I think it's still trying to compensate for what I'm rapidly loosing. If my eyes are open my brain is adding details to whatever it is I'm looking at, even if the room is too dark to see anything.

So yes, I still "see" an apple when I hold one, as long as my eyes are open and I'm facing the right direction, even if it's outside my field of vision or if the room is too dark to see.

I hope this helps you understand. Honestly I don't really understand it myself, I'm just watching in wonder as my mind tries to fill in all the blanks for me. It's been an amazing, humbling experience.
OutWestTexas 1 points 1y ago
I‘ve already forgotten a lot of things
Djweath13 [OP] 2 points 1y ago
I feel like I would never want to leave an area, or home, from which I used to be able to see because then I would at least have some frame of reference to go by and maybe could remember more easily.
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