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Full History - 2022 - 02 - 04 - ID#skmetc
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Hey everyone. A few weeks ago, I asked some of you about what questions and assumptions you were tired of hearing. I compiled some of your responses in a video, in an attempt to spread awareness. I’d really appreciate your thoughts and feedback, if you have a few minutes to spare! Thank you! (youtu.be)
submitted by ImpairedPhilosopher
mdizak 6 points 1y ago

Yeah, you touched on one of my pet peeves... when people raise their voice and talk to you louder. I just think to myself, "no dude, wrong disability, I'm blind not deaf".

The other one I hate is when people just assume I'm useless / homeless. I remember onetime I was walking into a coffee shop around 5am and a homeless guy asked if I had any change. I told him no, but he's welcome to come with me and I'll buy him whatever drink and food he wants.

He came with me into the shop, I got him squared away with what he wanted, then proceeded to order what I wanted. The cashier first asked if I had any money, I'm assuming thinking I'm homeless as well. The homeless guy took off and sat by himself, and the cashier proceeded to schold me for helping a homeless guy out because she views him as a nuisance to her work life. This was just a little after I returned to Canada after spending 8 years in NE Thailand so I was still pretty used to living in a Buddhist society, hence was faily appaled and just said, "what?!?! everyone needs to eat".

She sticks to her guns that he's a nuisance, and proceeds to tell me something like, "you have an excuse because you can't work, but those people have no excuse, they can get a job if they wanted". I was so infuriated, I didn't even say anything, and just walked away. Some days I'm sure I make more in a single day than she makes all month, so no idea where the fuck she gets off saying something like that...
ImpairedPhilosopher [OP] 3 points 1y ago
Wow, what a horrible woman! I don’t understand how someone can have such little compassion. Kudos to you for keeping your cool. I don’t know if I would have been able to do the same.
mdizak 6 points 1y ago
Yeah, I just don't bother with people like that. No empathy or compassion for their fellow human, apparently too ignorant to understand there's a plethora of reasons as why someone can fall into homelessness, and to top it off she assumes all blind people are homeless, useless and unable to work.

Where do you even start with that one, you know? Easier just to walk away.
ImpairedPhilosopher [OP] 2 points 1y ago
100%. I’d rather put that time and effort into finding decent people to surround myself with. Negative people like that are so stuck in their ways, that they rarely ever change.
TechnicalPragmatist 1 points 1y ago
That sounds horrible for sure.
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