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Full History - 2022 - 02 - 05 - ID#slbb2s
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[rant] Getting lost just outside your own house is fun. Thanks, winter. (self.Blind)
submitted by mehgcap
We just got snow, so I headed out to shovel as usual. We have snowbanks already, which is generally helpful to me as they offer tactile boundaries/landmarks. Between that and the little vision I have, I'm normally fine. Not today.

I shoveled the end of the driveway, but wound up wandering into and along the street a bit, ending up in the driveway next door. I'd only find this out later, though. At the time, I just knew I wasn't where I should be.

Winter is great. It takes all my tactile landmarks, the snowbanks make sound bounce oddly, fresh snow makes everything white or light gray, even the roads if I'm out there soon enough (as I was today), and if there's sun, the glare makes sight all but useless, and clouds just make all the white and gray blend together more. I had a shovel to use as a cane, and that was all.

I was rescued when I called my house and had someone stick their head out to direct me, at which point I found I was next door. This only happened after I'd wandered around a bit, even heading across the street at one point, thinking I heard my dog barking inside and giving me a sound to follow. Turns out it was a different dog. Keep in mind that I only planned to be out there for five minutes, so I was wearing a coat, gloves, shorts, and tall winter boots over my pale legs. I looked ridiculous to start with, made worse by my random bumbling about the street, waving my shovel around. But hey, what are you going to do, right? It happens, and this won't be the last time. I'm not upset, just mildly annoyed at the situation. I generally don't mind winter, and I think of myself as quite good at orientation. But winter takes away every tool I have. Stupid snow.

That's all. I just wanted to rant a bit, because it's annoying to be an adult who gets lost twenty feet from his own house. I know plenty of people here know the feeling well, and can commiserate with me. Anyway, that's all. Thanks for reading, and safe shoveling to you all.
B-dub31 6 points 1y ago
I feel you bro. Snow makes it so hard for me to judge changes in height. Is that the edge of the porch, a snow covered step, or the ground? I navigate around the house by sight and keep my cane in the car if I need it away from home. I have to tread lightly out to get it, only to find the doors iced over. I'm staying in until spring!
QuentinJamesP89 4 points 1y ago
I really can't see anything in the snow either and this has happened to me before. I've ended up shovelling the neighbor's sidewalk by accident (I think she thought I was doing her a favor) and only realized where I was because I heard her wind chimes. I've only ended up in the street once, but after that I usually only shovel when my wife is outside to keep an eye on me.
BenandGracie 3 points 1y ago
I don’t have any vision and I have gotten lost in the snow before. My solution is to take the family dog with me. I can tell her to go home and she will take me in the proper direction.
reddit-and-regret-it 2 points 1y ago
We have an acreage, and get tons of snow. My husband is blind and does the shovelling. When he can he takes the car keys with him so that he can make the horn honk and orient himself. Other times he uses those tile tags and leaves one at the house.
cyclops32 2 points 1y ago
I used to use a wireless doorbell. Put the ringer outside or inside and near a window, and take the button. They have music and are louder than tiles. Hope this helps.
mehgcap [OP] 1 points 1y ago
Using the car as a sound beacon is a good idea. I actually tried using an AirTag's precise location feature to guide me home, but I was too far away to lock on, and too far to hear the sound. Next time, I'll take a tag with me and leave it in the mailbox or something.
TechnicalPragmatist 1 points 1y ago
You can’t beat yourself up for it. Hahaha! I mean you shouldn’t make excuses either, but this was genuinely sounding as if you did try, and you couldn’t help it and this situation was out of your control. I don’t like people sitting there making excuses either, but this doesn’t sound like it one bit.
Superfreq2 1 points 1y ago
Honestly, many sighted people get lost, and even die, feet from their homes every year in the snow all over the world.

Snow sucks worse for us, but it sucks for everyone, so ironically I feel like getting lost in the snow is more equal than most ways a blind person can get lost.
mehgcap [OP] 1 points 1y ago
True enough. Still, this was in daylight, with no snow falling and no real wind blowing. It was cloudy, but that was it. I'd feel better had there been driving snow and howling winds. :)
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